Do you write simple English while responding to users who are not good with it?

@mimpi1911 (25464)
India
October 1, 2008 6:36am CST
Mylot has users with varying degree of command over English. Some are really good, some are moderately good and some are not so good. I just want to know when you are interacting with someone who is not-so-good with the language do you try to be simple and clear so that the person can connect to you? Thanks all. PS: This is a very general discussion with no offense meant to anyone.
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@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
1 Oct 08
according to me i havent come across anyone whose having bad command on english language and i somehow dont decide and write the responses whatever strikes my mind i write it. i am always in the hurry of writing more number of discussions and so i always think less and stress less on anything apart from the topic. I somehow dont really underestimate anyone.infact to my surprise i have found many users including you here whose vocabs are really powerful and it than turns out into learning experience.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
1 Oct 08
[b]Its not the issue of underestimating anyone. There are amazing writers here and I just love interacting with them. When I post this discussion no where I am saying that I am good with the language. But there are always people who are above you and who are below you. That's the way of the world. It has been always like this, in all spheres of life. [/b] Hope you got me right now.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
1 Oct 08
[b]Its not the issue of underestimating anyone. There are amazing writers here and I just love interacting with them. When I post this discussion no where I am saying that I am good with the language. But there have always been people who are above you and who are below you. That's the way of the world. It has been always like this, in all spheres of life. [/b] Hope you got me right now.
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@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
1 Oct 08
i never took you wrong but that was my way of thinking.no offence met dear.
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
1 Oct 08
I think I tend to tone down my English with pretty much everybody mimpi! I am one of those annoying people with an extensive vocabulary so need to make a constant effort to keep myself grounded on this front! Same goes for my conversational English. Being in non-English speaking countries all the time means that I regularly end up speaking in a manner that makes perfect sense to me of course but gets blank stares from everyone around me! lol. And people by nature are reluctant to say they don't know what a word means so I need to always be wary of this. On mylot though, I do think that I tend to respond to a user in a similar fashion to the way they engage me in the first place so in that sense I guess I do simplify things further when applicable, yes.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
3 Oct 08
I know what you mean. You are one of those exceptional users here who can seriously think on a profession change. Writers are in great demands, as you know and I really look forward to you materialising on this power on something more good. This is a nice place I know and a compilation of all the interactions that you have here is a book in itself. But I want nothing short of a best seller. So try to think over it and let me know. I am serious.
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
1 Oct 08
At most times i say what comes to my mind and try to respond in as simple and as easily manner as possible. Unless the discussion itself is one which requires me to raise my level of vocabulary. If i get the impression that the person who posted the discussion has a lesser degree of command on the language then I would conciously attempt to post a response in as simple a manner as possible. And the feedback i get in the form of a comment if any ,would then make me know for sure as to whether the person has understood it or not. If not i would still try making it as simple as posible. It's a very pertinent post Mimpi and serves as a excellent reminder to us on how important it is to be sensitive and to be able to variate on the use of the language.It's important for the reason that we have members and friends from all over the world and many of whom do not have as good a command over the language. Thanks
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
7 Oct 08
I most certainly agree on the beauty and importance of plain speak Mimpi.Further adaptbilty is the key and our concious endeavour towards it makes the difference.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
3 Oct 08
Alok I really appreciate and could not have expressed it better. Many times, I have found that I am being interpreted differently by both users who are better or lesser than me. That's makes things little difficult and try to adopt myself likewise. many times I find my writing style is affected by the discussion itself or more specifically the user himself. The conversation take the course of how the comment was thrown. The beauty and the effectiveness of plain speak is enormous and we must all aim at that no matter what. That makes things easier and sweeter. Thanks for enriching this post, as always.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
6 Oct 08
Hi Mou nice discussion well for sure i am not good in english so whenever some one write difficult english, i dont reply to them, i just ignore and go for new one Take care
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
10 Oct 08
That's okay.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
10 Oct 08
Hmmm, OK
@sherputt (35)
• India
1 Oct 08
We should so that rather to accommodate our friends on my lot to make them understand the topic or issue in the easiest way and one more thing should we keep in mind that we should correct him/her(where it is possible to do so)so that in future he/she should try to improve the medium of common discussions.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
3 Oct 08
Hi sherputt You have said something which should ideally be the case but I fear that people will not take your nice gesture of correcting in right spirit. So, I would better not do that. Er learn from our mistakes and by reading through others posts. We must learn from the process of interacting itself and not from bring pointed outright. That would bring in a lot of unwanted animosity and more so when we are not authority over the language. Thanks for you thoughts.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
1 Oct 08
Hi sherputt and welcome to myLot. I disagree about correcting other myLot members, preferring to lead by example rather than through criticism, which might be seen as negative. On the other hand, it is good to disagree with someone as long as we do is agreeably.
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@zhuuraan (961)
• United States
2 Oct 08
I also disagree with correcting people, unless they have explicitly asked to be corrected, and in that case I'd probably add them to friends and send them a PM, rather than correcting them publicly.
• India
2 Oct 08
Well, i believe there are few members in MyLot whose primary language is English. For most of the NyLotters, english is the second language. They learn it as a part of academic course. You cannot be very expert in a language which is not your mother tongue. There must exist some folly whatsoever effort you give behind it. For this you have to honor everyone's skill of english provided, it is comprehensible. Moreover, there is a condition in MyLot guideline that everyone MUST honor fellow MyLotter's english even if it is very weak. No one is permitted here to discuss other's english or ridicule it. MyLot is so much nobel in this regard.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
3 Oct 08
Thanks for pointing out that. We must respect everyone's thoughts no matter what. Thanks.
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Oct 08
well i guess i responded to the simplest english i know of regardless of whether the member are good or not...since im asian sometimes i misinterpret some phrases and likewise with some of my posted discussion...well that is beyond my control and i cant do nothing about it..
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Apr 09
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@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
Foremost I'd like to congratulate you on the number of responses you generated on this particular discussion. I personally haven't been able to produce great discussions here, to the point of getting at least fifty replies. The maximum replies I got so far here in mylot community only totalled to more than thirty responses. Anyway regarding your query, I don't consider myself as a great writer of English but modesty aside, I know simple English well enough to be able to speak or converse with other people and write an English composition so that others may understand what I'm trying to convey. So, when responding to discussions created by other people here who aren't so good with the language, I don't need to adjust my English words just for them. If for instance, other people think that I use some terms which are not so popular English but still an English word, I guess it would benefit them somehow because it should develop their initiative to look these words up in the dictionary and hopefully, they'll be able to use these terms in replying to other posts.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 Dec 08
thanks for all your responses.
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@suruchi86 (1873)
• India
20 Apr 09
I'm so sorry for coming in so late. Yes, I believe in simplicity. One's language should be simple and clear to communicate the message to one and all.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Apr 09
That's Ok. I am glad that you dropped in.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
21 Oct 08
Yes, I do.. I just write how I would normally write. I write in a simple manner where they can understand it.. I always try to write where my writing is understood, whether or not it is for someone whom does not understand English that well..
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Apr 09
I realy appreciate.
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• United States
10 Oct 08
I try to, I know some people are from different countries and English is a second language, sometimes a third but I feel that most who discuss things here are very well versed, and what a great place to learn English.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Apr 09
I absolutely agree with you.
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• Philippines
1 Oct 08
I understand that this is a site comprises of many people of different countries, and to that we couldnt expect good English. A simple, clear English must be delivered to be understood, I think I did tried my best to use the simplest English that can be understood by all. But sometimes, I have to admit as a non-english speaking person myself, I find it difficult to relate others with their discussions. But fair to say that no one here as far as I have encountered had a highly hard to comprehend English, good one Mimpi !
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
3 Oct 08
Well said torchablazed. We should be able to comprehend and get comprehended for a better understanding of the topics. Or else the objectivity of the forum is lost somewhere. Happy 'Lotting.
@w1986114 (158)
• China
2 Oct 08
Hi, I just want to say that I feel the same way as you.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
21 Dec 08
I'm not really good in english but i try to respond the best that i can for them to understand my way of writing english.But i use the simpler way because thats what only i can.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
22 Dec 08
I really appreciate msedge.
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@bubbletush (1332)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
I always take into consideration the person who created the discussion. Some are not really well versed in English and it is but appropriate to respond using simple English. We should always be considerate of others because some are really joining myLot to either learn or practice the English language.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Apr 09
I really appreciate your thoughts bubble. e must be considerate and help others improve slowly.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
10 Oct 08
Hmmmmmmm i am sure uin future u will right very simple and easy english to me, Right
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Apr 09
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@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
4 Oct 08
[b]hi mimpi1911! well i my vocabulary is not as wide as other users here are and i manage to keep my message simple and yet understandable because most of the users here are not from an english speaking country. and besides, you don't have to elaborate on things just so you can show others of how good you are with english construction. it is a matter of communicating with the owners topic and clearing things out with your points of view. happy posting and happy mylotting![/b]
@rkrish (3003)
• India
1 Oct 08
I am always used to keep the simple and easily english rather than using words which needs dictonary to provide meanings. I prefer to write short lines which are very easy to understand as well.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
3 Oct 08
Thanks krish.
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
1 Oct 08
Hi mimpi, This is a good discussion for me, I don't have to dig deep to be able to respond, lol. My English is not so good, that's why I always write the simplest words that I know. And I am an open minded person and always willing to learn. I would say that if I don't know the words and don't understand the sentence, I am lucky that I can ask help from my husband and I will always appreciate if someone will correct my English as long as they are patient with me. Thanks, and have a nice day.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
3 Oct 08
Yeah, that's true you can always get help from your husband who is terrific with the language. Have a great day.
@Metalchick (1391)
1 Oct 08
This is something i've never really thought about on here I just tend to treat people pretty much the same and type away till my hearts content. As long as I put my point of view across it's never really worried me. Perhaps sometimes my sentences may be a little more challenging for those with a slimmer understanding of the english language but then again it could also be a benefit and could help improve their vocabulary on a whole.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
3 Oct 08
Metalchik I used to be like this until recently when someone with 'slimmer' command over the language told me that she couldn't get me. Then I realised and tried to simplify for her. I agree with you there on improving on the vocabulary part. That makes much sense. We can raise the standard here thus. Thanks.
• United States
2 Oct 08
With all due respect, I am not going to use "simple english" to "dumb down" my ability to express myself. I certainly respect and understand that others may have a difficult time with some of the more advanced parts o this language, but let's be honest-this website was developed in english, is shared by thousands who speak english and is intended as a community where people can communicate with each other...in English. The point is this...I am not trying to disrespect anyone who speaks poorly. On the contrary, I think that by using more advanced english, I encourage others to "raise the bar" a little and learn some of the finer nuances of this language. The other part of it is this....if you don't like what I say or how I say it, I respect that...but I hate reading poorly written discussions...I will challenge you to increase your english skills and see how you can improve your writing style. Again, this is not meant to disrespect, simply to say that I am raising the bar a little and asking others to reach a little higher too.