Would you ever get back with someone who broke your heart?

United States
October 7, 2008 11:21am CST
I can't understand why people do this. Explain why you would or wouldn't.
6 responses
• United States
8 Feb 09
Well, you its hard to say, it always depends on how you feel. The same person your in love with can break your heart and then apologize and make it all better. As tough as you may think you are your heart will say something completely different. No matter how bad they've hurt you and you know you shouldn't go back your heart can be speaking much louder than your common sense. For me, I have gone back, for the reasons above. He broke my heart, yet I was still in love then I returned only to have my heart broken again. I left, came back, repeat. I had to get to the point where I was able to say okay loving him shouldn't hurt this bad, this guy isn't healthy for me. And then I left for the last and final time and haven't looked back since.
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
it's like choosing two options...is it still worth fighting for? or not anymore? if it is (which you could still feel) then why not try once again. If it's not. then there is no reason for you to get back.
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
i haven't try it yet. maybe because they might realized at the end that still love each other. They might got the wrong decision before that's why they need to broke up then at the end they end up together. I'm not sure of it. It's just an opinion of mine. How about you?...have you tried to get back someone who broke your heart?
• United States
7 Oct 08
A lot of my ex's I got back together with, lol. Depending on how bad that person hurt me, I may get back with them. My first real love hurt me pretty bad, I don't think I could get back with him. Of course, I don't have feelings for him anymore, so, it wouldn't be to hard to turn him down :P
• Malaysia
7 Oct 08
My girlfriend is me first one! Anyway, she had her heart broken before, and she told me, she can never see herself with that guy, EVER! Sometimes you have to look at situation, for hers, i wouldn't blame her, he treated her very unfairly.
@sajanjiv (11)
• India
7 Oct 08
I beleieve that one should not get back to someone who broke your heart. I think this is because that person was insensitive enough to step over you at that time and didnt pay regard to your feeling then..i dont think he/she deserves to be there and having him/her in your life was already a mistake... and i believe that you can somehow venge that loss by not taking them back..even if they want you real bad...