Can Love and Angry go by hand in hand

@Sreekala (18781)
India
October 7, 2008 7:12am CST
Some people are getting angry very easily. But most of them are loveable. They can easily get out of the same feeling. I happened to hear some conversations about love and angry. If you love somebody then only you felt angry on the same person for some reasons. I felt it is true sometime. You can't get angry on a stranger! They must be either your friend/sister/brother/son/daughter/partner. What is your observation in this regard? Please share it.
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@dpk262006 (54812)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 08
Good point made. You mean to say you can get annoyed with those near and dear ones, whom you have some relationship and whom you know very well. Getting annoyed or getting angry is a one of the common traits in all of us. When things do not go our way, we tend to get angry. If our anger is for a short duration, then it is alright but if we are going to prolong it.......then it starts causing troubles. It is a matter of mutual understanding that whom we love, we have every right to get angry with her/him, provided it is for the relevant reasons and it is short-lived. Very Good Post.
@Sreekala (18781)
• India
11 Oct 08
Hi Deepak, yes it a common trait to getting angry very easily. I think 'angry' is the only one emotion we can show very easily or we can understand very easily.(lol)I agree that if it is short-lived it won't harm any relation. But it depends on the individuals. Thanks for the participation and have great weekend.
@dpk262006 (54812)
• Delhi, India
13 Oct 08
I agree our anger gets reflected and visible very soon but sometimes we cannot help it.
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
13 Oct 08
yes that is right.
@cupid74 (11397)
• Pakistan
8 Oct 08
Hi Dear I agree with u infact Love and Anger Go Side By Side when u are attached to some one, U attached lot of Expectations as well, as u become more demanding too, And in that case if u dont like some thing u get angry or Hurt, And show it to ur loved one, with trust that he/she is going to take it positively and will understand why u r angry/hurt and compensate u. Take care
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
11 Oct 08
Hi Cupid, Really I loved your explanation. Thanks for the wonderful lines. Have a great day. You too take care.
@cupid74 (11397)
• Pakistan
11 Oct 08
Thanks for liking it, i am glad that u like it have nice and happy week end ahead of u Take and Enjoy bye
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
13 Oct 08
ok thanks, and same wishes to you too.
@AKRao24 (4248)
• India
7 Oct 08
You are exactly these! Love and anger are two extremes of your emotions. You will become angry on the person about whom you have some concern, you love and you care for! You never have anger fror a stranger! But if some one close to you either your own family member or friend, hurt you then you are obviously would have anger agaist him.This is in fact a possessiveness and take it granted attitude of ours which we never realise and these things lead to jelousy and envy agaist the person if you feel that he/she is not paying sufficient attention to you as expected! I think I am claer in passing on the message to you! Thanks, it was an thought provoking topic of discusion you have selected and I liked to participating in it!
@Sreekala (18781)
• India
11 Oct 08
Yes you clearly said your viewpoint. I really appreciate it and completely agree with you. Thanks for the participation. Have a great day.
@AKRao24 (4248)
• India
12 Nov 08
Thanks dear friend for conferring my response with best response! It was so nice of you to do so! I really enjoyed particiapting in your very interesting discussion ! Hope to see such nice topic of discussions from you in future too! Wish you all the best and happy mylotting !
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
12 Nov 08
You are welcome friend and what I have done, you deserved it. Have a nice time.
@balasri (26577)
• India
27 Oct 08
If the anger is born out of the love and concern towards that person the two emotions sure go hand in hand.
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
27 Oct 08
Thanks for giving the nice explanation. Have a nice time. Happy Deepawali too
@balasri (26577)
• India
27 Oct 08
Thanks and I wish Diwli brightens your future with its eternal lights.
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@subha12 (18462)
• India
14 Oct 08
I think anger is something that is driven by so many things. so if a person becomes angry easily, it does not always mean he can't go lovable. so they can go hand in hand
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
4 Nov 08
Hi Subha, Sorry for being late reply. I don't know how I could skip your response without answering. I agree with your viewpoint. Thanks for the response.
@srikool (936)
• India
13 Oct 08
yes..i used to get angry with my borther.mother,dad,and with my close friends..while i am scoling them i feel for that..i cant get angry with those people but they make me to get angry..because that much i have the love with them..taht should be the reason to get the angry with them..i think this is a nature one to all human beings..have happy mylotting.
@Sreekala (18781)
• India
14 Oct 08
I do agree with you but we have to careful when we angry because it may hurt others. I think old generations had much patience. Thanks for sharing your time. Have a nice day.
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
13 Oct 08
Hi sreekala,I do agree with your statement ,that we can never show our anger on strangers or third person.We show our anger only to our near and dear ones.I felt the same many times as I get angry on some people often.I wonder why so and I think that because only we have the right to get angry on those people we could show our anger and they too accept our anger.Someone else would shout back at us and would not accept our anger.It would become a big issue.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
14 Oct 08
Hi Sumiji, Where were you? I could not see you in board for sometime. I also agree with your viewpoint. We are utilising the 'right' to many often. Our loved ones have to tolerate it otherwise they don't have any option (lol). Thanks for the response. I am really happy to read your response. Have a nice day.
@the_ruler (1446)
• Turkey
8 Oct 08
Your loved ones can be quick tempered types of people and I think there is no harm in that as long as none of the people around are very stubborn to stop that unpleasent event. In the other hand, you are right. We can't feel angry to a stranger most of the time, however it is still possible if a stranger does something unpleasent to you. However, if you rate these between each other then you will see we mostly get angry to the people we love, and for this reason I can't define it as real anger. Quick temperement is something that can be taken care of. Just go nearby that person and say what you feel sincerely. He, or she will realize the mistakes done by both of you and will be open to the conversation and this is really a good thing in my opinion.
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
14 Oct 08
You are so nice and your opinion is also nice. Thanks for sharing your valuable time. Have a nice day.
@psalmist (109)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
love and anger is a hair strand away from each other. that how close they are, when is angry meaning he/she crossed the thin line that separates them. the same with love you can a person easily if you happen to cross the the thin line that separates love from anger... if you observe it wont take you long to get angry, and in the same manner it wont take you long to love a person..
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
14 Oct 08
Thanks for the response. I agree with you. Have a nice day.
@lingli_78 (12852)
• Australia
8 Oct 08
oh yes... definitely can... our God is a loving God but at the same time He is a just God who punished His children when we do something wrong... He is a consuming fire and can get angry as well especially when it comes to sin... too much love will spoil a person and getting angry all the time will do no good to the person as well... so it has to be balanced... it is not that easy to be practiced though... take care and have a nice day...
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
14 Oct 08
Yes, balancing is the problem now. I think it is difficult, especially the feel of anger. We can hide our love but I don't think we can hide our anger. For me, it is very difficult to hide my emotions, what I felt in mind you can easily understand from my face. Thanks for your time. Take care you too and have a great day..
• China
8 Oct 08
Hey,sreekala.I rally appreciate the point "Love and angry go by hand in hand".It is quite true.It is impossible for somebody to be angry with you with no reasons.It is because they want you to be better.So when others are angry with you,don't just lose your temper.Calm down and think about what you have done.You will soon find what others did or said was not wrong.At this time,we should change ourselves.Do u agree? Happy mylotting! Happy everyday!
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
14 Oct 08
Yes I agree. If we do anything with anger, it will turn wrong. When we angry we may not be able to decide what are right and what is wrong. If somebody angry on me I just keep quiet even if I know that mistake was not with me. I wait for sometime so that the other person became cool down. Thanks for the nice suggestions; really you have given worthwhile suggestions. Many thanks again and wishing you a nice time.
@joy4you (641)
• India
8 Oct 08
Anger, love and all other emotions are just different aspects of human relationships, it is this emotions that let people around us know how we are feeling. anger is and should be considered minor ups and downs in a relationship or situation while love is the steady and strong foundation of a relationship that should not be affected by these minor things. It is only when we hold on to our anger and ego and try to get back at the other person or to try and prove a point (so called mind games) that we slowly start chipping away at the foundation. A lot of hurtful things could be said in anger but not all can be taken back no matter how much you love a person, so be careful with your emotions and other peoples feelings.
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
11 Oct 08
You want to say that anger is an emotion should be well handled otherwise it will hurt your loved ones. I agree that people are saying lot of hurting words while angry but definitely felt bad once they come out of the feeling, but there is no use. A wound in your body gets easily healed but if it is in your mind it may take long time to heal. We have to be very careful while angry. All the best to you, have a great time. Thanks for the participation.
• India
8 Oct 08
we will get angry on people whom we like the most.we want to show how much love we have towards him by showing angry when he does any mistakes. i observed that we will get angry on persons whom we will like but not stranger
@Sreekala (18781)
• India
11 Oct 08
Yeah, that I also wanted to say. So you are with me. Its really a pleasure. Have a great day and thanks for sharing your ideas.
@ibiswas (422)
• India
8 Oct 08
Hi Sreekala, I agree with the point you stated that "Love and Anger go by hand in hand...". I think the person we know, we love and we believe is the person on whom we feel the right to be angry upon... And this is true that you can be angry on a person whome you love the most as they are person who are set with most of your expectations and beliefs...I don't get angry easily but yes i am more comfortable getting angry with my close buddies and friends... Happy myLotting!!!
@Sreekala (18781)
• India
11 Oct 08
It is nice to know that you have patience. It is really a great advantage, not for you but for the people around you(lol). I appreciate your view points. Thanks for sharing your valuable time. All the best.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
7 Oct 08
Yes I so agree that love and anger can go hand in hand..Atleast it is very true in my case.I am a short tempered person.I get angry easily when my loved ones do not rise up to my expectations in most occasions.But when I get angry with strangers,I vent out that anger too on my loved ones,since I cannot do that to the stranger..he..he...Even disappointmwents make me angry sometimes,but I tend to calm down easily too.....
@Sreekala (18781)
• India
11 Oct 08
Thank you very much for your response. I am happy to know that you agreed with me. Your loved ones should tolerate your anger I hope they can because you love them very much. Thanks again for participation. Have a great day.
@elly8588 (16)
• United States
7 Oct 08
Love and Anger def go hand in hand. People don't get angry at random people, they get angry at those they care for. Sometimes we can even loce someone so much that that gets us angry lol :-)
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
11 Oct 08
Nice to read your response. I agreed with you. People will angry only those they care. Thanks for the response and have a great day.
7 Oct 08
Yes they can go hand in hand. It's sad though when someone you care about gets angry with you for no reason. The past few months a "friend" has been calling me names and bashing me because I'm not living my life around theirs. Some stay angry and don't move past it. That I think is really sad and immature. If you care about someone and get mad at them you should be mature enough to talk it out and move on. If one can't do this it proves there was no feelings all along. Love is being able to over come everything and carrying on with relationships and friendships.
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
11 Oct 08
Yes it is a sad thing and we may felt hurt for sometime. At that time can we think about the love behind it, I don't think so. We will think it later some time when our mind is calm. All the best and thanks for sharing your feelings. I hope you also will be able to cover up the problems with love.
@stephcjh (32385)
• United States
7 Oct 08
I think it is the signs of the times. everything is so hectic and everyone gets frustrated about it. You tend to take it out on your loved ones.
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
11 Oct 08
May be you are right. Thanks for the response and have a great day.
@arthi_88 (1518)
• India
7 Oct 08
Yes love and anger can go hand in hand...We don't be angry at people we don't love or care for..We are rather disgusted or irritated by strangers bad or annoying actions but we hardly think about them once they are out of the screen..We get angry at people who matters to us..
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@Sreekala (18781)
• India
10 Oct 08
Hi Arthi, I agree with you. There is love behind the same. Happy to have your response and have a great day.
@underdogtoo (9600)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
Anger is not an admirable emotion. I don't like it. I don't like being angry. The incredible hulk becomes that when Bruce Banner gets angry. Who wants to be an incredible hulk? Cheers!!
@Sreekala (18781)
• India
10 Oct 08
I agree that it is not an admirable emotion and at the same time very happy that you are not an angry person. In fact it is a surprise for me. In my life I never had seen any person without the same feeling. I agree some have patience. Thanks for sharing your good nature, have a great day.