Is there exist true friendship between a boy and a girl

China
October 5, 2008 3:10am CST
Sometimes,people can hardly understand this troublesome feelings.The boy knows that,he can't help missing her when he's lonely.Truly,he also knows that,she's just one of his friends.He find it hard to leave her alone,though he has a lot of female friends. He feels helpless when she ignore his feelings.He tried to foget her,but the image seemed to become more clear in reality.Maybe ,it's not what it should be. He cares every female friends of him.He's willing to comfort them whenever and wherever,for fear of hurting them,every one of them. And he's puzzled.
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@dieorfly (764)
• Slovak Republic
5 Oct 08
I don not believe in such friendship from boy's point of view, on the other hand I think girl can consider boy just as friend and nothing more. If boy want to be friend with girls it is 99% because he likes her appearance and want something more but it is too shy (or there is other barrier) why he does not start to chat that girl up immediately. So he tries to appeal to girl hoping she will start feeling something more then friendship. But usually this will never happened and the friendship will be ruined soon or later.
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@ddp_dev (184)
• India
5 Oct 08
no in today,s world there is no existence of true friendship between a boy and a girl it is due to the social reality that society thinks about them
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• Malaysia
5 Oct 08
Wow, is kind of complicated feeling for the situation for both the character. But believe or not, true friendship between a boy and a girl do exist. How to knows that, when either one of the party is engage and ready for marriage and he/she is still congratulate to the other one, then it means that all the while their relationship is extremely only till friendship. So, would suggest he/she can think of what if situation as above to clear their doubts.
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• India
5 Oct 08
See My Friend Girls Are Simply Awesome They Make Friendship wid us and be wid us still they get bored of us ..... they will simply forget about u when they dont need u ..... so just do normal friendship wid a girl and dont interfere in her life matters and dont take risks in her matter ........if u do so wid ur friend u may be automatically changed as a lover who cares for her and miss her at every time when ur lonely its my experience so just do normal friendship wid a girl do not interfere in her life matter
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• China
5 Oct 08
One of my closest friends told me about two years ago that it was very difficult for a boy and a girl whose ages were similar to keep friendship for long .There are many reasons to explain why.His talk leaves me a deep thinking .In my opnion ,since it is so difficult ,why not just let the relationship be ?You have no right to ask others to do anything he or she doesn't want to .What you could do immediately ,however ,is that you just control your own feeling ,and try to keep pure frienship with him or her.
@lak2jai (807)
• India
5 Oct 08
It is very clear that it is possible to have a good frienship between from a boy and a girl. I know many good combination of these friends and they are happy. But after they got married around 50 % of the people get broken their link. But some still continue as it is and enjoy their life and it is much helpful to both of them and their family
@sharra1 (6342)
• Australia
6 Oct 08
Yes men and women can be good friends and they can also be more. Some of the best relationships began as friendships and I think it is the best thing to base a marriage on. From the sound of it you are fond of one of your female friends and not sure about your feelings. It is not unusual for a friend to be more than that but you need to find out if your friend feels the same way as you. She might not and you will need to deal with that. Talk to her about your feelings and see if she feels the same. If she does, fine, if not you need to work out if you can accept that and remain friends.
@abd264 (21)
• India
6 Oct 08
hi friend I believe that in most of the cases there exist no such friendship between a boy and a girl.While going with the saying "opposites attracts" i think that a boy and a girl can not maintain their friendship someday or the other this friendship will turn into something like love or else. they may spoil their friendship amd may start hating each other
@amlegend (945)
• Pakistan
6 Oct 08
i don't feel that they can be friends because there is always a chance for the tic toc and it can destroy their lives or maybe their families and i think that as far studies yes it could be and one needs it too but for fun and leisure not a supporter and if the friendship is childhood then it is a different thing.
@lql0360 (31)
• China
6 Oct 08
I thind that really exist between men and women are the feelings of the people itself is a kind of emotional complexity of the animal, perhaps driven by a number of interest together,I think the kind of feelings do not last long.
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
I'm sure my male friends love me as a friend. They too care for me as well as to all of my girl friends. I know true friendship can exist between a man and a woman. My guy friends often drape their arms around me, often holding my hand, but we've been friends for more than 5 years now and there is no malice amongst us. My guy friends are all gentlemen. Though I must admit some of my friends did court me at the start of the friendship but years have passed and they've "accepted" the fact that we can only be friends...
• Egypt
6 Oct 08
no there is nothing called friendship between a girl and a boy..any one reach this case and become in need for a relation ship between him and a girl he must prepare himself for a marriage and a stable life.. why you need to have friends of the other gender?! whay it is so important that a boy have a girlfriend or vise versa?! friendship between a girl and a boy has no meanning except if they were married and then they can do whatever they want but before this i don't think so..
6 Oct 08
i know how that is. But i dont have alot of female friends. But its hard to leave a person alone sometimes when u care more then they want. Just tell her how u feel and hope they understand
@1hopefulman (38656)
• Canada
6 Oct 08
Of course!
@arpitaman (170)
• India
5 Oct 08
Yes i think there is YOu see when a boy and a girl become friend they are just friend but when they start maturing up them then there is a natural attraction between them. Sometimes it's hampered because of what kind of society you live in in, sometimes insecurity and somtimes even infatuation one is unaware of. So if u r friends with a lot of girls and an some of them r jelous of u being frnds with other some arent. Well when they are angry i is assumed that a booy should step forward and say sorry as it's the way it goes dear they are girls and need to be treated with repect as far as friend ship goes a girl nd a boy can be vey good firnds if relationship issues dosen't get involved in I married my school firnd so i dont think so there is a problem and i m still in touch with all the others Good luck dear
• United States
5 Oct 08
I had a girl that was my friend but she was also the hottest girl in my school. I use to hang out with her everyday, and then i started liking her and she started liking me. But it would have been way to awkward so we never ended up going out and that wrecked are friendship we never talk any more and we are just pissed at eachother its been about a 1/2 a year now and i have just forgot about her. SO NEVER TRY TO DATE YOUR BEST FRIEND
@clarkmy (428)
• China
5 Oct 08
friendship does not involve two sexes.gal a gay.it defines a relationship as 2persons loving each other. if at one point,a girl is avery good friend to aguy,but just a friends it possible that this friendship transform into remance?well...i know guy for almost ayear ,we care a lot about ezch other,we've talked about so many things,our most intimate details and problems and gears and everything else,but..he says that .at least for now.we acn only be friend,i would like to know if,by any means.by my efforts,i can turn this friendship into more,,into love , some people care juse as a friend while others they just wait for the right moment to be with you ,so my advice is stay calm ... a old saying is that the real friendship never exsits between boys and girls do you believe that?