How easy or how difficult it is for a new person to settle in your city?

Hi friends, I live in a metropolitan city and I admit that settling here can be a nightmare for some people. Recently one of my cousin came to our place and told us that he is having a real tough time here. He belongs to a village from West Bengal and city life is defiantly not suiting him. He is not use to the traffic, pollution and the other hazards of urban life. People come from villages in the cities for better earning opportunities and often gets into more than trouble. They just cannot acclimatize themselves into city egotistic life. I wonder how is your city for new comers? Cheers, Tutul