How many did you hurt before?

Philippines
September 24, 2008 11:19pm CST
Hello Myloters, Nobody can say they did not hurt anybody. Everyone of us did in different ways. I knew I hurt many many people before and some I did intentionally and some I didn't mean but we make this mistake. Its not good thing to do but we are just human we are not perfect. There are people I hurt and I regret that I did that but I am doing my best to at least do something good for theme. But I dont intend to hurt anybody anymore. How about you did you ever hurt somebody? How does it feel for you now when you think about it? Do you feel guilty sometimes? What was the reason you hurted theme? Thanks for your time Myloters Happy Myloting
7 responses
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
i don't know how many i had hurt already but i know there are lots of them i cannot count...some intentionally and so unintentional..there is something in me that always leaves me guilty whenever i hurt someone..even how bad they had been to me i always carry the guilt..sometimes it makes me realize somehow my conscience is always there and i wasn't that much bad after all..some hurt me and i wanted revenge that is why i chose to hurt them back..though i know i can never return back things into good the way it was before... at some point i wasn't aware that i am hurting someone with my acts..someone was mad without me knowing that is why i always prefer they rather tell me what i did so i can fix it..i know when i am at fault and i know when i didn't mean it..
@icegermany (2524)
• India
25 Sep 08
yes you are right that we all intentionally or knowingly have hurt some or the other person. ma be even i have done it, i usually remeber that i hurt the opposite person when i am angry and tell them whatever comes in my mouth and i really realise this when my anger is gone and i realise and i also tell sorry to them but physically iu have hurt my brother once when we were small and i had hit him and and getting relaxed i felt so bad for hima and that was the first and last that i have hurt anyone physically and from then i just try to have a control on my anger. apart from this i dont think i have hurt anyone may be when we are angry i tell a few words and the other person tell a few words for me and thats set not more than this. but intensionally i will never hurt anyone without any reason.
@chinna533 (309)
• India
25 Sep 08
nothing . but i agree that i could have done it unwantedly..
@iskayz (5422)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Hi! Well as much as possible I don't want to hurt anybody. I am very careful in my dealings with other people so I think I have not hurt many people in my lifetime. As far as I can remember I wasn't involve in any confrontation or whatsoever that might have made me hurt someone. If there are any, hurting them is unintentional and I wouldn't be feeling guilty about it cause that's unintentional and just simple misunderstandings. I don't have any enemies right now so maybe that's a sign that I have not hurted anyone. But if there is someone that I may have hurt then that would be my ex boyfriend. Reasons are very private so I wouldn't be posting it here hehe. I still feel guilty about it cause its mainly my fault. In fact I really wanted us to make amends and say sorry for everything but I don't have the courage to do so. Confrontations, misunderstandings are just natural when it comes to dealings with people. I believe there isn't really anyone who would have hurt anybody intentionally. Ciao!
• India
25 Sep 08
I am still believer of the fact that the person with a positive approach towards life and society will not hurt any body intentionally but the person with the negative nature and negative approach towards life and society do commit hurt others feelings intention. Such people suffer in the later part of their life when they are hated and discarded by the society. Write thinking people are accepted by the society because of their good deeds.
@ketybhagat (4125)
• India
25 Sep 08
Hurting is retaliation to someting someone has done or said to make you unhappy. It is very human reaction and everybody hurts somebody or the other at some time. Im sure I must have hurt people too when I retaliate. It makes me feel better once this is off my chest and then maybe I feel bad later on for the things Ive said in my rage. It happens to everybody, not once or twice but m any many times in ones lifetime. Its only the saints and sages who can be excluded from this category.
@shiny00 (14)
• Canada
25 Sep 08
I've hurt a lot of people in my life. Friends, family, boyfriends. You name it. Some of them were intentional, but for the most part I haven't meant to. The guilt I feel when I think about them is unbelievable, especially the people that I lost because of it. I hate hurting people. I've backstabbed friends. I have a horrid relationship with my mother so we always hurt each other with words. Boyfriends, well, that's probably been my main source of pain. I know I'm not a bad person, but things have been done and words have been said that I can never take back.