Girls... Give me some advise...
By fairygurl
@fairygurl (73)
Philippines
October 8, 2008 5:10am CST
I had a boyfriend right now, I love him so much and he told me that he love me also? How can i Know that he is true to me? Your reply is much appreciated.. Thanks
5 responses
@fairygurl (73)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
Thanks for the advice Mr. Merphius, I trust him because I love him so much but sometimes there's a lot of questions playing in my mind, worries and i'm jealous.
@kedves (728)
•
8 Oct 08
well as a man and not a girl hope you do not mind i respond but only you can know if he is true in what he says. if you are serious with him then give him the trust and show him you believe him and show a willingness to move forward with him and then enjoy the moments together. good luck and hope he is true to you :)
@fairygurl (73)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Thanks for the advise Mr. Kedves. I'll take your advise. Good Luck for all the things that you want to do..
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 08
You will have to judge yourself and you will have to access yourself whether your friend is true to you. Just keep a close watch on his activities and if he remains consistent in his behaviour meaning thereby if he does not change his attitude and behaviour over a period of time, it means he is a genuine person. If you find some changes in his behaviour, then you may think about his commitment to you.
Best of Luck.
Are you true and committed to him?
@quarvalsharess (989)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 08
fairygurl, trust is needed in a relationship. Do you trust your boyfriend? Does he treat you well? Is he thoughtful? See his actions, you can see his love through his actions, because words are just no enough. I can just tell anyone I love them but if I don't bother about them, does that mean I do love them? More importantly as well, trust your instinct, your gut. What do you feel?
@Avi_Gan (191)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Just believe that he is being true to you until you prove otherwise. It's useless to start doubting somebody without proof. You'll just go crazy and might create unnecessary tension in the relationship. But based on my experience, I think I've found a way to prove if somebody really loves you or not. I really believe that if somebody has seen the worst in you and still choose to love you then, that somebody really loves you. It always has worked for me. Making a good impression only comes in handy when it's time to meet the parents but in first dates or in the first few months of a relationship, its more useful for me to show the worst, the most evil part of me. If they stick around then I know that they're somebody, if I choose to, could be part of my life for a long time.
