What will you tell your date if he wants a kiss on your first date?

@Masmasika (1921)
Philippines
October 3, 2008 12:06pm CST
Kiss on your first date? He must be kidding, aren't you suppose to be talking and knowing each other for the first date? If the man asks for a kiss on your first date then you have to be more careful. Watch out, he must be a someone who kisses and say goodbye.............
8 responses
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
i'd tell him frankly that he's too fast and ask him how sure he is that i like him. i hate guys who are overconfident about themselves that they think they could get everything they want.
@rama80rl (53)
• India
5 Oct 08
I am married ,before marriage I don't do these type of kisses and love, I don't like kissing on the first date
@fordgtdeb (131)
• Australia
4 Oct 08
agree and i have had ones that expected alot more than just a kiss on first date so they got the bums rush and that was only a couple of years ago lucky i found a decent man and eventually we got married.
@cbreeze (1205)
• United States
3 Oct 08
I don't like kissing on the first date. As a matter of fact, I'm not too fond of kissing. I know that sounds bad. But I'm not fond of open mouth tongue kissing. It is something I reserve for a man when I really care about him. So definitely NO first date kisses. I have no problem telling a man that I don't kiss on the first date if he attempts it either.
• United States
4 Oct 08
I think it depends on what kind of kiss it is. If its a little peck on the cheek as we say goodnight, i have no problem. But if he wants a full on lip lock, tongue included, i would be a little cautious about him.
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
I never kiss a guy on our first date. If a guy do that then i will lost interest of ever seeing him again. I find guys who do that disrespectful to women in general. How could they expect a women to give them a kiss when they barely knew each other. Though i never experience dating someone like that but if i had a daughter i will surely teach her never to let a guy kiss her at there first date.
@patgalca (18180)
• Orangeville, Ontario
3 Oct 08
I think it would depend on how attracted to the guy I was. I have been out with a couple of guys who didn't try for a first kiss, and I'm glad because I wasn't at all attracted to them. There was only one guy who I was slightly attracted to, let him kiss me and totally regretted it. That kiss said "no spark". Unfortunately I didn't let it stop there (I was rebelling). This was awhile back but I doubt things have changed... once they get the kiss they probably expect to get the rest. That's what it was like 25 and 15 years ago. It's probably worse today.
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
kissing - kissable lips
"I have a contagious lip allergies caused by some cosmetics I used recently" is what I would tell the guy if I didn't like him. If I did, nothing needs to be said.