boy or girl...which one do u like?

@jstmarfz (1499)
United States
October 17, 2008 8:34pm CST
When I was in college, I was really dreaming to have a baby girl. For me, its easy to dress up when you have a girl. It is easy to handle to have a baby girl or daughter than having a baby boy or son. But a friend of mine said she wants baby boy because they are more less expensive than having a girl/daughter. Is that true? If you are given a chance to have a child, would it be a girl or boy? Why?
8 responses
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
my answer would be too far from your rationale haha but i would like to have a baby boy first. well, first of all, boys are the carriers of your husband's name. a boy as a first born would really interest your husband, your father and your husband's father! :) secondly, i want my next children to have a big brother to look up to. if by any chance i would have a daughter as a 2nd child, i want my son to protect his sister's rights and dignity in a way that she would protect her from other boys... you know, the bad ones... and third, its a personal preference because i grew up with my three girl siblings, no brother/s, and i guess it's a different thing if you got a brother among the siblings. there is this sense of security.
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@jstmarfz (1499)
• United States
18 Oct 08
I agree with you. Eldest should be boy because parents want them to be the protector for the second child if it happens to be a daughter. If you want to have 2 or more kids that would be nice...hehe
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
i would want to have twins though. boy+girl and another one. God may choose what he wants with the 3rd one. haha. (demanding! tsk!) or maybe, boy + girl twins. :) same regulations apply :)
• Philippines
19 Oct 08
that gotta be tough to make... :) unless your wife or you have hereditary basis for triplets... or unless you get to go to a special doctor if both of you doesn't have hereditary traits like that. i don't have that trait in my genes but i'm still hoping to get twins. haha. and if i get lucky (and might have lots of money) i could go to a special fertility doctor to have male+female twins! :D ... or fertility dancing??? :)
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
i always wanted to have a baby girl if ever!!it would be my mini me!!, i just love dressing up a girl, i do that even in my neices, but my boyfriend (policeman), he really wants a boy first rather than a girl so he could have someone to be his barkada,lol and maybe next would be a girl, it would be more practical that a girl would be the youngest so that her older brother would look after her, and guard her everytime boys would court her,lol, actually thats what my boyfriend say!!!
@jstmarfz (1499)
• United States
18 Oct 08
well yeah that's right! And I know how it feel to be guarded by an elder brother...hehe
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
hahaha, you said it right!!good thing im far from my brother now and they think im already mature enough to keep myself in right path, but during my high school days i always wish that my brother wont see me everytime someone's near at me!!!
• India
23 Oct 08
i always wanted to have a baby girl ever.. i like girl baby very much.. keep posting take care and have fun..
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• United States
18 Oct 08
I have one boy and one girl and they each have been such a blessing. They have each been as expensive or as cheap as I needed them to be at the time. They have some great clothes for boys now too and you can dress them up very cute. Kids clothes are getting very expensive now days though.
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@Anchopy (1453)
• Paraguay
18 Oct 08
I like girls.. but if I have to choose between having a child boy or girl I think that I'll choose a boy.. It will be more easy to speak and teach boy things for me to my little boy.. but I think boys are more close to the mom than the dad.. if a little girl comes I think that I will have a very good relationship with her too
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@psspurgeon1 (1109)
• United States
18 Oct 08
I absolutely love having two girls. I don't know anything about having a boy or taking care of a boy so I guess that's why I always wanted baby girls. Anyway, I love dressing my girls up, they are very girlie. They wear adorable clothes and each have like 20 pairs of shoes. It is awesome. I wouldn't trade them for anything. I would actually like to have another girl. My husband would like to have a boy and if we have a boy in the future, I will love him the same as my girls! But I would be happy with a whole house full of girls! :-)
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• South Korea
26 Oct 08
Having a baby is a perfect and very wonderful gift from God, my wife and I wouldn't mind mind a baby boy or a baby girl. We have two daughters at the moment 14 and 8 respectively, whom we miss everyday terribly, and are actually requesting to have a baby brother :) ...
@PRIYANK1992 (1678)
• India
18 Oct 08
I am boy so obeviously I like girls.I would to be with girls.