Guys tell me Straight Out!

Philippines
September 25, 2008 1:52am CST
Okay guys, how do you feel when your girlfriend ask you to buy her something? Is it innapropriate? You see i have this experience before with my ex, i ask him for the first time in 2 years to buy me something (cheap by the way). And he DECLINED! Saying its innapropriate for someone to ask (even your girlfriend, huh?!) It was REALLY a TURN OFF moment for me. I really dont get his reason. Maybe you guys can tell me. Is it really innapropriate for YOUR GIRLFRIEND to ask?
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5 responses
@coolmailraj (2461)
• India
25 Sep 08
Hi. No it's not at all inappropriate to ask for something from your boyfriend but it should be something with some logic, you shouldn't ask for things that are of no use even if they are cheap and if you have done just that and still your boyfriend denied you then its his fault. I personally won't mind if my girlfriend asks for something and don't think that others would mind that either.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Funny thing is what i did ask is something to help US to make the long distance relationship easier. He said he dont need the justification and its still innappropriate :(
• India
25 Sep 08
hey fenela....Its absolutely OK to ask your Boyfriend to buy you something...provided you know that the price is within his buying capability.... Why is he refusing to buy u wat u wanted...? dO U SPEND FOR THE GUY...? u really have to ask these questions if you are serious about this guy...
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Im really not used to asking and when i do its really important and of course he can afford it. No i dont spend for him. Good thing is shankari, i DUMP the guy. It still upset me whenever i think about it ;)
• India
25 Sep 08
WELL ....good for you.....:-)that u broke up with him...so tell me do u earn money in mylot?
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
Now im speechless :)) Im trying here, lets see whats in store ;) Are you?
@geekyjock (371)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Haha to be honest with you, what we guys feel if ever girls ask for stuffs is the same or maybe worse than what you felt of being "turned off". It's a big turn off to guys when girls ask for stuffs, maybe in a way it's not that inappropriate especially if you're a long time couple. but it's a rule that girls shouldn't ask for stuffs unless you are being asked. NEVER EVER ASK FOR STUFFS when you are still on the getting to know stage of relationship, a big no no girls. I think it is more appropriate if you would just let him feel that you like something but not tell him straight to his face. I think that's more appropriate
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
We had the relationship going for almost 3 years sir and never i ask for all those years. Just that time because "WE BOTH NEEDED" it. Anyway maybe its not about the money here, its about "TURNING DOWN" your most beloved girl.
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Good day... If your are still in the get knowing you phase or courting phase yes it might be a turn off but as you've said you're already in a relationship and that the item requested is a relatively fair price I think it's ok. I mean I love my girl so even of it's a expensive gift as long as I can afford it heck I'll be more than happy to oblige and buy it for her.
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Exactly! I wish he would start to think like you..thanks :)
@rsa101 (13336)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Well if its just small items then I think its fine with me. If I really like the girl I am courting then I should do what she wants, but of course with the limitation that I could afford the thing she wants. If could not afford then I would also have to decline too.
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Is totally CHEAP. And to think its my FIRST TIME to ask in 2 YEARs being together. Besides i wont ask if i know he cant afford it. Anyway thanks so much :)