Do you mind your friends not being your referrals?

@youless (87603)
Guangzhou, China
September 24, 2008 10:39pm CST
If you invite your friends and hope they will be your referrals. But they don't want to join it. Will you mind it? I don't mind it at all. Since I find something interesting or useful, so I hope my friends will join it. It's up to them to join it or not. I won't mind if they don't want to be my referrals. On the contrary, I will be happy to my friends' referral.
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@ahgong (10086)
• Singapore
29 Sep 08
Well, it seems it is easier to get a stranger to become your referral than with friends. They are all comfortable with some old forum they are in. And are really reluctant to move on to mylot. Even with the incentive of earning money while chatting. It is a pity. I do not mind if they do not join under me. Just feel that it is a waste as they generate a lot of posts in the other forums. If they can just transfer that kinda posting, I would be making many tens of dollare each month.
@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
30 Sep 08
I am different. It's too difficult for me to have a stranger as my referral
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@ahgong (10086)
• Singapore
30 Sep 08
Hmm... interesting. Why not? I mean, you do not have to meet your referral in life. So as long as the fella signs up and is active, he or she is earning you money. It is beneficial both ways. No?
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@williamjisir (22909)
• China
26 Sep 08
Good afternoon, youless. Speaking of referrals, I think that I will have to read through the sites recommended to me to see if it matches my interest. If yes, I will try to be active, if not, the site will be gradually forgotten. This is about me being a referral of my friends', but as to my friends' being my referrals, it is supposed to be the same to my friends to see how much they like it. You know, everyone shows a different interest, so I never expect my friends to have the same hobby and interest like I have. But once my friends become my referrals, I would be very happy to explain some of the questions they ask about the site or sites within my knowledge knowing ahead of my friends, which is my duty and I won't leave my friends in a puzzled situation. Good day, youless.
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@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Sep 08
I am glad to be your referral. If in the future you find any good and interesting websites, please don't forget to refer me
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• China
7 Oct 08
Good evening, youless. Thank you so much for the BR. I will surely let you know about it if I find some sites that are trustworthy after my knowing about it. Have a good time as always.
@wolfie34 (26877)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 08
Doesn't matter to me at all, in fact most of my friends don't actually use a computer! Strange how it may seem, so it wouldn't be any point recommending them anyhow, although I do tell them about Mylot and how it has helped me and the friends that I have made, but they wouldn't be able to sign up. Friends who have a computer anyhow are already on Mylot but not my referrals, they are friends I have made on Mylot LOL!
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@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Sep 08
But at least you have successfully had me as your referral
@wolfie34 (26877)
• United Kingdom
26 Sep 08
Yes and I am very grateful for that my friend, thank you!
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@subha12 (18462)
• India
30 Sep 08
i have talked with few friends about mylot. one of them joined but never active. i think its no point of saying to other friends. most of my friends think its waste of time.
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@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Oct 08
I don't have an active referral here, too
@gabbana (1815)
• China
26 Sep 08
no choice if they don't want to help. i won't be happy to be frankly, nor will i be mad at them.
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@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Sep 08
You feel unhappy because they don't trust you.
• India
26 Sep 08
None of my friends has joined Mylot. That's coz they are busy people, and even if they join, they won't know what to post. No, I don't mind at all. I have five referrals, and out of those only one posts regularly. LOL!! Cheers and happy mylotting
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@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Sep 08
At least you have an active referral, I envy you
@cjgrooms (4457)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I might throw it out there for them if they had rather not then thats okay with me.
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@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Sep 08
Thanks for your reply.
@ronaldinu (12454)
• Malta
25 Sep 08
I don't mind it at all. ~They have their free will and mind to judge. It's up to them whether to join or not. Although I would like to see them here too.
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@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Sep 08
It's very kind of you
@checapricorn (16072)
• United States
25 Sep 08
[i]Hi youless, I will wish that they will be my referrals but it will be fine for me if it will not be the case..I will be glad to see and have them here and enjoy also the way I enjoy the site![/i]
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@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Sep 08
I have the same thought.
@bombshell (11268)
• Germany
25 Sep 08
that would be nice if friends accepted the referrals but what i have ehared the friends i reffer said its not their work mean s lazy reading and writing but i dont know if it is true.
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@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Sep 08
Thanks for your response.
@4mymak (1796)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 08
nope.. i wont mind... everyone thinks differently.. so what may seem interesting to me may not be interesting to others.. even my closest friends.. so i wouldnt mind if they dont want to accept my 'invitations'.. therefore.. i also do not just accept any invitations.. i normally have a look at whatever they're offering and decide if it will work for me...
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@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Sep 08
I won't mind it, too. But if they can be my referrals, I will be happier
• United States
25 Sep 08
It generally doesn't bother me except when I am always signing up for their things and they never sign up for mine. Or, they go around my referral link and sign up themselves. But, it's really no big deal.
@youless (87603)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Sep 08
That's true.