Did your husband/boyfriend ever cheet on you.

Canada
September 25, 2008 10:23am CST
was wondering if your husband/boyfriend ever cheated on you, and if they did, did you forgive them, and how do you deal with it?
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• United States
25 Sep 08
Not so far as I know of. Personally, I assume that at some point it may happen, adultry is quite common and I'd be dumb to think that it couldn't happen. I'd be devasted of course but I'd really have to examine the situation to see if I had in anyway contributated to the situation. If so, than I'd find a way to make things better if it was worth it to. If not, I'd have to consider leaving.
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• Canada
25 Sep 08
agreed
• United States
18 Oct 08
are you crazy, i don't care what the situation is..... HE CHEATED and he obviously did not care about your feelings, cause if he did he would not have cheated. If you take him back then you are letting him no that it is okay. Some men will tell their spouse/girlfriend that they have cheated before they actually do to see how they would handle it and then they cheat. If more women would put a stop to taking these cheating fools back then i think it would be less men cheaters. i have a NO Tolerance policy! all women should. to the question, i had a boyfriend once, do not exactly know if he was cheating but we dated for about a year, and i called his phone and a lady answered tellin me that she was his girlfriend. I don't care if he/she was trying to make me mad, but i don't play that and i broke it off, and he kept calling saying he was only trying to make me mad and sooo on, and i changed my number. You need to let him know that you don't play that off from the start, and if he does do something you are unsure about....get rid of him QUICKLY!!!!
@ANTIQUELADY (36489)
• United States
25 Sep 08
i never actually caught him, i didn't try. when a man disappears for days "he ain't' visiting his mama. needless to say he has been gone a long, long time. i talk to him every once in awhile on the computer & he still swears after over 30 years he wasn't. i still don't believe him.
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• Canada
25 Sep 08
that is sad, and i understand you not believing.
• United States
25 Sep 08
My boyfriend (before I got married) cheated on me. It was devastating because I really trusted him. After that it took a long time for me to trust anyone again. I didn't even want to try to work it out with him because he was just a boyfriend and not my husband. My husband has never cheated on me and I honestly don't want to think about what I would do if he did. It would be terrible though.
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• Canada
25 Sep 08
befor i met my husband , my boyfriend i was with cheated on my all the time, i forgave him every time.i was so stupid for doing that, he made me feel so bad about my self. I don't think i could forgive another man again for cheeting. thank you for answering
@Humbug25 (12551)
26 Sep 08
Hello mattcassethan I have now been split from my husband for 2 years and am not sure if he ever cheated on me during our 10years of marriage. I don't really care now if he did but I would be interested to know. I don't think he did but I wouldn't be shocked if ever he did!!
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@cdparazo (5768)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
I don't think that my husband ever cheated on me but I believe that he lied to me a lot of times. It's the reason why I had a failed marriage because I just can't tolerate his lies anymore.
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