Any advice????
By snpyvin
@snpyvin (1518)
Malaysia
September 26, 2008 6:38am CST
Hi all my lotter. I had a friend who is quite handsome and nice but the problem is he isn't so socialize. That why he is lonely and hard to find girlfriend as girl doesn't like quite guy. Any advice to help my friend how to get a girlfriend???
5 responses
@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
27 Sep 08
sometimes,some girl just loves that kind of boy,if he really wants to change the quiet characters in order to attract more girls ,he can have a try,but i do't think that is necessary,everyone has his own way to live,has his unique way to get the love from a girl.
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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27 Sep 08
Hi snpyvin,
Maybe you should find him a quiet girl or just leave him to find a girl himself, you can't force anyone onton anyone, you have to just nature takes its course.
Tamara
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 08
The problem is that he cant find it or even if he find it the girl doesn't like him. So i post this discussion to see if there any advice from mylot community for me to help him sort out the problem. I just hope it happens naturally but my friend seems to be very depress so i waned to help out. That what a friend do right??? but i wouldn't be forcing or throwing girl onto him just advice him hehe.
@gtdonna (1738)
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26 Sep 08
Well your friend must have some kind of hobbies that he enjoy. So what can be done is for him to join clubs that caters to these hobbies. Like for instance if he likes reading, there are book clubs, if he likes Football or whatever sports, there are clubs where people get together for games night, or he can even throw one at his home and have his friends invite their friends over. The best thing to do is find activities that he enjoy and he is sure ot find girls there that enjoys them too, this way they both share something in common.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 08
I friend is not so socialize so i think he wouldn't be joining those club.He likes car modify, teas session, and Adidas apparel but it doesn't seems that alot girl have this kind of interest to me. The matter would be how to get him join those club and make him socialize. I have no idea lols.
@poisonivy27 (125)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
You know what I think, It's sweet that worry over your friend not being able to leave singletown. lol. ^_^
Ok, if you're friend really doesn't like socializing it will be hard to change his old ways right? So Instead of forcing him to get the goods, why don't you bring the goods to him, hehehe. In short introduce nice girls to him. Your his friend you'd know what type of girl he likes. That way even if your pal is not outgoing he'll still have the chance to meet girls and get the hang of meeting girls/people.
Have a good one! ^_^
