I hate my sister!!

China
October 2, 2008 12:51am CST
One year ago,abruptly,I got a sister unintelligible.She is ten years senior than me,and she is studying for her doctorate now. She is my uncle's dau. but now they dropped an acquaintance for some reason.My mom always cares about her and asking her to move into my home. First of all,I didn't mind that,and I worshipped her study,because I'm just a junior college student. I used to didn't mind she wore my clothes every day,I shared anything of mine with her,even my favorite. Maybe,that's why she always likes to follow me wherever I go. She likes to scartch me and leans on my shoulder,she never stops to think how I feel whatever she dose, she isn't bother about trifles.Sometimes,I even think she is so false... The most intolerable is she enjoys concerning my ideas,even my secrets. I think I have lost my own world... When my family go out,my parents often tell thier firends insolently:"My niece is a doctor!" yeah,nobody can think how I feel,say nothing of my sister.
3 responses
@JOIEMARVIC (2342)
• Philippines
2 Oct 08
hi phoebusileon! welcome to mylot! I already felt the way you are feeling right now.But this was not from a relative but from the daughter of my mothers friend. The girl and I goes to school together,we are of the same age.Were classmates.Her mom and my mom were friends since they were kids.She is prettier than me,smarter than me.Practically i was a "B type" while she was an "A type".I have practically no problem with it since were good friends.We have a nice relationship as friends. The things that irks me off is that my mom,whenever she goes out with friends of have friends come and visit to the house,she ends up bragging about her friends daughter(my friend).She evens go along a list of things that my friend does better than i do.and man,it feels so bad.She is not even my sibling in the first place.we do not even have blood bond,so what't the bragging and comparing for.it really felt bad. I should have tried talking to my mom about that,but the comparing and the bragging eventually went away as we grow older.try talking about that with your mom.Problems not well communicated will remain to be problems.Besides,your mom will listen,your are her daughter right.If you cant do it at the moment,try improving yourself.Do things that will please your mom that your cousin cannot do.. But the best way is talk to your mom.. Hope i was able to help
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• China
2 Oct 08
My friend told me the same way:talk to my mom... But...what kind of result I can get? Nothing except she won't flaunt my sister. My sister will continue inhabit my life all the same. Sometimes,she likes my tail.
@ahvhec (23)
2 Oct 08
is she your sister or your cousin?whatever relationship the two of you has,you should not hate her.hate will do you no good.know the reasons why she is doing those things to you.maybe she idolizes you,or maybe she envies you.know the root of the problem before doing drastic actions
@PRIYANK1992 (1678)
• India
2 Oct 08
Why you hates your sister.You should take care of her.You should not think like this about her.
• China
2 Oct 08
Take care of her? Well,she is ten years senior to me and she is very very healthy! @o@........
• China
2 Oct 08
Take care of her? Well,she is ten senior than me and she is very very health,OK!?
@khatri_50 (225)
• India
2 Oct 08
I have two sister one is younger than me other is ealder than me .both of them have love and effection for each other but they never thought about me and remind me at the time of neccssity and show love to me .some time i feel it very much and feel ignored but husband told me not care for them u are not less than those , keep youself in high spirit.
• China
3 Oct 08
Thanks for responding. Yeah...sometimes ,I try to ignore everything about her,but I can't. She arounds me all along,I often feel like she is my shadow! I don't know how to cast off her,I don't know if I should abide it right along...