i miss the past..

@mayrose (323)
Philippines
September 27, 2008 6:01am CST
i try not to think of what we had because i know it won't do me good, i will just make myself feel bad, but sometimes i can' help it. I miss the days we had, i know we have a different life to live now, but i can't help but miss the past. Maybe this all that i can do, just remembering it and smile about it, maybe we are destined to where we are right now.
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@chej18 (915)
• United States
27 Sep 08
Hi Mayrose, I feel like you need a bit comfort.I think it is normal with us to miss the past specially if its a good memory.I had a fellings same as you even sometimes i dreamed about it..If that memory stay and hang with you.You cant never move-on i would not say that you have to forget the past bust just put the past somewhere else then you will feel happy and relief...Just give it a chance the life what you have now.Try not to block the way it is now let the time make everything alright. But then if you think its really not working and after you have tried everything that you can and still failure...Then you have to do something else..Try to meet that person who give you special memory and be clarified what you feel and he feel about it..We are the one who is making our destiny and creating our life, or if we want to be happy that we can all decide...Dont say you dont have a choice coz everytime you have a choice... This thing happened two times w/ me..The first was my 2nd ex-bf i though i was still inlove w/ him.we have very nice memory w/ each other and dreams in the future.We broked up each other in not very clear reason so the feelings stay w/ me and with him..He become someone else and stop studying after we broked-up.And he went to the province to cool down..I blamed myself for it and i thought i still love him...I cant find any better relationship after that..Few years later i decided to meet him and find out my feelings w/ him..We kissed and he said he misses me a lot but i was confused coz when he kissed me i dont feel anything w/ him anymore..I just feel sorry about what he become..Sometimes to solve the problem you just have to face for it..Go on...Have a nice day a big hug for you...I know how you feel..Take care my friend.. Greetings from Che!
@mayrose (323)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
thank you for comforting me, maybe that's all need right now, actually i change myself for the better. I never mess my life i stand up and be brave enough to face what i have done. thank you and God Bless!
@subha12 (18453)
• India
29 Sep 08
it is not very rare though. but actually there is no point in dwelling in it. but there are some happy moments that gives us pleasure at times. some good memories are though ok to keep.
@super_jj (1417)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
Dont worry, friend. THings happen for a reason. Sometimes things dont workout the way we want or expect them to. It could be that there's a lesson to be learned. But we'll never know or learn until we think out of that box, and that is why the hand of fate led us to where we are right now. But dont regret anything, ok? What matters are the memories and the lessons learned. Those are the things that help us grow.