Marrying the one you loved
September 25, 2008 1:50am CST
Many falls in love. Out of them not all get married to the one they loved. Those you who has got married: Were you able to marry the same person you fell in love most? In my case yes, I did.
25 Sep 08
I want to marry the one I love the most, but I think it is impossible to do now and here. Because not only it is not legal for us to get married but also we don't have a financial security yet. I can't do that without a good preparation. I should prepare not only money, but also mental and make sure that it would be legally accepted by the country so people wouldn't bother LOL
8 Oct 08
It is not always possible to marry the one your love due to various reasons like superstition, culture, religion etc, but once you are in it then I believe you should at least try give love a chance and make an attempt at loving what you have, not all arranged marriages are failures. Ultimately it depends on what you want out of your relationship, you can choose to whine your entire life about not marrying the one you loved or try to find love in what you have, you never know what you may find. For me I married first then fell head over heels in love, had some scrapes and bruises but still on my feet.