i am ready for eternity, is that bad?
October 12, 2008 1:38pm CST
you never know when you fall in love. you never know when it strikes. but you know that you can control initially... if not then you are gone. well sometimes for the not so lucky ones the love is like a mirage. they love someone and they cannot express. they know that their lover is happy somewhere else.. or may be happy in the single status.... that you never know. but you still love. you fear that you may lose him if you speak. you do everything that is possible on your part to keep him happy. even if you are held guilty for something you do not complain as you fear that the matters may get worse. you just love knowing not where it is headed to. but you know nothing than to love... never speaking a word... never showing that you love. you never even complain.... all these you do knowing nothing about what is in store in the future.... still you remain ready to do this for eternity!
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• United States
12 Oct 08
I am not exactly sure what you are explaining here so I will sum up what I got from this. I see a person and their destined choice of living their love part of life. You are going along in life and one day you meet someone and that someone is the person that you want to be with forever and you never really know what will happen in this love dance. For some it will be wonderful and magical (not every second). And then there is another that will actually turn on the one that they love and begin to bring them pain. They will stay anyways for they are chained to the other by an invisible wire. Then there are some that just decide to remain single and neglect that space, making it a baren place. And these are choices that we all make and we have no idea exactly how it will unfold. I am chosing that I may not know the actual future and I dont even care to. All I know is that I love my husband very deeply as he does me. Hopefully we will live until we grow old and have grandchildren. These are the dreams for my future and I take care to work towards that one day, but as for the actual future I am living in the present. I enjoy and cherish the right now. Being ready for eternity is not bad its good. I actually have eternity tattooed on the back of my neck.
12 Oct 08
i hope that you see great grand children with your husband. that is a very good thing that you believe in love and marriage and living the present life to make the future enjoyable. being single is a choice that people make only to realize later that it was a bad choice. then there are people who love someone.... knowing not that they will get any in return from that man.... but still they love. they do not let others to come to their life. and remain aloof from everything else. all that they know is that they love someone and thats all. thanks for the good thoughts that you have shared with me.
• United States
12 Oct 08
I think people should look at the big picture. Maybe they will find that they are more ready for a commitment than they think they are. Does nayone really want to be so unstable for so long? A lot of people take a long time before they decide to settle down, but when they do it might be too late.
12 Oct 08
there are certain times you feel that you need to settle but at the same time you feel like you are committing a sin by thinking such. you know that time is running out of your hands. . . but still you let it go away. you remain in the same situation and keep the feeble hope alive. knowing all the truth you wipe your tears and still you hope against hope. you never care for anything else. you do not care because you cannot give any thought to anything else. you know that this is pure stupidity... still you choose that. well your thought are true and practical. thanks for responding.
16 Jan 09
wow, i think you speak from the heart. and i guess you are experiencing the same as you wrote the above discussion. my friend, i know that it is really real hard to do so.. to be loving without knowing things. it is not really easy and will never be really easy.. somehow, when you fall in love, it seems that you will be foolish too. but who cares, right at the moment, that is what you felt. and you feel good about it. even if others are now ridiculing you. it does not matter. continue to fall in love. it is not easy though. but in the end it will be worthwhile to be doing. but somehow, give some time for yourself. value yourself for it is the main reason why you are still there.. thank you..