"it's over..."

Philippines
October 8, 2008 5:38am CST
"It's over"... have you ever used this line to someone you used to love? when can you say that's "it's over"..
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@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
8 Oct 08
yeah i did. a few times already. it's not easy to say those words to someone you used to love but it's better to be honest than pretend that you still love him and keep the relationship going
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
i agrre with you to that..we should not stay in a relationship if there is no more love.we should not pretend to be happy with him if we are not happy anymore. we should give each other time to heal and to find the one really meant for us..
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
9 Oct 08
time heals all wound. :) you'll find someone better and your ex bf is nothing but a pigment of your memories
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• Philippines
10 Oct 08
i agree with you.its not easy,but sometimes we really need to do that.i'd rather hurt the person now than to gie him false hopes and eventually hurt him even more.
@dpk262006 (56482)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 08
No,any such occasion did not arise in my life. I wish to continue a relationship, if I have started it and will try my best to save it to my last breath.
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
im glas to here that your in a happy and loving relationdhip right now.. I wish you all the best!Happy posting!
@dpk262006 (56482)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 08
Many thanks to you!
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
8 Oct 08
Only once I said these words. And I should say that it was the hardest words I ever said.
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
i understand that.it is really hard to say it's over. same as "can we have another chance?" to the same person you told "it's over"
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
i just recently used that word. And it hurt when your partner say that to you for me it is better if i will use that one rather receive that word. When i can say that its over? well if i feel that i fall out of love to my partner then that the time i can say that its over.
• India
13 Oct 08
the most harsh way to say to someone that i want to leave you well i have never used in my life and i will hopefully never use it to say to any girl it feels so disgusting and bad it is a really bad way to end a relationship ,and i think in a relation we can never say it is over the one dumping will also have some emotions towards the one who he/she is dumping might be family problems or a new girl but that girl continues to live in his/her heart forever.
10 Oct 08
well i knew when my 4 year relationship was over with my boyfriend when he told me i needed to change for him and when he said my exgirlfriend is better than you...he went on and on so when he finished i said 'ok, thats how you feel about me? then its over.' it was really difficult to say, but it had to be said. he has put me down a few times in the 4 years. and i needed to pick being in love or happiness. i still love him now, hes my first true love, but it doesn't mean i wont feel the same about anyone else.
• United States
9 Oct 08
I think ive only said this oncejust for the simple fact i dont play the lets hit game and thats when i said its over and walked away. I didnt feel bad about it because the fact thats what needed to be done. but ive sad im done a couple of times because it was going nowhere and it was at the end of the road so im not the type of person to regret anything ive done jsut because i knew it was for the best not only for myself but for the other person as well however i still remain friends with all my ex. However Love is a very strong word and honestly i can say ive only loved one person not many of people. To many people need to figure out what love is and lust is.
@zola10 (49)
• Ukraine
8 Oct 08
you did not start up a relationship and come up say its over.ever if you never met in if could cost you your relationship. i have never said to my girl its over
@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
8 Oct 08
that's a hard thing to say if u still care but know it's not going anywhere & it's for the best. good luck.
@Avi_Gan (191)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
"It's over", It's the few words that I find really hard to utter. Even when I know that the relationship is waaaaayyy past the expiration date and I'm not getting anything from it anymore, even when I've found the person I'm currently with beyond boring and I just can't stand being with him anymore, much less hold hands or more, I can't say it. I know I've always had that problem. When I really can't stand it anymore, I just do a disappearing act. I know it's about the worst thing anyone can do besides cheat on a person but I just can't say it... Except once, when I made a mistake of making my best guy friend (who I knew has been crushing on me for about 3years) into my boyfriend. My disappearing act didn't work, because he's friends with the whole of my family including my grandparents, acting cold and mean didn't work too, going out with other people didn't work as well, it all just became a huge guilt trip for me. So finally I had to write it in a very, very long letter, about 5 pages yellow pad long, and I finally did it, I finally said it, technically, wrote it: It's over.