the spoil one

hi i have a 2 1/2 year old girl and a 1 year old boy my girl thinks she is the boss of him she pushes him around and throws him to the floor! She is also going threw the stage of throwing temper tantrums in the mall when i wont let her have something. When she is naughty at home i have found that sitting her on the stairs which we call the naughty stairs for 2 min and setting a timer. She tries to get up but i dont speak to her just puts her back for the full 2min she kicks and screams but eventually she calms down and give me a hug and sais sorry. i found that this works with her. with the temper tantrums when she dont get what she wants in the mall i take her away from what she wants and goes home. later when she ges home she remembers that she was supposed to go somewhere that we never imwent when she had the tantrum the next time we went to the mall she was great!

Hi ultra, I have a cousin like that. I dont know how to deal with her either. She is 7 but behaves likes a 17 year old, lol. May be i think she will get better and starts behaving properly.Though i love her a lot. She is just 7 yrs old and a wonderful kid. Cheers, Tutul