What if the borrower forgets to pay you back?

China
October 13, 2008 8:32pm CST
Will you ask him/her directly to give the money or book or whatever back to you? I think it's embarrassed. But i don't think they did this on purpose, they just forgot. I can't tolerate. However, next time i have to think twice before lending them something if they keep forgetting. How about you?
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7 responses
• China
11 Nov 08
Hi,Lynettebyc,nice to meet you! It is really a difficult thing.You should make a decision to lost money before you lend money to your friend,or you don't lend him anything.If your friend forget it,you can remind him or borrow money from him.
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• China
14 Nov 08
Maybe i can borrow money from her to remind my lost money, good suggestion :0
@youless (86445)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Nov 08
This will be very embarrassing. I think I dare not to ask the borrower to pay me back. I regard that I lose money by my mistake. I love China
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• China
14 Nov 08
Yeah, i didn't ask her for money either, it's strange. So i take it that i lost the money carelessly. But i'll think twice if i want to lead her money again.
14 Oct 08
Hi lynettebyc, Yes, I do understand what you are saying because I have lend people money and have never got i back and now I just forget about it and never ever lend anyone anything as long as I live. Tamara
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• China
15 Oct 08
Hey, tamara, i still lend to others, but it depends on who and what he/she tries to borrow.You know, most of them are good
@sanzi1201 (645)
• China
14 Oct 08
I havn't miss this kind of bad thing.If I meet this ,I will do nothing except tolerating ,I think.Haha
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• China
14 Oct 08
I tolerated. But if i think of it, i still feel uncomfortable, maybe i am not good at handling things happened in the past.
• China
14 Oct 08
i will ask him directly..if i remember....i alway forget if ohters borrow someting from me
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• China
14 Oct 08
I will sometimes forget too, but it seems that that guy has a worse memory.
@annjilena (5621)
• United States
14 Oct 08
ask him or her for your money how you going to forget that you owe someone.it,s embarrassing for him because he are she is not a man or woman of their word it,s on them ask them and don,t loan them again if they going to treat you in this way.
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• China
14 Oct 08
It's been a year~ I don't know how to ask for it.
@littleowl (7157)
24 Oct 08
I'm bad at asking for money back cos I don't when I have leant it to them,,I too get embarrased asking for it back...littleowl