mothers

United States
October 7, 2008 8:14am CST
hello i was wondering, how many men will admit just how much,they love there mothers?Tom me my mother is a saint,i have some women to call me a mamas boy,but thats ok with me,thats my mom and i love her so much,my girl friend tells me wives and girlfriends and grl friend come and go but a mothers love is always there,what do you think about this?
5 responses
@Erssyl (617)
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
I thought my son was a mama's boy when he was young.But when he got married he refused to be branded a mama's boy but not an understanding husband.I would be happy if my son was like you who believes girlfriends come and go but a mother's love is always there.It's another way around my son is confused if he will care for me more than his wife.He begged for understanding him fully.His wife does not want my son to be close to us even my granddaughter is not allowed to visit us.I envy your mother for having a son like you.
@jackiew (915)
• Canada
7 Oct 08
my two boys and i have a great relationship-They can talk to me about anything.Its funny how you mentioned about some women calling you a mama's boy because my son's girlfriend tells everyone that my son is a moma's boy too.My son was 13 when he started dating his girlfriend and she was 12-he is now 26 and she is 25 and they are still together-you can have the closeness with your mom but you can also have a good strong healthy relationship with your partner.my son spends time with me and his family visits often.He tells me all the time"I Love you mom"
@sunshine4 (8710)
• United States
7 Oct 08
You are right that a mother will always be there to support and love you. I would hope that wives don't come and go!! My husband is a mommas boy too. It caused many problems in our marriage in the beginning because he would be calling his mother discussing things with her rather than discussing them with me. I finally talked to him about it. I told him if he wanted to make all major decisions regarding our life with his mother, that maybe we shouldn't have gotten married. I also told his mother that when he would call and discuss these things with her, I had no idea about them. She was good at helping him put a stop to this. Just remember that you are taking a wife for the rest of your life and once you do this, she should be as important to you as your mother.
@nanayangel (7691)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
Hi there Manlovt! Not many. My husband even admitted that when we got married and we had a son, that's when he understood his mother more and just loved her more.
@grammasnook (1877)
• United States
7 Oct 08
Indeed a mothers love is always there and eventually they say you marry one that reminds you of her. Loving your mom is one thing, living your life around mom is unhealthy. You have to live your life to the fullest that is what moms want do not think everything you do need her approval in life. I am happy your love is so much for mom. Good luck in your future