SORRY- its gravity to you

@jazel_juan (15767)
Philippines
October 16, 2008 8:34pm CST
When you made a mistake or you made someone cry or you've hurt someone to you always make it a point to apologize and say sorry?? Or when someone did you wrong, is it important to you that that person utter the word "sorry"? For me when i made a mistake and hurt someone, i will really make it a point to apologize and tell that person i am sorry or else i could not sleep...if that person does not accept then at least i did my part and apologized... But if someone hurt me, at times i need to say the words "sorry" but there are persons who cannot say it..so i look at their actions if they are really sincere or not...
4 responses
@syankee525 (6298)
• United States
19 Oct 08
if i do something to hurt someone i will say sorry. and if they don't want to accpet it, that was up to them. i did my part. as far as people hurting me, if they don't say sorry i will still forgive for me. but the trust and respect won;t be there for them
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
true! sometimes when you already apologized and that person still did not accept it atleast you did your part, the guilt is already off...oh well thanks for posting~:))
@tryxiness (4549)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
I seldom say or accept sorry. Am I mean? I seldom say because I want to show to the person that I really mean sorry by doing things that would really prove the I am sorry instead of just saying it. I seldom accept sorry because I expect the person to do things instead of just saying it.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
action speaks louder than words indeed :D
@donn_juan (326)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
before, saying sorry for me is really hard..well at least when it comes to my husband haha! he says sorry first even if its his fault or not. i learned from him.. i guess i just have a hard time when it comes to people so close to me..i can't sleep though until i say sorry..it bugs me! and the sleepless nights are the worst.. it's much easier for me to say sorry to other people like when i stepped on someone's toes, 'sorry' automatically comes out. i guess saying sorry is something that is needed whenever we hurt other people's feelings. it's just an expression of accepting one's fault.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
true same here, sorry comes out automatically like when i stepped on someone shoes or like i was carrying an umbrella and accidentally i poked someone with it... :D and i also believe kids should also be taught this way right?
@psspurgeon1 (1110)
• United States
17 Oct 08
I have become an apologising freak. I apologise for things before they even happen. Must be all the hormones from multiple pregnancies, I don't know but I cannot handle people being mad at me. I don't like to give extreme opinions due to the possiblity of creating conflict. Conflict literally makes me vomit. Also, I do tend to need an apology from people for saying or doing something mean or bad. For some reason, it makes me feel a little better then them just saying "oh well, get over it". I guess I'm a bit more irrationally sensitive than most though.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
nice, in a way i am like you, i am also not at ease whenever i know someone is mad at me or i have hurt someone.. i have to say sorry, apologize and show that person i am sorry especially when it is my husband hehehehe..