got a mean friend...
September 29, 2008 3:25am CST
hi,friends i've got a problem n i need some help....actually there's a girl in my class n she stays in same hostel as i do...she might be good at heart(being a bit polite to describe her) but she talks too rudely to me n my friend(also my classmate n roommate too)...during our class n practials she never talks to us... never even return a smile...but whenever we have to go for lunch n dinner at hostel's mess she turns up n says "lets go"...not only that we once asked her to get a book from library as my library cards were not available...her she was not getting any book for herself n i was in desperate need of that book i requested her a lot to get tht book for me but she refused n then after a long time when a atlast got that book she came asked for that book i didn't have a herat to say no so i gave it but i don't know how to deal with her....i just want her to be a bit polite, frienly n helpful...what do i do??? please help...
30 Sep 08
hi friend, well i think you hav got a unique situation there!what i prefer in this kind of situations is a face to face talk with her.just talk with her about her behaviour,or how u get hurt due to her responses.i think this will work.and it will even improve the mutual understanding between you two. take care, have a nice day ahead.
29 Sep 08
Don't exert too much effort dear, she must have other "issues" she is dealing with, maybe she has problems or she is maybe just shy. Give her time, maybe you have to distant yourself first. We all come from different personality and background, people are not like what we expect them to be, just stay cool and take control over every situation, just be yourself. Just keep up the good task you have started, show her that she could still be your friend. Have a great day !