I Recently Got Married..Now I Regret It....

United States
October 5, 2008 12:42pm CST
On Sept 18, 2008 I was married to the girl of my dreams- After my first marriage I thought that I would never marry again- I thought marriage is a waste of time and all it is is a bussiness- But the woman I married I tought was the perfect one, it seems that I was wrong- We got married at the court house on the spur of the moment- I told noone nor did we invite anyone- I did not tell my best friend, who I asked to be my best man- I went to his house the other day and told him, and he was happy for me so him and I celebrated and we had a couple of beers- My wife was at work, I wanted to share the news I was extremly happy- My wife was not around- However, she was extremly mad because I drank with him- I spent a day calling her on both of her cell phones, everytime I call her she has some excuse of why she didn't get my call, her phone wasn't on at the time I call, it is not working right, the battery died-I can't even see her unless I am walking down the strret by chance- It is though I have to make an appointment to see her- I fell now that we have goten married she doesn't want to be with me- I understand she works, I shold at least be able to get a hold of her on the phone- Than I get a hold of her and someone else answers her phone, she tells me that peron was playing games on her phone and that she was mad at me for celebrating with my friend and purposly did not answe the phone whe I called- And than from work called the police on me from work wher 20 cops, a helicopter and 2 police dogs busted down my door and ransacked my mother's home- I understand she doesn't like me drinking, but she was at worl I haven't seen her for 3-4 days, what is wrong with that- We have been married for 3 weeks now and I am in the process of filing for an annulment/divirce- I no longer want to be with her, do I work it out or do I move on--I feel that my first thought that marriage is a waste of time- She has no time for me period- What should I do?????????????
3 responses
@checapricorn (16072)
• United States
16 Oct 08
[i]wow..this is sad! I wish you can just sit down and talk about the issue...this is not so big! Explain to her that you are very happy and that you just want to celebrate! i hope you can talk about the problem since marriage life is sometimes like that but when there is love and understanding and open-communication, there is no problem that a couple can't solve![/i]
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
16 Oct 08
that's really being immature to even prolong the fight for just a small mistake. she's a bit of a psycho lol. sorry. but yeah you can go ahead and talk to her. file for a divorce then. if you and her are not really happy with the relationship then it's not advisable to be together as a married couple
• United States
6 Oct 08
You made a promised not to ever drink again if I would come back to you and marry you. You beat me and I said I would never have anything to do with you again if you drank or laid you hands on me. As for the phone, I had no minutes and yes I saw you Wed. to give you money because you are not working. I talked to you on Friday night and you were drunk already celebrating our marriage. Then you call and leve a message on my email stating we made a mistake? I feel you have a drinking problem that causes you to loose you train of thought. One day you love me, then when you drink you hate me.