Well, 2 of my over 200 friends replied to my discussion..

I did see the discussion. I did not reply, because I do not work. I stay home to take care of things with my disabled son. So in return, I had nothing to contribute to your discussion. I only answer ones that I feel I have something to contribute. I am not trying to ignore anyones posts. You do answer alot of mine, and I thank you for that.

I don't quite get to the point of feeling the way you do about discussions from a friends answering angle dragon but I do sometimes wonder where the heck I went wrong with some of my topics! lol. It is always so hit and miss on mylot when it comes to posting discussions and there have been so many times when I really thought I had something good and ended up very wrong! Yet there are other times when I out in nowhere near as much effort and thought on a topic and end up with 50+ responses. Go figure? I don't have notify on for any of my friends by the way because the constant emails drive me crazy! But I do have a core group of friends that always make the effort with me and I do the same in return. I am actually thankful it's not all 240+ of them that do this otherwise I would never keep up!

I've about 450 friends. Now should I expect to get 200 replies to my discussions? Not at all. I have had discussions with one or two responses only as well. I did not start over with friends. I just moved on figuring they were not interested ion those topics I wropte about. I do not answer all my friends discussions either all the time. It is those that draw my attention that I respond to. Some I have nothing I coulod say on the subject so I do not respond. We all seem to answer whatever attracts our attention first and foremost here. I sure hope AI am not one of thjose you delete. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

That happens to me alot too. I put up discussions and if I am lucky I get a few responses, usually around 6 - 8 responses. Anyways, I usually go and give + marks on my friends discussions even if I don't respond to them. That way they get some credit for them. I did not respond to this particular discussion you mentioned as I am a stay at home mom and this did not pertain to me at all. I did however give you a + mark where your avatar showed up. Hang in there. I will go look at some of your other discussions right now. [b]Have a great day and happy myLotting!!! [/b]

Hehe, i can understand you. i experienced the same as you. Don't be sad. if your friends don't come to you, you can come to them.

ack , I am sorry , I am soo sorry. I have not really been on the last couple days . SOOO much work lately . Please forgive me dragon , you know i try to comment on what i can when i can . I think you a very cool person here and I am happy you are a friend to me here

I have the same problem both here and on other sites, too. On one site, I have people who I almost always comment on their posts, but they NEVER comment on ANY of mine. I think they only keep me on their lists so that they can promote their stuff. I don't expect everyone to reply to ALL of my discussions or posts, but c'mon NONE of them? If they don't like my material, then why do they have me on their friends list? I only have a handful of people on my list with the notification on. These are people who I have found that I enjoyed their discussions and can answer most of them. If I have extra time, I come to Mylot and answer even more of my friends discussions if I can.

Maybe they don't have anything to day about the subject or are just too busy to reply right now; that happens to me at times. Don't give up on Mylot folks yet!

hi dragon I am so sad for you i felt that way several times but you just never know what will trigger peoples interests, and some of what I felt were not my best discussions drew a lot of responses. Maybe it is sometimes better to make a simple discussion that appeals to all, rather than a more serious one as you will get more responses that way I guess. keep your chin up you will get more responses in time.

Well Dragon, we all have those days where we start a discussion that is of great interest, but nobody replies. It's happened to all of us. I do not have the notified feature turned on. Even if I did, I could never get around to responding to all of my friends discussions. This would only serve to fill my email box and make me feel guilty for not getting to them all. I work outside the home 40 hours a week. I sneak on mylot throughout the day. I try to answer as many discussions as I can without getting caught. When I come home, I will come here and go to the "friends started" tab. I will usually only reply to those discussions on the 1st page. Occasionally, I will go the "no responses" or "recent" discussions as well. So you see my friend, we all of our different methods, time constraints etc.. Although we would love to get to all of our friends discussions, sometimes it just doesn't work out that way. I applaud your efforts, I don't know how you and so many others can keep up when the rest of us can't I must go now and get ready for work.

I don't get upset about such things. Either my friends have time to respond or they don't. Either they're interested in a discussion I start or they aren't. It's not a big deal to me. Personally, I don't have any notifications from any site about activities. I learned about a year ago that sometimes sites like this have problems. One of my other haunts had a gliche and when it was fixed, I had over 6,000 emails. I immediately turned off all notifications and won't ever use that function on any site again. Period. So when I come here, I check to see what discussions my friends have started. If something interests me, I'll comment. Surely real friends don't want others to comment on something that doesn't interest them, right?

Hi, I am a recruit here,I can read the discussons from my friends everyday. As my English is poor and I have to work in the day,so,I can't reply everyone.But I always do my best to reply.I love mylot,love all the friends,so I hope you can keep it.Thanks for your discussion!

I don't have my notifier on for anybody. I just look around and post as the subject catches my attention. Once in a while I'll focus on somebody and see what they are up to, someone picked at random. Sometimes I'll even look at posts with no reply and comment on a topic there. I'm not overly concerned about anything, I just enjoy here and have fun!