What to do with noisy neighbors

@Neriz69 (1042)
Philippines
September 26, 2008 6:48am CST
Every weekend my neighbor which is 2 houses from us have this party at his house. They have mobiles and big speakers around 5 ft and two of them. It's really very noisy. Sunday is supposed to be my rest day, but I can't rest with all the noise. Sometimes they start as early as 4 pm and ends until 2 am. How do I tell them without offending them. The least that I want are enemies. I just want peace and quiet. Your input will really be appreciated. Tahnk you and God Bless.
10 responses
@chiaeugene (2226)
• China
27 Sep 08
have you thought of joining their parties? it is cool to have one and they must be some party freaks to hold one every week. i mean sometime parties are a good way to release stress and basking in some entertainment would liven out our life. have you ask around your neighbours to see if they are also a noise nuisance to them, if yes, you may have a case to approach them voicing you and your neighbour concern. however, if your neighbours do not seem to be offended or disturbed by the noise, approaching them may not be a good idea as they may feel that you are trying to find fault.
@icegermany (2524)
• India
27 Sep 08
its really very horrible, i can know how you might be feeling i had neighbours front of my house and daily they use to put loud music and whole street could listen to that and i think they were running some bussiness also. but it was very difficult for the people like as we were all studying and we need to write our exams, getup early morning and all. due to noise i wasnt able to concentrate on studies and nor sleep properly. so i can really understand your problem, i think the best way is to tell them politely and make them understand your problem if not all neighbours can go together and complain them to stop it. but i think if you are able to make them understand personally is much better and they dont agree you all can go together.
@shana123 (2096)
• India
27 Sep 08
That really irritating to reside in a place with noisy neighbour , dont they need a break or something if they dance and party till 2 am then when will they sleep and get ready to office? I really dont know how do these people exist i cant tolerate noise at all , im like you i would just like to call the police if they pursue to do so inspite of me telling them or otherwise i try to change the place.. GOD bless
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
27 Sep 08
if your neighbors are disturbing you call the law are you can try talking to them first .it sounds like they need a wake up call people wants to rest on sunday they have to work are just chill out.address this problem quickly so they will know.
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
I never had a problem with my neighbors but if that happens to me i will right away report it to the authority. Or the home owners association if there is one in your place. There is no point talking with them personally coz it might end up into argument if they ignore your complain. The best thing to do is let the authority do there job to warn them so this problem will never happen anymore.
@zulito (174)
• Germany
26 Sep 08
explain with a lettler your reasons for rest.. or else call the police
@rainmark (4306)
26 Sep 08
Are you living in a subdivision which have a council? If yes, you can report it to them. If no, well it's a big problem coz you need to deal with them personally. why don't you talk to them nicely that if they can lower down the volume of thier speaker every night coz it really disturbs you and your neighbor around.You can ask help from your other neighbor who has same concerns too. So you have a company to talk with them. Im sure if you talk to them nicely, everythings will be fine. Happy posting.
@bbsr13 (4198)
• India
26 Sep 08
Hello,Neriz! My neighbors are not good people.they always poke their nose in to our affairs so I have no relation with them.They also make lot of noise in the early morning and we can't sleep.Just ignore them,close your doors and windows and live your life peacefully.Thanx.
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
the best thing to do is try to ignore them. it minimizes conflicts and avoid major fights with your neighbor. just befriend them and join them in making noise. LOL
@arnoldream (1332)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
you see these neighbor of yours are having such a good time doing the noisy things you said, and once you took that thing from them oh! you are giving yourself the reason for your neighbor to hate and have something against you which i believe is not your likes also...well if this thing is only sunday i think you can sacrifice your own peace and comfort just for a day for peace sake and instead of offending them if ever you make some cool confrontation...make something that will occupy your time that can take away your bothersome feeling against the noisy sound of your neighbor, or rather go out with your friend or anybody else away from the noise and enjoy your life too...otherwise you end up loser, sad and provoked while your neighbor knowing not your concern are enjoying their bonding and good time together...anyway there is the word of God that says that we should love our neighbor the way we love ourselves...happy noisy day to you...ha ha ha