Difficult Role: Being A Friend
By wildfruit
@wildfruit (233)
Philippines
3 responses
@currykai (427)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 08
The most difficult thing for me as a friend is to tell something which is the truth but it is a very bad news. Once, I have a very good friend but she has changed to being taken me for granted and I hated it so much. She will just call me to pick her up and also make me wait for even hours during meeting up. Then, I know I have to end the friendship with her or confront her and ask her to change. That was the most difficult moment at that time. After confronting her, she was angry and avoided me for weeks but she came back and apologized and we were friends again. However, we are not as close as we used to be but is alright because at least I didn't lose a friend!
@wildfruit (233)
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
Yeah, I understand what you mean. It's hard risking a friendship over a bad quality that your friend has. But I'm glad that you guys were able to work out the friendship. :)
@xzg555898 (210)
• China
13 Oct 08
me too ,i once had a very good friend ,we got together all the time ,we can tell each other evrything,we can make any joke on each other ,but for such a little thing ,we got quarreled,from then on ,i find there were something between us ,we could not comr back for ever ,though we ofen talk
what a pity !in fact ,i really want to come back ,bu i can not .........
@xzg555898 (210)
• China
13 Oct 08
a good question!i must think for a long time ,heheh
oh i know one thing ,just come from one of my best friends:he always think he is right ,and he can give out a lot of reasons to prove that "i am right"i have no idea,most time ,i just choose to be quiet
what else can i do ?could you tell me?
@Double_Sins (21)
• United States
11 Oct 08
I've experienced that sometimes, you both expect different things from your relationship. I have a best friend who loves to hang out all the time and I don't have much time anymore. It can be hard sometimes. I just expect her to be there for me and know that someone genuinly cares for me besides my boyfriend and family.
