Boy or Girl ?!

Egypt
September 26, 2008 6:34pm CST
every married couple dreams to have children but some times they prfere to have a specific type..some of them are dreaming to have boys and they are too sad if they have girls and no boys and others prefer to have girls and also sad if they haven't got them.. i know it is god's will and that evry one must be happy by what god have gave him but if you have the choice to choose what will be your choice?! will you choose girls or boys or even both?!and why?! me for myself i hope god can give me both girls and boys ;)
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@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
I wish to have both as well. So that I could experience how to be a dad for a son and for a dauhter as well. Nice topic my friend. God bless us all
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• Egypt
27 Sep 08
yes having both types is something great to know also the difference between treating both ;) god bless you too
@scorpio19 (1363)
2 Oct 08
Hello Milanovich I really wanted a boy first time and my wishes were answered because I got my son he's a 14 yr old strapping handsome fella now and I swell with pride that he's my son and when he laughs at my silliness or even just smiles at me I fill with so much love for him he's my pride and joy........ anyways back to your discussion then I had a girl, secretly I was hoping for another boy but that's ok I can deal with that and have for the past 13 yrs so i'm fully over it now...then my last and final production was a son which again I'd asked for and was answered with my youngest who is such a sweet natured child and always been a pleasure for me and so to my daughter I'm only kidding about her...lol
• Egypt
2 Oct 08
great:) i hope all your childs still your pride and joy forever;)
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@scorpio19 (1363)
2 Oct 08
of course they do..thank.
• Egypt
3 Oct 08
that's really great
@welawai (102)
• Mali
27 Sep 08
It is mostly that there is fathers doughter and mothers son but if I can choose I choose boy, because I woudn't be so worried when I would have a baby girl ... I am a man so I would get crazy when she could go out with "some guy" and kisses with him or go to bed. Damn I would beat all the guys hehehe I would be very proud that my song get leid as much as possible hehe.
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
it depends on the way you brought her up mate ;) so if you brought her up with religion and good habits she will never do what contradicts that and you will be proud of her too..
@welawai (102)
• Mali
28 Sep 08
No, I don't think that religion or good habits could be helpful, everybody wants s*x, well some of them are little bit shy or something but if you look around the all this "good" girls are even worser than all this "bad" girls so I think religon would only make it worser :D
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
religion always make evry thing better ;)
@Anchopy (1453)
• Paraguay
2 Oct 08
Hi there Milanovich! I think that I would choose a boy.. I want to have a son because I want to share things whit him, I think that I'll be more open to talk with a boy than a girl.. but a girl also will be nice because normally girls like better the fathers.. and boys the mothers
• Egypt
2 Oct 08
yes but sometimes the reverse happens ;)
• China
29 Sep 08
No one can choose gender. I will be happy as long as the child is healthy and live happily. Girls are always thought to be quiet and considerate, but parents think they will lose the daughter when she get married; while boys are always active and naughty, but parents think they can bring back a daughter-in-law and never leave home. Girls or boys are equal, they are parents' children, I really don't understand why girls are always looked down upon.
• Egypt
29 Sep 08
great words ;) i agree with you..
@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
28 Sep 08
I would accept and love the baby whether he is a boy or she is a gir. Whatever they say, babies are blessings from God. But if given a chance I would love to have our first child to be a girl because they said, if you're first child is a girl, it would be very responsible and will not give you a hard time. Also, it's easy for me to bond with my kid if she's a girl than a boy which i think would be hard for me because boy has different interest to girls.
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
i agree with you that boy have different interests than girl..but every 2 married persons are formed of a man and a woman sothat they have to know both interests of boys & girls.. nice to meet you ;)
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 08
I hope i can get both too but i want to have girl for the first pregnancy because i can dressed her beautiful, playfull and a little bit easy to take care ... since girl is more obedient than a boy sorry to say but it's just my opinion hehe
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
i know some little boys more obediant than many girls ;) it only depends on luck your boy or girl is obediant or not :D i hope you got what you wish ;)
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
yes our wish was a girl and its a girl.thats why she spoiled and of course daddy┬┤s girl. goodluck to your wish.
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
takecare about her then ;)
@shoeb000 (321)
• India
27 Sep 08
i want both, 1 boy and 1 girl. as i love girl baby and my gf loves boy... so both should be fulfilled
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
i hope you got both ;)
@apples99 (6562)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I think it be nice to have both, but whatever god chooses to bless me with is fine with me, and I would be thankful to have a girl or boy because every child is a wonderful blessing and should be celebrated no matter what gender they are.
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
i hpe you got what you wish:)
• Canada
27 Sep 08
Friend you are right i have seen many people very sad after having girl child, they expect to have boy child as they believe that boy child is free from burden and for girls they have to keep more and more money for marriage and other. I don't mind having girl or boy child as they are god gifted, but the major thing is how you grow the child what you teach them and how you make them self depended. Particularly, in India there are many cases where parents refuse to take girl child from hospital and they through in garbage. It is real bad. one must educate those people who think that girl child is burden.
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
thosos people have troubles for sure in their brains! god want him to have a girl and he refuses god's will! thanks for replying ;)
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
I wish of having a baby girl. And now that i am pregnant i thought about it and wish it is a girl. But i also realized that what really matters is the baby is healthy. I always pray that the baby will be a healthy one no matter what gender. Though i dream of having a baby girl what really matters most to me is that i will have a safe delivery and the baby has no complication. For as long as my child will grow up to be a good person and a loving child it would'nt matter anymore if it is not a girl.
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
i hope you got a healthy baby girl as you wish ;) little baby girls looks very cute :P
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
27 Sep 08
Hi friend,I don't have any preference as I want a boy or a girl but I would love to have both.Only thing that I am concern about is my new born baby should be healthy and that is what matters a lot to me.I don't have a baby yet,but I would love to have it soon,even my partner doesn't have any preference.He/she,will be our own flesh and blood.Happy myLotting!
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
i hope you get both..a healthy boy and a healthy girl;)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I don't have children nor am I pregnant, but when I do I've always wanted both. And I've always thought it would be good to have a boy first b/c I just like the thought of the big brother taking care of his little sister the whole way. As her protector when the parents cant be around like in the teen years. But like someone said before. When the baby comes out you're not gonna be worried about the gender b/c you love them so much no matter what. It'll be an experience either way I think.
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
wise words:) i hope the kids know that their parents love them this much and return all this love when their parents get older :)
@mom4kids (658)
• Canada
27 Sep 08
Well my dream was actually to have both. Then when we decided to have 4 kids I wanted 2 of each. We ended up having 3 girls and 1 boy. My last was the last girl and although I love her to pieces I still long to have another baby boy but we are all done and I am happy with my children and very thankful that I have one boy at least.
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
i hope your 4 kids have a nice and good life :) btw don't love the boy more than the girls ;)
@my2boys (821)
• United States
27 Sep 08
When I had my first child I wanted it to be a girl and it was a boy. When I had my second child I wanted it to be a girl and it was a boy again. I plan on having one more baby in a few years and I am hoping for another boy. I have changed my mind but I will be happy with whatever God blesses me with as I was with my other two.
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
i hope you got what you want ;) but you have to try to had a girl..i think it will be very beautiful feellings ;)
@vmksvmks (413)
• Canada
27 Sep 08
I will choose whatever is born healthy and well You may want a boy or girl but when the baby arrives it makes no difference and i could never never be sad if it was a boy and I wanted a girl I just donot think that way Good Luck Have a Great day
• Egypt
28 Sep 08
yes the healthy one whatever it's boy or girl is the best for sure;)
@Sheepie (3118)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I always thought that a boy would be easier because it's simply less complicated, but then again I don't think it really would get complicated until the teen years, which are pretty much weird for everyone. I couldn't really say. I kind of want just one child to concentrate on, but if I had more, I wouldn't mind both.
• Egypt
27 Sep 08
i hope you got what you want ;) i don't know what you mean by less complicated..but i think that both have the same compixity in diffrent ways ;)
@dragon54u (31651)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I always wanted a boy and a girl. My mother had two of each so I was hoping for half her number! My children were both boys, born 364 days apart, and I'm grateful for my sons. God saw fit to give me those boys, and so close together, for a reason and I've been happier with them than I would with any other combination or age range, I'm sure. I think I'll probably be blessed with a granddaughter to spoil someday.
• Egypt
27 Sep 08
i hope you will be happy always ;) having 2 boys is excellant as when you get older they will support you and takecare of you :)
@jammyt (2822)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
I wanted a girl, my husband waned a boy.. I won. Anyway, we also agreed that whatever God gives us will be great. Also, we want to know the gender early so that we can prepare on what things to buy for the baby. If it's a girl, we veer to the pink stuff. For the boys, more on the blues and greens.
• Egypt
27 Sep 08
i hope you got what you want ;) and yes pink is very loveable by small girls and blue is the best for boys,,i don't know why uptill now :D:D