What are your thoughts to women who dress in short skirts, bare midriffs, and

@sharie16 (2213)
Philippines
October 9, 2008 5:51am CST
low-cut blouses but complain about men that stare at them? I'm a woman and i ask that. I laugh when i see girls wearing very short skirts but spend a lot of time trying to pull them down. Doesn't make sense...lol How bout you, what are your thoughts to that? Happy mylotting!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
9 Oct 08
if you have the figure to look nice in them why not unless your are ancient like me then i think they look ridiculous.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Jan 09
yes your right, if women have their nice figures, then it's ok...or as long as they look ok with what they wear and they are comfortable, if they can't stand too, it's even ridiculous wearing such...well i think you are the type of conservative when it comes to wearing dresses, and thats ok, people are unique in everything... thanks for the post my friend! have a nice day! God bless! +rating!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
4 Jan 09
tell u a secret, lol. i never wear dresses. the last time i did my son got married & i told thrm they could bury me in it because i'd never have it on again & i haven't.
@Sheepie (3118)
• United States
9 Oct 08
See, this is the provocative, but not too much so, idea. The only thing hotter to men than a lady in revealing clothes is a tease!
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Jan 09
well if that's their purpose bet your idea is better...that would work much better...lol... thanks for the post! have a nice day! God bless! +rating!
@lingli_78 (12844)
• Australia
9 Oct 08
well, i think they are just trying to attract men's attention and they deserve it if men stare at them... what else do they expect??? isn't that their intentions when they wear those revealing clothes??? so i don't like women who complain that people stare at them like a weird person when they are wearing too revealing clothes... all i can say again is, they deserve it... take care and have a nice day...
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Jan 09
bet your right...well if they dont really like to catch the attention, then they should not wear like that... thanks for the post! have a nice day! God bless! +rating!
• United States
9 Oct 08
Well thats funny because where i live that can really be an issue. I'm not a young gal anymore but i have a short skirt that i love, but when i wore it i guess it probably was too much in my hometown but if it were in a fashionable place it would probably be very low key dressing kind of plain but i love it. if i could dress like i really like i guess it mite cause some attention but good attention's great. perverts and such are not which unfortunately the world has to do deal with.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
[b]it's okay dressing up to what you want...but be sure that you are confident and comfortable enough with what you wear, eventhough you know that it will get an attention...and take not not to complain if someone stares at you, since it is really expected...just wlak and stand proud... thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@samijo719 (1054)
• United States
9 Oct 08
I think we as women should be allowed to dres show we feel compfortable an what best expresses us. But it's very tough out there because a women has so many things to judge on. You can be a woman who has never slept with anyone but if you were revealing clothing men automatically get the impression that you're easy or something ridiculous like that. So, in a way it's a bit unfair that a woman can't just dress how they feel like without being gawed at or have lewd comments spewed at them. Although the one thing I have to say about you laughing when you see that, I agree. It's one thing to wear short skirts and such but when it's so short your butt is hanging out for the world to see and you're constantly pulling it down, that is a little much.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
[b]yeah...women should always dress that would make them comfortable...if they feel like into fashion, they should be confident enough to wear the dress/clothes they may want to wear, or else, their just making fool of themselves if they act like pulling it down... thanks for the post! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@mikeysmom (2092)
• United States
9 Oct 08
i think if you dress that way you have to expect men to leer at you. men are very visual creatures and if you give them something to look at they are going to look. i do not see the need for people to let it all hang out but then again i am almost 48 and those days are long behind me. i never dressed that way even when i had the body for it.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
[b]exactly, if they wear dresses like that, then they should expect men looking at them...as for me, as long as the person have confidence on wearing it, then it's okay...people now are very liberal, aint right? thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@cutleave (45)
• Thailand
9 Oct 08
when women want to look better and sexy soo they wear sexy sexy sexxy short mini skirt etc etc we all have a rights to wear whatever we want as this certainlty caught the attenstion of any guy and this makes not all but some women feel better, soo please don't laught when you see a girl in this situation Unfortunatly, some women are lucky to have sexy body shape and some doesn't that's why they wear short but at the same they might feel unconfortable As a women we all know it is hard to wear unconfortable thing because we are women and this is the big reason soo next time you see them cheer them up
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
[b]i hope i made it clear, what i mean on that is that, its the way you wanted to wear in public, so women complains if someone looks at them, they should have expect that people would be looking at them...for me, why wear dresses that you are not comfortable with? right? it's not about cheering up or what, when they decide to wear dresses its more of their confidence and being comfortable with dresses they are wearing... anyway, thanks for the post! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@donna22 (1120)
9 Oct 08
I think a women should be allowed to dress how she wants and not all women wear revealing clothes because they want to appear sexy to men. I used to wear push ups bras and have a lot of cleavage on show to distract from my fatter bottom half. I hope to one day be able to wear a short skirt when I go out to show my legs cos Ive never been able to do this or a pair of hipsters to show my stomach off. If I ahve my legs or stomach on show though I will probbaly keep my boobs covered and vice versa. As far the skirt, I think sometimes you dont necessarily realise how short it is or maybe they are puling it down for comfort.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
[b]well im not really against how women dress...but how they react when they go out on what they prefer to wear, it's silly that if they wear skirts and keep pulling it down...why would they do it, when they choose to wear that, right? anyway, thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
[b]hi kate! im not saying that they were seeking for men's attention, but as for me, why would women complain if someone stares at them the way they dress and keep pulling there dress down...i mean if they intend to wear that kind of clothes, they should be courageous enough to stand on it...i hope i made it clear...im not against how women dress but how they react on themselves if someone looks at them... anyway, thanks for sharing! have a ncie day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@katsmeow1213 (29047)
• United States
9 Oct 08
I think the problem is that it's not the RIGHT men staring at them. Women are most apt to complain when it's the not so good looking men giving them attention. If a hottie were to start whistling, I doubt she'd be offended, lol.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Jan 09
somehow your right, but if we dont like to get an attention we should not wear something like that, unless we like the attention...i think we should always be comfortable on whatever we wear even if we are on public, and we should always note that wearing clothes like that would catch an attention... thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating!
@amlegend (945)
• Pakistan
9 Oct 08
it's her right to do so and i won't say it is bad but then the should also realize that these things do take attention and then when they have dressed like this then definately men will look at them thinking them as bold and open minded and it should be ok to those women. i mean that they should make it up in their minds that the clothes they are wearing will get attention and you can't deny the fact that most women do it to get attention then when they do get the attention, no point in blaming men as it is natural. don't women look at hot guys?
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
[b]yeah i get your point...wearing dresses like that are really eye-catching and women should be aware of that...if they dont like such attention, then they should refrain from wearing short dresses...its simple like that, right? some women who wears short dresses are really their way of dressing or to be in fashion and you can see that they are confident enough to walk like that, but other women who complains should be aware of the attention before wearing such clothes... thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
• India
9 Oct 08
I alwasy believe that a person should wear what one is comfortable with and not because it is teh trendy style in vogue and you want to be known as a modern woman. If you wear something you are not comfortabel inand keep trying to hide your body, then you are making a fool of yourself. If you have wornsomethignthenbe confident and bold about it. Let people stare and let people comment. Just ignore it and you will be on top.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
[b]indeed...wearing a dress should be feeling comfortable and they should avoid to of making fool of themselves... thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@smiley83 (1535)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
well it depends on the woman's attention... it is true that, there are girls who keep on wearing short dresses to either catch guys' attention or to to wear it for their own comforts... Smiley,
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
[b]it's not actually the issue of catching attention but they chould expect that it usually happen that people would look at them, and thus they should not complain on it and acting uneasy & uncomfortable...they should atand to what way they dress up, right? anyway, thanks for the post! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
well, there's nothing wrong about wearing short skirts, bare midriffs, and other low-cut blouses, we people in this world have our each own styles in life..wearing clothes somehow affects the real us, some gals and guys especially of the same age like teenager thougth sometimes that it's a some kind of a flirty or showy way., But for me as long as you are comfortable and you look presentable wear what you want..be proud having a beautiful legs. If you don't possess any of the two things i mention then you better don't try.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
[b]right, it's okay wearing dresses like that, as long as they are comfortable enough to their dresses...otherwise they look awkward acting that way like pulling down their dresses down, when someone stares at them...they should be confident enough on how they would want to look like... thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
• Indonesia
9 Oct 08
well, i think women deserve to wear in the way they want and feel comfortable. for example in summer, women tend to use minimal clothes. it's not they want to lead the men' eyes to their sexy appearance; they just feel sultry and uncomfortable because of the weather. so, if men stare at them with a tendentious glance, they deserve to show their objection. it's like if people stare at me with a despising sight, because i use a necktie with stupid color. it's not your business, i like this green polka dot necktie. as a man, i appreciate women' preference in dressing their selves. if i found a woman with the such a sexy dress, i will try my best not to stare at here. if i cannot bear it, i will stare at her secretly and politely how can you stare politely in such a situation?
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
[b]well i dont have disagreement on how other women dress...it's on how they react uncomfortable if people starts ataring at them...i mean why would wear like that if they complain that people stares at them...they should not, right, in fact they should stand on how they wanted to dress up and much more they should expect that people would really look at them, but still be confident enough on their dresses, ain't right? anyway, thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
from fashion point of view, if their legs r very nice, i would love to watch too ^_^ coz i'm dealing with fashion biz, i love nice short skirt but i nvr wear it becoz i hav 'elephant' legs...hahhaah actually, the overall appearance shud b presentable and match-able ^_^ i will laugh oso if they 'mess' up with their funny tops...and most important is, i saw some gals wearing mini skirts but their 'action' very big, and they didn't sit properly, that's what i dun like
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
[b]your right, they should also look presentable and it should really match...i can imagine what you said...it's really an eye-catching and looks funny if they dont know how to match their dresses! thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@desireeo (595)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
i like wearing sexy clothes. i am most comfortable in them. when i say sexy clothes it doesn't mean showing a lot of skin in all places. i think one has to know how to match things up so the sexy outfit you're wearing will not make you look s l u t t y but classy. we want to project good taste and fashion. it makes me laugh too when i see women who wear sexy outfit but are abviously not comfortable in it. looking sexy doesn't always have to be short skirt or midriffs. you can wear a simple tee and old levi's and still look slammin'. believe me, you can... the key there is to never wear anything that makes us feel uncomfortable no matter how fasionable we think it is. it will only make us look comical and awkward. always look for something that boosts your confidence.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
[b]indeed, you hit it right...if we prefer on how we would want to dress up, be sure that we should be confident on how we looked like... thanks for sharing a lot! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@iskayz (5422)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
Hi there! I also find it funny when women who wears mini skirts but then keeps on pulling them down and is obviously uneasy with what they're wearing. I think if a woman is going to wear sexy outfit she should be able to carry it nicely and with confidence. They should not be bothered if men looks at them because sexy outfits does attracts attention on men and that is so obvious so they must be ready for that. I also think that if a woman is going to wear something sexy, she should have the at least the right to wear it. Like if you have really beautiful skin and legs. If you have it then flaunt it hehe but in a way that you will not look cheap. Ciao!
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
[b]very well said dear...they should not really bothered on how they look, whether they prefer on a fashion, have beautiful legs or if they dont they should still stand to how they wanted to be in public...they should expect other people to start looking at them...and they should never be hesitated on how they look! thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
@ElicBxn (60895)
• United States
9 Oct 08
ya know, that happened at the roomie's job early on. They don't have a strict dress code, but this gal came in wearing "hot" pants, a shirt that bared her midrift and then complained to the management that the guys were looking at her. They sent HER home to change and told her that if she was going to dress provoctively, she was going to have to expect people to look at her. What a moron!
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
[b]exactly...they should stand to how they dress...and as what you've said she should have expected that people would look at her... thanks for the post! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
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• Philippines
10 Oct 08
I don't wanna think bad about myself, hahaha! I admit I'm one of those who are fond of wearing mini skirts and shorts. I don't go out with that attire alone anyway. Usually I'm in a grocery with my Mom or partying with my friends. I should be responsible for myself, I dressed up sexily so I shouldn't be angry when men turn to look. I don't intend to tease men though, I just find these clothes really comfortable, like I'm wearing nothing. Hahaha! see ya around sharie!
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@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Oct 08
hi sharie my thoughts on short skirts is that they should be long enough to cover their butts when they bend over to pick up something. as for midriffs thats only for the young, older fatter woman look ugly doing that. I think that everyone should dress with at least a modicum of decency. No use in wearing a getup that yells street walker when you are anything but that.
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@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
4 Jan 09
very well said my friend....we should at least have decency on wearing anything, or at least have the guts wearing those... thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God blesS! +rating!