To tell or not to tell
October 7, 2008 10:05pm CST
If you noticed the fly on a man's pants opened, would you tell him or not? I know that I should say something, because he would probably appreciate being told, but I think I would be embarrassed to say anything. If it was something with a woman, I would not hesitate to say something. What about you, would you tell or not tell?
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8 Oct 08
i'd say, "nice boxers." hehehe. nah! seriously, wouldn't have the guts to say it especially if i dont know the person. if it was a friend, definitely, i could insinuate that his fly is open without embarrassing him. but usually, it's the girl who'd get embarrassed first even before thinking of informing the guy. hehehe.
8 Oct 08
Well, if I really know the person, I would tell him outright that it's open. It usually won't be something embarrassing but something that we would just laugh off. However, if I'm not close to that person but I know whom he is with, I'd tell it to that person first not to embarrass the man but to him/her to tell him discreetly that it's open. But casually on the streets, I would consider how the man would feel if nobody told him (which is usually the case). I would discreetly tell that person that it's open and just walk away. Of course, I had ignore some of them though.
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8 Oct 08
I've responded to a similar discussion, so like I said then if it were my fiance yes, anyone else no. If it were say one of his friends, I might tell him, but chances are not as he may think I was looking there on purpose ! Sometimes mens pants can be so that it is easy to tell, as the zipper for mens pants are longer then for women's.