what is your feeling when there is no one respond your new discussion on mylot?

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China
October 7, 2008 11:11pm CST
hello all guys, maybe many people have this kind of experience which you have started a new discussion with our exciting mood and passion.and you think it must be a hot one. but when you post it in mylot,no one respond it within a long time or never. if you have experienced this situation,i want to know what is your feeling when there is no one respond your new discussion? depressed? or ignore? or something else? share your feeling. Thanks a lot.
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@curious888 (1213)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 08
I have a discussion posted about a week ago with no response. It was about taboo in daily life. At first I was a bit depressed, but soon I thought might be people didn't understand it or not interested in it . So I switch to another direction, started another topic, it received a lot of response.
@webeishere (36353)
• United States
8 Oct 08
A problem is that some menbers, like myself, answer only via email. And there is a glitch ever so often with getting email notificatiuons when friends start a discussion. I experience this a lot and never got an email about this discussion you mention. So this can also cause friends not to respond that only respond via emails. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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• China
9 Oct 08
thanks for all your response, my friends, your words are all right. and i appreciate your responding a lot.lol good luck
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
I have started few discussions but 75 percent of them were not answered. I really felt bad but what should i do. There are soo many people and there are many of them who mylot for several hours a day, and all of them must have a vast number of ideas and can start new topics. So there are very few things that we can start discussions on.
• China
10 Oct 08
just post some interesting ones, thus, you will get more responses.lo good luck
@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
9 Oct 08
I am not really that upset when it comes to people not responding. Sometimes I feel more upset then other times, but in all honesty if they don't respond it's alright. I can just make up for it by responding to discussions or what not. I'll admit I'm here for the money as well as the quality of discussions.
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• China
10 Oct 08
thanks for your response, my friend,you are right, as long we keep the high quality words interesting words in mylot, many users will respond it.lol good luck
@mscott (1924)
• United States
8 Oct 08
I do not get to overly worked up about it. It has happened to me before but usually I post in areas of interest that don't seem to get a lot of attention. I know many people that have sent friend requests but I am not sure why. They don't often respond to any of my discussions so I don't know what the purpose of sending the request was. I guess it is a matter of when and where you post if it will get a lot of replies or not. Sometimes there are so many foolish posts that a good post will get pushed down the line quickly and many people don't look more than a couple pages deep on any discussion.
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• China
8 Oct 08
thanks for your response. my friend,i think the purpose of sending the friend request is that they want to make more friends on mylot to support them.lol
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• India
8 Oct 08
I just started a new discussion,response was that good.. I felt I shud improve in some area. Shud make it more interesting and attractive :)
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• China
8 Oct 08
yes, my friend, it is right.your are a cute girl.lol good luck
• India
8 Oct 08
He he he.. I know :D Thanks 4 ur compliment..
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• China
9 Oct 08
it is true,lol.may i know where are you from? are you same as me? good luck
@jsloh1989 (181)
• Singapore
8 Oct 08
I am pretty new to this mylot and maybe that's why the replies I am getting is not a lot, maximum of 5 per discussion so far? I guess what may interest you may be boring for others, just like how one man's medicine can be another man's poison. It's really a mixed feeling I guess, at first I will get no reply, I feel like, "OK, maybe it's just the start." After awhile, if nobody reply yet, I go "Alright, this topic might be a little boring." I will forget about it eventually I guess. For me, so far so good, I've been getting replies (only after a long while though), but it is good enough for me at the moment. Over the days, maybe about 2 weeks, I made about 3 new friends on mylot too!
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• China
8 Oct 08
just make more friends here and thus you will get more chances to get your discussion reviewed by other users, keep moving,happy mylotting good luck
• Singapore
8 Oct 08
Yes. Thanks for the add by the way. =). I still have a long way to go in mylot! Happy mylotting!
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• China
9 Oct 08
yes, my friend, keep moving, you will enjoy a lot here. good luck
8 Oct 08
Hi Successlog, you got a nice question.. but I am newbie to mylot... so I don't have any experience about the new discussion... could you people please help me.. how to post new discussion and where to do it... i'll be very much thankful to you.. and i'll answer this question later when i post a new discussion after you guiding..:) about mylot.. Happy mylotting...:)
• China
8 Oct 08
hello friend,i think you'd better have a try yourself to start a new discusion as following: 1,enter the mark (interest) by clink the navigation bar in the top,then, choose a interest you want to start to discuss 2,when you choose one interest item, you will enter another page,there you will find there is mark in the top right page(start a new discussion) 3,clink it,and you will know how to write it.and the following you can enter a subject and the content,and if you want to add a photo,you can attach it in the bottom 4,when you finish one discussion,clink the(post new discussion) mark,you will need write some relative tags in the blank in the next page. Just try it, i hope it is useful and helpful to you. good luck to you
8 Oct 08
Yeah Thanks for your reply successlog.. I have one more doubt... i.e., is that only way we can earn in mylot... by posting new discussion & answering to others discussion... IF so there is another way of earning in mylot... please let me know about that... thank you.. happy mylotting....:-)
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• China
9 Oct 08
hi my friend, you can earn more money by add the photos in your discussions and the responses.lol goodluck
@jnk3dfx (721)
• India
8 Oct 08
I dont know, Because never got into such situations. Even though i wont get huge number of responses, but still there are few My Friends like Kun,Paid2Write,Glen and also you successlog and few more friends will always respond to my discussion. Thanks to them i never had been in a situation were i didnt recieved any response. So I cant exress my feelings in here but thought of thanking all those friends here in this discussions. THANKS A LOT MY FRIENDS YOU GUYS MADE ME PROUD. Thanks Successlog for giving chance to thank my friends.
• China
8 Oct 08
you are so welcome, my friend, i am also glad to respond my friend -like you.i think as friend here, we should support each other more a lot.I hope we can help each other a lot in the future. good luck
@jnk3dfx (721)
• India
8 Oct 08
Sure, I will be always there for friends.
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• China
8 Oct 08
that is great, good luck.happy mylotting.
@lazeebee (5468)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 08
Well, it happens. What interests us, may not interest others. But there are times when I post a certain topic, and responses just flowed in - so now I don't want to think too hard. I would post a discussion, when I have something in mind, and leave it, and then move on to respond to others' discussions! So have fun, and happy myLotting!
• China
8 Oct 08
hello friend, thanks for your response. yes, when we get a idea in our mind, we should express it out to others, then, don't care whether some other members would respond, thus, we will feel comfortable.lol good luck
@granmeme (162)
• United States
8 Oct 08
I agree,I guess what I want to talk about no one else is interested in. I sometimes do not get responses or very few. I see some postings that are totally off the wall and they get a lot of responses. I do not stay with one area of interest I like to surf around and read about a lot of different things. If I find it interesting I will respond. Frankly I am better at responding than starting discussions.
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• China
9 Oct 08
thanks for your response, my friend, good luck
@rymebristol (1788)
• Philippines
19 Oct 08
you know i started a discussions just like this a couple of days ago, the reason why i started that discussion because i posted two to three discussions and yet no one responded to it (until now) which really made me felt bad. maybe because it's not interesting enough to caught the attention of myLot users.
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• China
19 Oct 08
hello friend, i understand your meaning, yes, it is right.it is disappointing when no one respond our new discussions. But for me, i will try my best to respond the zero response discussions.lol. good luck
@winzpc (2356)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 08
I have one discussion that has no response. I'm not very upset with it. I will think positively and find why my discusion isn't been responsded. I will start from myself. Maybe I make a topic that doesn't attract people to respond it. After that learn it and hope I can make a good topic in the future. Keep post Happy myLotting...
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• China
10 Oct 08
yes, thgat is right, my friend, just post some more interesting and creative topic, you will get more responses in your discussion. good luck
@hellcowboy (7383)
• United States
9 Oct 08
I have had several experiences where I started a new discussion with a mood of excitement or passion about what I was starting it on,and where I think it is a really good topic,and that a lot of people will think so too,but it turns out I do not get any responses,and it makes me wonder what I did wrong,to make no one respond to it,and it makes me think maybe I am a terrible write,and it makes me feel so ignored and like I am worthless.
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• China
10 Oct 08
thanks for your response.i hope you will enjoy some more funds with other mylotters. good luck
@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Oct 08
hi successlog like you I imagine I have felt sad when I didnt 'get a response to a new discussion but I learned that as I was here longer I became better known, and made more friends.Everyone began to know me, and began to respond to my discussions as I have responded to theirs. cheer up you will soon get so many responses you will have to take a lot of time to reply to them. good luck keep mylotting.
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• China
10 Oct 08
thanks for your rreponse, my friend.i hope you will have a happy experience here.lol keep moving. good luck
• China
9 Oct 08
It is depend on your mentality. You should wait the replies patiently. What you should do is posting your new discussion on mylot constantly. There will be a great many replies as long as your topics are interesting and novelty. I also run across this situation several times, but I never give up. We can learn English on mylot. Meanwhile, we can post our problem on study and work, the friends on mylot will help you solving. What a pleasure!
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• China
10 Oct 08
thanks for your response, my friend, good luck
@greenline (14864)
• Canada
9 Oct 08
Disappointing ofcourse. But, all it means is that my topic is not a popular one for the myLot community.
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• China
10 Oct 08
thanks for your response, my friend. good luck to you
@SueRod (238)
• United States
9 Oct 08
I honestly feel dejected and disrespected, but I've always gotten over things quickly and don't carry a judge. I just don't understand it. However, I prefer that feeling than asking a question and I get a sarcastic remark. That hasn't happened on this site, not that I can remember anyway. But when it happened somewhere else I was really p.o.'d. But I got over that too. I do think it's good that there are many who don't get too worked up. I applaud them because they're just not oversensitive like I can be sometimes. Thanks for the discussion. Take care.
• China
9 Oct 08
thanks for your response, my friend. good luck
@jakesun (100)
• China
9 Oct 08
i am sad about it.but i don't give up.i think that maybe i could talk something else ,paying attention to the words which i use.to respond others ,sharing happyness with them,told them i am a mylotter, i am here.
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• China
9 Oct 08
yes, at the beginning ,itis hard to get more friends to support, but as long as you make more friends here, you will get more response. good luck
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
I never felt so alone actually when I joined mylot and when I started to post my first discussion. Everyone welcomed me here with a smile honestly. That's why i'm so lucky to have found mylot because I feel at home when I logged in here. Godbless pal and don't be afraid to share your thoughts here...we can be of help somehow..Godbless.
• China
9 Oct 08
you are so luck, my friend. thanks for your share here,lol good luck
• United States
8 Oct 08
Yes, that has happened to me many times. I started this really cool discussion and I thought that a lot of people were going to answer, but nobody answered.
• China
9 Oct 08
no worries, make your topic more interesting, that is the key you want to improve yoresponses quantities. good luck
• United States
8 Oct 08
The only thing that i think is "oh no i wont make money". LOL just kidding. I just think about how I should of made the topic more interesting.
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• China
9 Oct 08
yes, that is true, my friend, everyone want to make their topic much more interesting.if so, you will get more respnses. good luck