Why do we ask Why me ...................why not try me!!!

@lovenluck (1068)
India
October 1, 2008 12:54am CST
When something wrong goes wrong in our life we always ask Why always me!!! Why don't we be positive and say try me!! Why are we so scared to face life!! Every situation has a solution so why don't we find a solution instead of finding the solution. I know it's easier said the done but these days i am trying to face every situations with a smile. If it clicks it gives you sweet memories and if doesn't then it gives you experience so in both the situation we gain so there is nothing to losse Just give it a shot and things will work out So never ask why me just say try me!! Thank you happy mylotting
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@rsa101 (16715)
• Quezon City, Philippines
1 Oct 08
A very nice outlook at how face life. I think that is a good advice for those that face life with difficulty. The question "Why me" always sprung in every person's mind. It is a natural reaction but I guess you are right in saying that "try me" attitude should be adapted instead of the latter one. Those words moves you forward than the why me attitude which tends to rather slow you down in moving on with life.
@lovenluck (1068)
• India
1 Oct 08
I ma just tired of running away from life. i too was once of those king "why me" but now i have added positivity in my life and just take every failure as a learning curve. Every time I stumble and stagger i pick myself up ,catch my breathe rest a while and start out all again.
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@rsa101 (16715)
• Quezon City, Philippines
1 Oct 08
Nice outlook indeed!!!
@manoj1502 (854)
• India
1 Oct 08
Its very easy to by words but we should show everything in action. Action speaks louder than words. Keep it mind act according to that. Be positive in everything as you said its good to be positive. But my blood group in O -ve .(Hey just kidding buddy) I agree with my friend everything as soultons.
@lovenluck (1068)
• India
1 Oct 08
I just wrote that too it's easy to say but difficult to execute but however hard it may be to execute but YOu will not learn until you try it. So if you got to do it you got to do it ,no point hiding away from it. Lol And mine blood group is AB -ve Happy mylotting
• United States
1 Oct 08
Not everything has a solution. Not everything is beneficial. Not all bad happenings are learning experiences. Sometimes things really are just plain terrible and there's nothing you can do about it or learn from it.
@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
1 Oct 08
I had both moments "Why me" and "Try me %@#hole" only I can't seem to forget how painful it is but then again I'd rather learn a lesson now than later I do believe there is justice in the end because I haven't done anything wrong things always work out in my favor so basically instead of why me and try me I will say "wait and see"
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
agree. Never regret things that happened to your life..cause its what makes us grow as a person, whether its a good or a bad experience.