I am a virgin does that put girls off

October 17, 2008 1:25pm CST
I am 22 and still a virgin i am just no good with girls have low confidence and i am shy. Does this put girls off.
9 responses
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
Virginity is not something to be put girls off. I react on this, because am also a virgin and a conservative one and I'm very proud of it. It's defend upon our culture. I'm from far east and women only lost their virginity once they are married and biblicaly speaking being virgin means purity specially if you are still single. Our body is the temple of our soul. Keep your virginity intact while you are still single don't worry you'll be getting married soon.
@wuwo55 (3)
• China
29 Oct 08
frist time,give your husband
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
27 Oct 08
Well i am a girl and I won't care much about it. What is important to me, is the personnality of the person and what is inside of him. That will be the true beauty.
• Japan
27 Oct 08
No. It means you are clean. Free from STDs, AIDS, HPVs where you can get from casual s3x. It also means you are strong. You don't just let the society dictates who you should be. You don't let the pressure takes over with what you want in life just because everybody is doing it or they think it is cool. And the most grand of all is you have something to look forward to someone you want to spend your life with. so keep on rocking. stay stuck.
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
22 Oct 08
some girls prefer virgin guys but if you want my own opinion....i dont like guys who are virgin. i dont wanna teach them on how to do it. i prefer someone with experience and someone who can explore more with me
@maroseqf (3657)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
ofcourse not. why would you be shy? i believe that virginity is an important and delicate matter. i think we should preserve our virginity until we get married. it doesn't matter if you are a guy or a girl because most guys think that it's part of them to lose virginity before marriage. i really give a round of applause to those guys who are still virgin nowadays. i think it is a sign of their respect to womanhood and a proof of masculinity. keep it that way! don't be bothered if other people especially other guys tease you about it. you should be proud of it my friend!
@emarie (5442)
• United States
17 Oct 08
i don't think it would turn girls off. it won't put me off. i actually find it nice that you are one. i was the same as you, i had low confidence and i was shy. my match was someone who was outgoing and friendly with everyone. i think you do though need to have more confidence in yourself. if the girl cares weather your a virgin or not then she's not the right one for you. i think you should actually hold out until you found your right one. actually, being a virgin might turn some woman on, but those can get pretty scary. lol
@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
If you're single, then it's great! You must be proud. I never knew that there are still guys who remain to be virgin until marriage. Save it for your beloved.
@yuna15 (2706)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
I would be impressed actually if I was the person. Virginity is not something you should be ashamed of. It just means that you have something to look forward to in the future. Your FIRST.