What will you do when hubby keeps on chaning his plan?

@Bebs08 (10691)
United States
October 15, 2008 1:33pm CST
My goodness!! it drives me nuts. When he said we are going somewhere for week end, I usually pack a day before the date. Well, what happened was he changed his mind a night before we go. As if I want to shout... it kills my excitement. The thing is.. the reason is not valid. He has just think that it might be good to do it the other time and when?? my goodness!! no specific date.. it upsets me because this happened not only once and today? when he said, we will go? I won't believe him until the night before our departure. that's the time I will start to pack. It is very annoying to keep on packing and unpacking... I don't know why some men are fickle minded,,, hahaha thought only women keeps on changing decision, also men? What about you? who keeps on changing? wife of husband. LOL interesting to know.
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@walijo2008 (4649)
• United States
16 Oct 08
Haha..thats funny..well in our case, its me that keeps changing my mind, or I can't make up my mind. I know it annoys my husband, he can't figure out why I don't like making plans, he said he can't make plans for himself because he doesn't know what I'm going to do. He likes to fish and camp, I like doing that too, but on the weekends he decides to do it, I usually have other things in mind, and I can't figure out what I want to do, go with him, or do the other things, and it takes me forever to decide, I won't decide until it comes down to the last minute, I don't like making plans, I don't know why, and thats annoying to him..lol.
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@Bebs08 (10691)
• United States
19 Oct 08
ahaha!!! yea, I understand most ladies keep on changing their minds and.. yes, it takes forever to decide whether they will go or not,, it happen to me before when i was yet single. But now that I am married, I want to have activities well planned and straight.. unless there are valid reasons why we can't do it. I am the one who is annoyed now,, hahaah not he.
@salonga (28057)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
Oh No! My hubby is not fickle minded! Once he said or promised something, he'd do that come what may! It is I who is rather more of a fickle-minded but not when it comes to plan that has already been finalized. Oh my husband will get mad if I will change my mind the last minute. I knew him so well...when it's yes it should really be yes...anything that has been planned must push through unless the end of the world comes! Ha!ha!ha!
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@Bebs08 (10691)
• United States
16 Oct 08
hahaha you are funny my friend. Well, maybe I am like your hubby. I am upset when the plan is canceled without any valid reason. That's the same with me, when it is yes, it should be yes unless there is very good reason to change it. Well, there are many things going on in his mind. As people keep on thinking (as he is a thinker) they also keep on changing their plans which I don't like and it drives me nuts.
• United States
15 Oct 08
You forgot the kids.
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@Bebs08 (10691)
• United States
16 Oct 08
hahaha we have no kids, so we just go without thinking of littler kids.. hahaha
@CJay77 (4441)
• Australia
15 Oct 08
Hi Bebs! My husband never change his plan unless theres a valid reason and I'm so proud of him for that. It will be annoying for sure after you packed everything and then unpacked again. And I'll be upset also if theres no valid reason. Maybe next time just go by yourself or pretend and maybe he wouldn't let you go on your own! Now you know that its not only women who keep changing mind . Have a nice day.
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@Bebs08 (10691)
• United States
16 Oct 08
hahaha you are right!! men also are changeable... not only women... yes it is truly annoying to pack and unpacked.. There was one time that he went alone because I did not go. Why keep on changing and after all he would go? hahah it really drives me nuts!!! am serious!!!
@checapricorn (16072)
• United States
15 Oct 08
[i]Hi Bebs, so far we have no problem about that, when he will plan it is really a plan and he will pursue and me also but what drives me nuts is that when he will not tell me ahead of time because he wants to surprise me and surely I was surprise but the time is very tight for preparation and everything and his attitude also of no patient in waiting...so, it's world war 3 but good thing he knows to just keep quiet when I am venting! LOL![/i]
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@Bebs08 (10691)
• United States
16 Oct 08
Hi Che, My hubby keeps on changing... I don't know what is playing on his head why he is like that? and yes, sometimes he also would not tell me when there are activities that we are going to attend. I am just kind of... WHAT? hahahah.. well, sometimes I'm venting,,, but he would also reason out.. I don't want long argument so, I will keep quiet but most often it drives me crazy. There was one time that he went alone because I did not go. Once he changed his plan of not going my mind is set to it, but later he would say we would go? sorry for him I wont go.. hahaha he went alone.
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