who is more helpful friends or relatives?

friends forever - friends are more helpful like these friends
India
October 20, 2008 10:29am CST
i find friends more helpful than relatives in all ways. relatives are jealous, selfish and very silly. friends are always helpful and share their life with us without any inhibitions i feel. what do u think?
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9 responses
@gerald_lian (2188)
• Australia
20 Oct 08
For me, I always find my family and relatives are the people that I normally go to for help in times of need. I have loving and caring relatives, so issues of them being jealous, selfish and being silly is not really an issue for me. But considering I'm living overseas now away from most of my relatives, so I depend a lot on the friends I'm with now. Depending on how close am I to my friends, I could share my deepest feelings, thoughts and opinions with them just like I could share them with my family members. Overall, I would have to say that the help I get from both friends and relatives are more or less the same, and all of them are vital to me.....
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• India
22 Oct 08
i think u need to be lucky to get such friends and relatives,am happy for you good luck
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• China
17 Jun 11
I agree with your opinion!I'd like to know the life of living abroad,could you tell me more about it? please!
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
22 Oct 08
I know friends are there for me.. But when I am in some trouble it is my parents only who helps me or some one from family. Or any thing urgent has to be done it is done either with the help of a family person or me all alone. It has many reasons like my friends live quite away from the place where I live. So they just can't come to me with a single phone call. There has to be a big reason for why they should to come to me.. Even I would hate to bother someone like this. I know family members are selfish , jealous and and playing games and stuff but at the end of the day I have found them only who will actually help me, and am not saying emotionally but in materially.. I have friends for my emotional support.
• India
22 Oct 08
thanx for sharing ur responce
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• United States
20 Oct 08
It sucks, but I know I can depend on my friends more than my family. Your family is supposed to be the one thing you can count on. Unfortunately, too many families are dysfunctional.
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• India
22 Oct 08
yes that too in todays world its money that speaks with relatives and nothing more. the bonding, love and concern all comes if there is some advantage only among relatives.
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@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
20 Oct 08
Hello,Rani! For me my family and relations are great.They always come to assist me when I sought their help.But friends they criticize me and try to exploit my simplicity.So I have very few friends who can be helpful to me,but sorry to say that one of them expired last April.He was really a good friend whom I trusted much.But......Sorry.
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• India
22 Oct 08
good things are mostly short lived dont worry ou might get better friend. and as u have said u have wonderful people close to u. cheer up
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• India
20 Oct 08
i have my frds helpful to me more because my relatives are far away frm me so i have just frds to live with....frds are more helpful than relatives...thts the fact dude!! happy mylotting...gud luck!!
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• India
22 Oct 08
i feel the same too and good luck to u too
@zipk11 (98)
• India
20 Oct 08
in my case friends are more helpful as compared to my relatives...
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• India
22 Oct 08
thanx for the reply gud luck
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• Canada
13 Dec 10
I'll definitely say friends, because friends don't feel as obligated as relatives do, to help eachother.
• United States
28 Oct 08
I find my friends are more helpful because I do not have any family around to help me. I think my sisters would be johnny on the spot if they where near me.
@rkrish (3003)
• India
4 Nov 08
giving is the way what you want to others make you the way what you want to you back..so i am helpful to all and i could say the friends and relatives are so much as even more as more helpful to me back they are really two sides of a coin which has made me to win as much as i can
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