why we must shy to say "i love you" to someone we love?

Malaysia
October 12, 2008 11:37am CST
why we must shy to say "i love you" to some we love in front of our friends or her friends?leave your comments.thank you!
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@glords (2615)
• United States
12 Oct 08
I think sometimes we worry that we will make other people feel awkward. Perhaps they will feel lonely because they do not have someone special in their own lives. Sometimes words of affection and intimacy are best saved for your time alone together. However some people are more worried about themselves then others. These people feel embarrassed on their feelings. They either need some time to accept that they are in love, or to accept the person they are in love with. They just need to figure out if they are ashamed of love or ashamed of their lover. Either way they really need to work things out before they can move forward in their relationship. I think if you are ashamed of your lover the relationship probably wont work. Deep down you don't respect them as much as you should. They deserve someone who loves them enough to overlook whatever it is that is embarrassing you. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.
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• Malaysia
13 Oct 08
wow..new concept.shy to love someone or shy to the lover.hurm...cant really figure it out.maybe sometimes people tend to shy?confusing the feeling...but the main point is that,the feeling of shy to say the word is proof his in love?maybe this situation can also be applied to woman.everyone shy.it's just a mixture of feeling...shy to admit,shy of not knowing why should shy,and confuse just like you say,thanks!
• Malaysia
13 Oct 08
wow..new concept.shy to love someone or shy to the lover.hurm...cant really figure it out.maybe sometimes people tend to shy?confusing the feeling...but the main point is that,the feeling of shy to say the word is proof his in love?maybe this situation can also be applied to woman.everyone shy.it's just a mixture of feeling...shy to admit,shy of not knowing why should shy,and confuse just like you say,thanks!
12 Oct 08
For me, its a nice feeling if somebody told or will tell me, infront of other people that he loves me and how proud he is. But I never been a showy person, I don't even respond to the person who said or say that to me. I am just too shy and like to hide my feelings from the other people even if they are my own family. I just don't like showing my real feelings to somebody, and yes I had regrets about it when it was too late to tell them or him!
• Malaysia
13 Oct 08
women like you really makes men shy even more! that's the most main reason why i believe most guys shy to express their love.no doubts.hahahha.even though i agree women have the rights,but please give men a chance by showing appreciation for the courage to express their feelings...trust me,it's hard say!
13 Oct 08
Yes, I think its hard to say, that why I didnt say it back. Hehehehe but you know my boyfriend now understands it, and we agreed not to say it in public just me and him together so its more romantic. But we are very proud to have each other people can see how happy we are together heheheh I hope it will last though! Wish me luck hehehe.
• Malaysia
14 Oct 08
all the best lovelyvelle...i'm sure your boyfriend love to you as much as you love to him.i heard sometimes,the word "i love you" shouldnt be said too much,as it will lost its magic..like when you say it,you feel like blood runs to your body so fast.but i think,just say the word with full of sincerity,same situation will happen,doesnt matter how many times you said.by the way,check my pictures,your username (lovelyvelle) is qutie familiar to a place in turkey...it's called lovely valley..there's a reason why they call that..check my pics
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
12 Oct 08
I never was shy and still am not shy to say I love you to my husband. even my previous relationships. I am very showy with my feelings toward my partner. I was never afraid to say or make him feel that i am so in love with him
• Malaysia
13 Oct 08
this is the spirit that we want!good shar1979.why must be shy?love is something we should proud of.your husband must be greatful to have you as your wife.sometimes by saying "i love you" makes someone being be appreciated.am i right?
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
15 Oct 08
yep. every little things are very much appreciated especially if you tell your partner that you love him at least once a day would mean so much. you can never tell what can happen so it's best to make sure you tell your partner that you love him/her so much for you may never say it again
• Malaysia
16 Oct 08
yeah it's true and i agree wtih you.we will never know what will happen in the future.at least if something happen, you already tell how much you love him/ her
• Australia
26 Oct 08
Maybe someone feels shy to say i love you is because it's out of character for that person? It's sort of an odd feeling to say that and for me i don't have the courage to say that to anyone. Maybe one day i'll be able to say that.
• Malaysia
27 Oct 08
hahaha... the courage that we lack of and need to be search... one day we will be able to say to it in front of people we love ... happy mylotting~
@ShellyB (5244)
• United States
16 Oct 08
I do not know, fear of being found out, being shy, not wanting other to make fun of us. It goes away with age tho.
• Malaysia
27 Oct 08
maybe the same reason like you think makes me shy to say the word :-)
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
16 Oct 08
I am always ope to tell to my wife the word "I Love You" and I never felt shy or shame on telling her how important she is with me and How much I do Loved her.....
• Malaysia
27 Oct 08
that's great, you have the courage. just sometimes we tend to ignore simple thing like saying " i love you " for just too shy...
• Philippines
13 Oct 08
I am not really shy to express the love I have for special people. I can actually say it without feeling shy about it. :)
• Malaysia
14 Oct 08
you surely have the courage...the word is like a taboo to me.hehehe
@subha12 (18453)
• India
13 Oct 08
may be deep down the heart there is something we feel in saying. may be it rushes the blood to the cheeks and we blush so much. Still I think there is some doubt in hiuman minds when we want to say this.
• Malaysia
13 Oct 08
i agree with you,subha...when you meet people that you love,and still no confess have been made,the moment you see him/her,your heart pumping hard,cheek flush,starting to get dizzy,and logically,in that conditon,how are you going to say the most "meanigful" word that might change your life...i think it's okay to shy,but not too shy...maybe at the right moment,the word comes out...
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
12 Oct 08
Sometimes it's very hard to say I Love you specially if the person doesn't know that we do love them. W4e are scared to loose them when they know that we love them. It's enough sometimes we better show it to our actions then by saying it. Are you scared being rejected or to reciprocate your love? Love is being blinded by our feelings and emotions, and sometimes theirs usually pain with it. And were scared also that the love we have for that person was not really meant to be, that it's enough to felt love then not having felt love alone. Have a nice day!
• Malaysia
13 Oct 08
nice explanation n30wing.maybe the mixture feeling of scared of losing loved ones when we said the word "i love you",and the feeling eager to tell how much you love her/him makes any person shy.the word is like a taboo.thanks for reply.happy mylotting...never shy to say thank you!
• United States
12 Oct 08
Not really! or shall I say not all people are very shy to speak those words in front of many audiences. If you think that the people will redicule you if you say those words that means you're not true to yourself and to your love one. Saying I love you in front of many others is very courageous. I admire people who said this to their love ones regardless of too many crowds. Happy ThanksGiving Canada!
• Malaysia
13 Oct 08
yeah i admit there are some "brave" man accept the challenge.i am also admire such person.but the matter of being shy to say such word,i can see many times.and after his or her love not in front of him or her,then they usually says "why i'm being quite..just say the word...owh gosh!"...have you experience such situation?
• India
12 Oct 08
I seriously doubt that shyness man. I think it's got more to do with fear of rejection and the hurt that will cause than shyness. I say this because I have seen the most straight forward and people who are completely regardless of what other people think, quiver when they had to confess their love. Now you cannot say that shyness is the reason because they are not shy in the first place . It's the apprehension and the hesitation and the fear of rejection that causes them to consider and reconsider their actions. bourne
• Malaysia
13 Oct 08
shyness man,or the other word is guy who being act on the safe side.maybe shy guy just dont think saying that magical word in front of others is the best move at the moment.maybe he had other plan in his mind.i dont know.human is complecated.confessing is very hard,esspecially when facing with possibility of getting negative feedback.what do you think?
@eshaan (6193)
• India
12 Oct 08
Never be late or the opportunity is lost..., meybe there will be someone else in ur place and then there is nothing for u except regreting, better u say it, if it is accepted then good or else forget, maybe u r lucky next time.
• Malaysia
13 Oct 08
heehehe.i agree "never be late or the oppurtinity is lost"...but the lost is something we forget when we are facing someone we love,yet in front of our or her friends.we get SHY~.easy to say but hard to do.have you experienced such situation?
@srikool (936)
• India
12 Oct 08
ha ha..good question..why we have to shy to say that..that is love..that is it power..love is a wonderful feeling..whiel experssing it..we are having some hesitation and shy..that is a nature one to all..he or she may reject our love..all may laugh for our love with someone..we would not the ideal match to that person..like that..our mond having number of thinking because of these we feel shy to say our to someone..i think this may be a reason..lets see the others reply to you..have a nice time in mylot
• Malaysia
13 Oct 08
too scared to admit something true?why?we shouldnt hide our true feeling,to express anger to someone we hate people see as normal,yet it's "must" situation,even though in front of public.but why not express your love in front of your friend?maybe yeah you are right,it's the power of love.the feeling of scared to be rejected maybe the reason why people dont want to tell or say 'i love you'...is it scared or shy?which one you preferred?
@Sheepie (3118)
• United States
12 Oct 08
Well, I think that it's just about making other people feel awkward, you want to make sure everyone is comfortable. I don't think I would care either way, but some people think it's a private business, I guess!
@LadyMarissa (12161)
• United States
12 Oct 08
[b][i]In my opinion... [/i][/b]If you're shy to say I love you in front of family or friends, then you do not truly love them. When truly in love you do NOT care what others think or feel. And you surely don't worry about how stupid you're acting!!!