When you dont get a proper response from your loved ones .......?

@sumiirajj (1983)
India
October 2, 2008 4:06am CST
Hi friends,Whether it is your spouse or lover when you try to contact them and express your love to them and if they dont respond well and dont understand your love, how would you feel?Will you feel disappointed or would you take it easy thinking that they are busy with work?Would you expect them to express their love for you at the sametime you express? Share your opinions please.
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@Avi_Gan (191)
• Philippines
2 Oct 08
My husband is pretty much a great guy but sometimes he gets too engrossed with playing poker at facebook. Whenever I ask him about something important like schedule or finances, or when I want to be cuddled or comforted and he's playing, he grunts his answers or just pats me in the head. Like he's physically there but he's not really listening to what I'm saying or tuning me out, he pretty much, ignores me. But I know that he doesn't mean to hurt my feelings and so I don't get angry or miffed. What I do is, I wait for us to be alone in the car and while he's driving and can't do anything, I get him back by bombarding him with all my questions. And then he can't ignore me!
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
2 Oct 08
Hi friend,I face this situation often,as he would be engrossed in his own thoughts and never pay any heed to our talk.I get disappointed ,but I know he is busy thinking about his work.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
@salonga (27998)
• Philippines
2 Oct 08
It's disappointing if you don't get back the response you are expecting but sometimes we really have to understand our spouse. I know when my spouse is busy and when he is I do not disturb him. There are times when I know he is tired and that is the time I'd give him some massage so he could rest. It's just a matter of understanding the circumstances. We have to be sensitive to how circumstances are affecting our spouse.
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
2 Oct 08
Hi salonga,Yes its disappointing when our spouses dont respond when we need them ,but I understand that they cant respond to us all the time when we need them.So I wait for the time when he is free.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
• India
2 Oct 08
Hi friend,My wife calls me whenever she feels lonely and needs me so I can understand her and express my love to her .She feels very happy because I am there for her whenever she needs me.I dont ignore her calls because I can understand her well .Few words spoken and expressed by me makes her happy.Even when I am busy I spare few minutes for her.
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
2 Oct 08
Hi friend,Your wife is very lucky to have you.Both are made for each other.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.