our pains and joys in mylot...

@Zelmarq (11508)
Cebu City, Philippines
October 13, 2008 11:32pm CST
Mylot is a site where I can expres things and write things that I cant express in person. I have written here all my joys and my pains and it helped me cope with the pais specially when im down and out and I have been encouraged by people that encourage me here. Its also a site where we can reach out to those who are in pain and as well as encourage them and help them with their pains. Its also where I have shared my joys and also many people would also congratulate and share their joys as well.
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@Lakota12 (42794)
• United States
14 Oct 08
Oh yes mylot is a very good place to do that also to meet friends around the world.!
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@Zelmarq (11508)
• Cebu City, Philippines
20 Oct 08
Its a good support system that we can lean on, its also where we can encourage and lift each other up through our kind words and our support. Thank you for sharing and have a nice day! Take care!!!
@Lakota12 (42794)
• United States
20 Oct 08
yes alot of support here from friends and your welcome!
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@dpk262006 (54732)
• Delhi, India
14 Oct 08
I also share my joys and sorrows here with my dear friends. I would say that mylot is a bundle of joy, which keep unfolding day in and day out. I love to participate in friends' discussions and sharing my thoughts and opinion with them. I believe that I've developed a kind of bonding with my friends. I eargerly wait for their new discussions and try my best to put forth my views on the their discussions, when I feel that I could say something worthy or substantial. If friends are not around, mylot appears a bit boring and dull, but I make do with their temporary absence. I know that some of friends here are mylot addicts and they cannot be without mylot. Money making is secondary to me, I am not here for making money, I just enjoy the discussions - going for comments, counter-comments and sub-comments. I know making counter commments etc. does not help earn cents, yet I love to do it for the sake of fun and enjoyment. I believe happiness is more important than earning money and making someone happy here and appreciating his/her efforts remains my aim. It's been a great experience for the past one and a half years over here. I learnt a lot and developed my skills in communicating with friends from different origins. I could manage to win their hearts and vice versa. I now have the confidence and experience to respond to topics and discussions, which I did not have when I was fresher here. Hope my journey will continue here on mylot for times to come. Good Post!
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@Zelmarq (11508)
• Cebu City, Philippines
14 Oct 08
Yes that true. When I have a new discussio about my pains, I really wait and expect what others have to say about the problem and its really worth waiting for their replies. It makes me happy and it helps me weigh out things and mylotters really help me see the bigger picture and understand the situation. Its nice to have a journey here in mylot with you also my friend. im glad we found friends here even though we have not really seen each other in person.
@dpk262006 (54732)
• Delhi, India
14 Oct 08
Whenever you start a new discussion about your joys and sorrows your friends always come out with their suggestions and this gives you a kind of relief and satisfaction, atleast some people are there, who understand you. Thanks for your kind words about me. Yes, it is the beauty of mylot that we have not seen each other, yet we feel that we are good friends and can share our joys and sorrows. (Pl. check my latest discussion).
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@Bluepatch (2481)
• Trinidad And Tobago
14 Oct 08
The great thing for me is the interest factor. You get so many things to write about and you get to meet so many different interesting people that is what makes it all worthwhile.
@Zelmarq (11508)
• Cebu City, Philippines
21 Oct 08
YES,that very true my friend. I love this site too and theres no site like mylot, they are all supportive and kind and always there to encourage each and everyone here.
• China
14 Oct 08
hehe, but for me ,a newer here ,and i know nobody here, it's can be so free here ,but i am alone,hehe ,glad to be your friend!
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@Zelmarq (11508)
• Cebu City, Philippines
20 Oct 08
You can invite and get to know friends here my friend. They are kind and very supportive. Welcome to mylot. Thank you for sharing and have a nice day!
@airl1527 (355)
• China
14 Oct 08
I agree with you, my friend. I am supporting you, have you noticed that?
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@Zelmarq (11508)
• Cebu City, Philippines
15 Oct 08
Yes, I have noticed that and I would like to thank you for sharing and encouraging me.
@sirrob (4112)
• Philippines
14 Oct 08
definitely right. you hit the mark in there zelmarq!! it's true that there's a wide and varied emotions and feelings here and most especially coming from different people with different cultures and background which you haven't meet and seen yet but you shared the same and common interest (though most of the part only). it has been a great months for me here.
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@Zelmarq (11508)
• Cebu City, Philippines
14 Oct 08
Yes thats very true my friend. Its nice that we have nice people here also.
@amoisan (240)
• Canada
14 Oct 08
i have noticed that too that many people wright down the feelings and thats good becaus ekeeping them bottled up can hurt more some times and telling some one in real life is just not a option some times but here people dont jugde others on there feeling i like mylot for that.
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@Zelmarq (11508)
• Cebu City, Philippines
14 Oct 08
Its one of the effective ways of dealing with pain through writng it here, its also nice coz people can help us see things well through their advice specially when it comes to delicate matters and also matters of the heart and relationships.
@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
14 Oct 08
I feel the same zel, many times I have come on to Mylot feeling a bit down and it has cheered me up somewhat just to help someone else, or get some advice from someone on something else, I too can talk about a lot of things i don't really talk to anyone , Mylot is a good place like that..
@Zelmarq (11508)
• Cebu City, Philippines
14 Oct 08
Yes my friend , very true. Its like a social support system that we can have a network that also helps others. Have a nice day and keep up the good work.
@longbangod (1791)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
Yah, I agree with you. This sight could be used as an outlet for every feelings or emotions we have as a result of a certain happenings in our lives. If we have enough time with mylot, I'm sure we will gain a lot of true friends that we could confide in times of troubles and share joys or happiness with.
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• Philippines
15 Oct 08
I think it is the overall beauty of mylot it captivates the human nature, the ability to connect others. Each one of us, has this something inside us that wants to be appreciated, opened, accpeted and being understood. The good thing about this site, it enables us to win more friends across the boundaries of our own backyard to speak. The longer we stay here, the more people we get familiar with, its indeed good to be here - our virtual home.
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@mjmlagat (3171)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
Yes, and that what makes mylot one of the greatest sites ever created. It allows people specially the deprived to open up themselves and be relieved from emotional burdens. It also allows people to be more happy to be of service to others and become more fulfilled in their lives, too.
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• Philippines
15 Oct 08
yeah.. this is like a family site. a lot of unique people out here. some would encourage us, and some would contribute something. and some would help us re think of the things we are discussing. not to mention those who oppose. hehe..
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@maroseqf (3657)
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
that is one of the good things here in mylot my friend. you can write about anything you one and people can relate to you, give you an advice or tell you their view about it. it is something that makes people want to spend more time here. it doesn't only give you a chance to learn but can also touch you heart. keep on lotting! :)
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
19 Oct 08
I am also doing the same way that you have in here Zelmarq especially if I would need an advice or suggestions from other person i am always hanging on here to have one good advice as well although it would happen most of the time that they were opposite way due to our culture......
@lingli_78 (12852)
• Australia
15 Oct 08
well, i feel the same way with you too... i share my joy more here than my pain i guess because i try to be a more optimistic person and prefer to keep the pain to myself... take care and have a nice day...