do you consider yourself as a patient person?

Philippines
September 30, 2008 4:43am CST
hello fellow mylotters, i am just wondering if you consider yourself as someone who is patient? i am a very patient person but once i am fed up i usually erupt like volcano as what most of the person who knew me well would say. if i am hurt or something i just kept it in myself and kept on forgiving the person who have hurt or did something wrong with me but when i am so mad i would just say it's pay back time. are you patient but doesn't call for payback when you had too much or do you act as i do?
5 responses
@my125125 (822)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 08
I not a patient person, my friend said, I talk fast, sometimes I not have little patient to wait. I feel that I also got a little patient, like listening from my friend when they want to find someone to talk or just listen want they say.
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• Philippines
30 Sep 08
hi there, thanks for sharing your thoughts and have a great day.
@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
30 Sep 08
I would say, I am not a patient person, but I am trying to be... hahahah... Well, there are times that I can hold my temper but I usually retaliate when somebody is angry with me. Much more if they are not reasonable? good if I made a mistake, I can consider to be quiet, though I also give reasons but if somebody is just angry with me because he feels it? wow!!! I easily burst out my side giving my reasons and probably throw things if he wouldn't stop hahahaha...
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
hi there Bebs, i never imagine this side of yours... LOL being a violent person at times. speaking up and giving a piece of your mind helps at times and not just to keep your cool and wait until you tend to be really mad that at times forgiveness would be hard to deal with. thanks for the post and happy mylotting friend. :)
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@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
9 Oct 08
hahahah I think, I am not violent person... I am just used to explain my side but there are people who won't listen to you because they think that they are right and you are wrong!!! do, in order for them to realize it, well, do things that would let them feel? hahahaha
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
hi there Bebs, thanks for clarifying... LOL. have a great weekend my friend. :)
• United States
30 Sep 08
Hey kenchi! Darn, I thought I was the only one in this world that was like that!! Good to meet someone else that goes through life the same way I do. Most of my friends say that I have the patience of a saint. I am very laid back, I don't let much really get to me, but if I get fed up or teed off about an issue, the watch the fireworks fly! My daughters told their husbands that I was a real nice guy, until I got mad. They were advised not to do anything that would get me going. HA! I'm a real wimp and pussycat. Until I erupt! My wife thinks so also. At work, I'm known as easy-going. But an issue has come up over the past year that I have come to be unable to tolerate. I kept it to myself for just so long, then started to let it out slowly. Letting them know how much I disagreed with what they (management) were doing. It built up until I thought that they were no longer listening. So, in an e-mail, I let loose. No swear words, no cuss words, but I let them know I viewed them as stupid and not in their right minds. Point blank, FIRE! Got myself suspended a day without pay!
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
hi there, it is nice to know that somewhere out there someone acts they way i do... LOL. thanks for sharing and wish you a great day ahead, happy mylotting!!!
@joy4you (641)
• India
30 Sep 08
I am extremely patient, however when people test my patience I usually feel very hurt and if it continues then I usually try to distance myself from that person or just tell them how I feel and what they are doing is wrong.
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
hi there, just like you i distance myself on the person that would hurt me much. thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
@mimpi1911 (25454)
• India
30 Sep 08
I think, I am more or less a patient person. I would listen and act patiently and also take things that I shouldn't and for which I am not accountable. Basically cool but sometimes things get over my nerves when I am being irritated purposely. I do lose cool on that occasions. Its important to control anger for it affects our health more than anything else. I know it hurts but try to let go and move on. Thanks.
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
hello there, good for you that you can easily let go of thing even when you are hurt. thanks for sharing your thoughts and have a great day!!!