Losing a myLot Friend

@neildc (17253)
Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
October 8, 2008 2:48am CST
I have been so unproductive the last month and until the past few days. Good thing, I have enough earnings that I made it to payout this month. I missed payout last month for some reasons, and I felt so sad. But bad news here is that my BOF (Best Online Friend) told me that one veteran mylot member, who became so dear to most of us, is leaving mylot. This is really sad. How do you feel losing a friend?
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@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
losing a long time friend is a very sad moment in life..as they say we all need friends in this world because there are things that we can tell to our friends that we cannot tell to our partners or our children, i myself is missing my dear old friends from work and i seldom get to see them and talk to them...and i miss one particular friend because i am hiding something from her...a particular life situation that i have not told her and is not able to tell her...i want to tell her now but just that i do not have enough courage to do so.
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@CanadaGal (4304)
• Canada
9 Oct 08
I don't think anyone likes losing a myLot friend, or any other friend for that matter. But it happens. Such is life. If it makes you feel any better, this site has a tendency to keep its long time members. Lots of folks just need to take a break now and then. I'm one of them, so I know what I'm talking about.
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@PearlGrace (3172)
• United States
9 Oct 08
I haven't been all that productive on myLot for the past 2 weeks. But, I made payout last month. It remains to be seen whether I make payout for October. Sorry to hear your BOF is leaving myLot. I must admit that I do have a particular group of myLot friends whose names I look for when I am checking my email. I select their discussions first and answer them right away, if I can. Hope you will be able to make more online friends.
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
8 Oct 08
i feel also bad neil.i was away for a few weeks and missed pay out coz some of it are deleted discussion.
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8 Oct 08
Hi neil, I can understand why you missed your last payout as you had all those problems with your family and your job, I hope your sone is alright now and how is the job front going? yes it is very sad to learn that one of yor friends on Mylot is leaving, I have lost of Mylot friends as well. When I first came on Mylot there so many friends were very active but now theose friends has just gone, I have sent pms as well but did not receive any replies so they have gone for good. I hope you and BOF will here for a very long time because I value you both as my friends. Love & Hugs. Tamara
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@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
8 Oct 08
[i]Hi neildc, Nice to see you back....I guess I have a clue who is this friend since she is also my good friend here and I haven't seen here for a couple of weeks already! That is very sad thinking that she is very active also both in posting and responding and now she is gone! I know she has a reason bu hopefully, time comes she will decide to be back here! I hate losing old friends here, even I am not meeting them, I know their sincerity as a friend and that is hard to find![/i]
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@salonga (27955)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Yes I noticed your inactivity these past few days. You must be very busy! But why would one of your friends leave myLot? If I have a good friend like that, I would also get so affected. I have good friends around (and your are one of them) and I really love the sweet relationship we have already built. In fact my friends' discussions are my priorities whenever I am here because I want to show my support because they are also supportive of me and knowing that one would be leaving myLot for good would be a sad news for me. I wish none of my friends would ever live!
@dong1970 (1573)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
We have same feeling my friend,i have also a friend here on mylot that suddenly has gone for some any reasons.I miss her discussions and responses.She is a great lady and i love her poems.I guess your friend and my friend here on mylot is only one person.She is everybody's friend and i know that we will miss her.
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Good to see you again best. I really missed you. Our dear friend, is not leaving, she already left. It was really sad coz we won't see her valuable opinions on every discussions but I'm glad we are still together in other sites. So I will not say that I will miss her coz, we see to it that we chat everyday. hugz best.... P.S. I will really feel sad if I will lose you!!!!
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@g3n3j0rd (721)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
I've been missing payout for more than a year, lol! That's because I've been on and off at myLot It's not for anything else but sometimes I get so busy with blogging that I just can't find time to post at mylot. In that way, I believe, I've lost some of the friends that I have made here. Sometimes, I would be shy in responding to my friends's posts because of my long absence.
@littleowl (7157)
8 Oct 08
Hi neil-that is so sad..I feel upset about a couple of people who are not here now too as I grew very close to them..it is a very upsetting thing to see happen and have happen to you as well but unfortunatley there is nothing we can do about it, also I think it has something to so with the way mylot has changed so much within this year that has made people leave...your friend littleowl
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
i can't imagine i am losing one of mind friend, they are precious to me, how sad.