Do you really have a should to cry on ?
By Emilyzhu
@Emilyzhu (147)
China
October 17, 2008 8:27pm CST
Do you have someone that can comfort you when you are sad or lack of confidence?I have one .He is my boyfriend .We both love each other very much .I am a strong-willed and confident girl .When I was a student ,I studied very hard,and while I graduated from my college ,I worked very hard .However ,after all ,I am also a flimsy girl in emotion .Confronting with big difficulties ,I would cry casually .He will ,of course ,always stay with me ,listening to my endless complaint sciently ,sweeping my tear ,kissing my forhead .I will never forget the sentences he said to me at that time :Cheer up ,my dear .Everything will be OK.Even though you were abandoned by all the world ,you still have me staying here ,waiting for you !
So ,what about you ? Do you also have some one like this ?
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5 responses
@atenean101 (137)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
Yes I believe I do have and that would be my bestfriends... but of course there are really things that sometimes I need to cry on with just myself alone, because not at all times that they`re there for me, since they also have things that they need to comfort themselves with, get me? But yes, my bestfriends are my bestfriends! Hehe.
@tklich (391)
• United States
19 Nov 08
Everyone in this world needs at least one shoulder to cry on. Everyone feels the need to just break down at some point, you can't keep it all bottled up inside of you. That's great that you have someone in your life that truly cares about you. I just got married a few weeks ago, and my husband is a pretty good listener. I think that men always look at the situation differently though - their brains work in different ways than a woman's does. But a lot of times that's a very good thing; they can point out things you never would have thought of before. I also have a couple very good friends that I know I can talk with and they wouldn't tell a soul. I can trust them with my life. I'm very thankful for these people and don't know what I would do without them.
@CanadaGal (4304)
• Canada
20 Oct 08
I have 2 dear friends who I feel I can turn to at any time when I need a shoulder to cry on or a listening ear.
One of them, Dawn, lives 3 hours away, but she's only a phone call away. We talk every day, and we talk about anything and everything. We have been best friends for over 30 years.
The other friend is Jeff. We have only been friends for about 2 years now, but I feel like it's been a LOT longer than that (in a good way 
). I know I can call him when I need a friend, and if I need him here with me, he will do his best to be here.
I also find that sometimes just knowing I have someone who I can turn to gives me strength to endure some things on my own.
). I know I can call him when I need a friend, and if I need him here with me, he will do his best to be here.
I also find that sometimes just knowing I have someone who I can turn to gives me strength to endure some things on my own. @chelseamk (81)
• United States
3 Nov 08
My boyfriend is a great shoulder to cry on too. He always helps me calm down and stays with me until I feel better.
