do you think this is true about love?

@jhl930 (3605)
United States
October 6, 2008 6:01pm CST
i have always heard that you shouldn't go looking for love when its meant to be it will find you and it will be when you least expect it and i have to say thats what has happened to me honestly i wasn't looking for anything but i have found a girl that really loves me and i love her, so i would have to say that its true because at the time i didn't really want anything serious but changed my mind after talking to her for a little while and now its been close to eight months...so do you think its true that you'll find it when you least expect it? i would like to take this time to thank you for taking the time out of your day to come by and read and review my discussion and hopefully answer, i hope that you all had a great weekend and that you have a great and safe week, thanks again for taking the time!
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@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
6 Oct 08
Yes I believe that to a certain extent, I mean its no good just locking yourseld away waiting but if you go out and enjoy life there is every chance one day you could meet someone but deliberately going out on the hunt so to speak can lead to mistakes....
@jhl930 (3605)
• United States
6 Oct 08
i think that you are right...i mean honestly i dont think you will find it when you just stay locked up but i think you shouldn't just look for love, thanks for taking the time to reply!
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@Phillipa (33)
• Bahamas
6 Oct 08
i believe it is i have the same story i have ben single for about 4months before i meant my now boyfriend which is long cuz am like a boyfriendolic i jus give up on love and when i was least expecting it i found the boy of my dreams but after being hurt so much some how i messed up and went on a date with another guy my guy found out now my relationship is close to over SO DONT MESS IT UP!!!!!!!! LIKE I DID
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@Sheepie (3118)
• United States
6 Oct 08
Not always, not always. A lot of people have to work for the person they really want, that happens a lot. Sometimes it takes searching, and you're the person who is found, the person who found someone, or you found each other.
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@Humbug25 (12551)
7 Oct 08
Hey there jhl930 I couldn't say if it was true or not though I can't say it has ever happened to me. I went looking for love and found the wrong person!!
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
i kinda believe that love comes when you're not looking for it. it happens to most of us all the time. it's also better that way compared to waiting so long just to be dismayed because the one still hasn't come.
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
I would agree with you. I know a friend who is not looking for love but love have found her. Her fiance is an Australian and she is a filipino. My friend's aunt show her picture to this guy. The guy went to the Philippines to see my friend and they fell in-love. Now they are to be married this October.
@1hopefulman (32461)
• Canada
7 Oct 08
I'm happy for you, that you have found love or that love has found you. I'm not really looking that hard but nothing has come my way. Well some things have come my way but not what I am looking for. Since I have eyes I will be on the lookout but maybe someone will find me. I guess I'll do a little of both.