Marrying the one you loved

Sri Lanka
September 25, 2008 1:50am CST
Many falls in love. Out of them not all get married to the one they loved. Those you who has got married: Were you able to marry the same person you fell in love most? In my case yes, I did.
4 responses
@klaudine (3653)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 08
I want to marry the one I love the most, but I think it is impossible to do now and here. Because not only it is not legal for us to get married but also we don't have a financial security yet. I can't do that without a good preparation. I should prepare not only money, but also mental and make sure that it would be legally accepted by the country so people wouldn't bother LOL
• Sri Lanka
25 Sep 08
Patience is what is required my friends. I wishs you all the best!
@klaudine (3653)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 08
thank you very much my friend! I really appreciate your supportive comment :)
• Sri Lanka
26 Sep 08
You are always welcome
• United States
25 Sep 08
Absolutely. I don't believe in marrying for any reason other than love. People who get married just to get married make no sense to me.
• Sri Lanka
26 Sep 08
Agreed. Thanks for the response!
@joy4you (641)
• India
8 Oct 08
It is not always possible to marry the one your love due to various reasons like superstition, culture, religion etc, but once you are in it then I believe you should at least try give love a chance and make an attempt at loving what you have, not all arranged marriages are failures. Ultimately it depends on what you want out of your relationship, you can choose to whine your entire life about not marrying the one you loved or try to find love in what you have, you never know what you may find. For me I married first then fell head over heels in love, had some scrapes and bruises but still on my feet.
@albino001 (154)
• India
8 Oct 08
real love lasts for ever