"I think you are insane"

@cyntrow (8525)
United States
October 21, 2008 12:22pm CST
There is a certain person here on Mylot who is so crazy and nonsensical that I cannot bear to read the discussions any longer. Furthermore, when this person replies to a discussion, I just skip it. When I do see a discussion by this person, I just want to say, "Find a good shrink" and leave it at that. I know there are a few of you who are thinking that I am speaking of you. I might be. So...is there any person here or in life, besides me, that you just can't stomach listening to them speak because they sound insane?
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@marciascott (25555)
• United States
21 Oct 08
If you don't like the person you don't have to answer there discussions. I was like this with this one person here. they would flood my box with topics, I am glad Mylot changed the layout. because now you can answer anyone of your friends topics if you chose to.
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@Hatley (164743)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Oct 08
hi cyntrow well I must say you have a lot of courage to' make a statement like that. But anyone can be brave when you are hiding behind a computer, and not face to face with us. No I dont think you are speaking to me, as I have' never seen one of your discussions before. I think I am a pretty sane, sensible person.there are a few on here who put some way out ideas, but if you are intelligent 'enough you will see they are funning you, and are not crazy or insane either. No I havent met anyone here who I thinks sounds insane, or in real life either. My friends are just average run of the mill everday people. If you dont like this particular person or their discussion, why yell about it, just skip it and go on to what you do like? What do you want from the rest of us?
@Hatley (164743)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Oct 08
another thing if I did feel that way about someone on here, I sure as hell would not air it like this.I would feel it would make me look as if there were something wrong with me.
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
Actually, you have replied to a couple of my discussions before and it's fairly apparent that something about me gets on your nerves. And that's OK. You are perfectly entitled to that feeling. Have a great life.
@Hatley (164743)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Oct 08
hi no its nothing about you, just what you said seemed'awfuly 'harsh and super critical. I have met a few whom were different but then i came'to realize that far from being insane they were really brilliant but full of fun and sarcasm, and you know after hearing so many of our woes, its sort of fun to laught at something. sorry if I upset you.Iam elderly and have learned not to judge others as I am usually'wrong and i hate being judged too.
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@mojcica (1512)
• Slovenia
21 Oct 08
ok, I just wanna know...are you talking about me? I cant stand many people really, mostly those pretending to own the world and its wisdom. I cant stand people patronising me or others, looking down on people, being full of themselves. And I do let them know that in my eyes they worth nothing and it doesnt matter how educated or rich they might be or how well known to others, I just dont give a sh*t About them. Im not talking about people here on mylot I havent been around that long, though I did notice some weirdos on here too.
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
No, it's not you. LOL. Maybe I am talking about me.
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@mojcica (1512)
• Slovenia
21 Oct 08
LOL You cant be talking about yourself, because you cant skip your own answers and topic lol But you can be frustrated by yourself that could be true. I think its a general thing and yes we do get that way every once in a while. Its not a bad thing it keeps us on the surface ;)
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@sid556 (31006)
• United States
21 Oct 08
Hi Cyntrow, I actually have quite a lot of compassion for those that are truly mentally ill and especially those that at least are trying to get help. What I really have a problem with and I see it on here from a few is the narrow-minded,judgemental bigots.
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
No, I'm not talking about truly mentally ill people. I'm talking about people who write novels containing few if any facts and a whole crap load of propoganda and they have no clue about the real world beyond their newsletters and propogandized emails.
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@sid556 (31006)
• United States
22 Oct 08
I kind of knew you weren't talking about those that were really mentally ill. I was tongue in cheek trying to bring out that point. I think I may know who you are talking about but not sure. I just try to ignore. He/She for whatever reason is stuck in their ways and nothing you or I could say is going to change that. The more you try to...the more you'll argue with him/her. Ya, I agree, it is so irritating. I'll state my opinon but when I see the response...i know it is useless to argue. And responding to discussions...I may read them ....pretty much just pass them by. I try to get along with everyone here and there are only a couple of regulars that I steer clear of....I chalk it up to personality conflict rather than say they are wrong.
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@misskit (289)
• United States
21 Oct 08
I think most of us have run into people like that in our lives, either in real life or on the net somewhere. I just ignore them. I don't believe in feeding into their particular craziness or insanity or stupidity or whatever. It works for me.
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@marciascott (25555)
• United States
21 Oct 08
I would say just don't answer the topic. You don't have to answer. And if it is a friend, then delete them.
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@psspurgeon1 (1109)
• United States
21 Oct 08
There are people in my life whose words and voice just grate on my very last nerve. I just talked to one yesterday and I had to excuse myself cause they were so freakin annoying... Man, I hope your not talking about me. I'm always self concious and wonder if people think i'm crazy...
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
No, it's not you. I don't think I have ever seen you before. And I know that many people think that I am crazy.
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@Lazers (152)
21 Oct 08
Not yet, no. I haven't been here long enough i don't think.
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@CanadaGal (4304)
• Canada
21 Oct 08
I try not to let those kind of people bother me. I do my best to ignore them, and thanks to my scorpio tendencies, it's getting easier and easier all the time. lol. I've been sitting here for a few minutes trying to think of anyone who I have tuned out in the recent past, and for the life of me I can't come up with any. I obviously do a great job at tuning them out.
@reinydawn (11650)
• United States
21 Oct 08
There are quite a few people here who might fall into that category. Luckily they probably don't live too close to me or I'd be worried :) I just ignore them for the most part.
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@reinydawn (11650)
• United States
21 Oct 08
Ack!! I hope it's not you... I just checked your profile and you live about 20 minutes from me!
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
OMG, I know exactly where you are. It's not me, but it might be one of my other personalities. LOL PS, that doesn't mean that I am another person on mylot. It just means that I might be another person in my head and that is a joke. This isn't directed at you, reiny, but for people who might have it in for me.
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@reinydawn (11650)
• United States
22 Oct 08
Well, I hope they don't have it in for you enough to come track you down! And if they do, don't point them in my direction :)
@Chevee (5915)
• United States
21 Oct 08
I haven't met anyone like that on MyLot, I have met a few in real life. I stay away from them I have a few at work too, that I just turn my head the other way when I see them coming. They have nothing better to do than to make your life miserable. I refuse to go out that way. Don't let these people get the best of you. If you do then they will win. I never let them know how I feel and I refuse to stoop to their level. Hope things get better for you here.
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@Chevee (5915)
• United States
21 Oct 08
I guess I am one of them I didn't get a response.
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
Oh no!!! I just didn't see where I could add to what you had already said and I couldn't come up with a witty reply either.
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@Chevee (5915)
• United States
21 Oct 08
No problem just happy that I am not the person you were referring too.
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@wrdsofwisdm (1070)
• United States
21 Oct 08
I have not been on here much so I haven't run into crazies...but a long time ago there was one that was very combative and made no sense and that one disappeared from myLot. Who annoys me most in life? Three initials..G.W.B.
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
LOL, W is good for a comedy routine, though.
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• United States
21 Oct 08
So true!
@cripfemme (7718)
• United States
21 Oct 08
Sometimes i get those people too,People either want to yell at you or are just you know.On something whenever they type here i don't know why people use all there manors when they get in front of a computer screen. I try to maintain mine and ignore all those that some i can't people who can't behave well.
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
I must admit, I tend to be very direct and sometimes it borders on confrontational, so I'm not so sane myself. But this person is someone who believes everything they read and they spread propoganda as though it were fact. Their posts are novels, but when countered, they refuse to look at anything that their "friends" haven't told them is truth. THe person is paranoid and believes that undesirables are taking over the earth, because they receieved a newsletter or email telling them so.
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@cripfemme (7718)
• United States
22 Oct 08
Oh what fun! I must remember to avoid them!
@sunshine4 (8709)
• United States
21 Oct 08
I haven't met anyone on here that I think is insane. I have met some who are always negative and confrontational. I do the same, just skip over their replies and don't participate in their discussions.
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
I've been called negative and confronational. But, LOL, those people just don't get me. LMAO
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@sunshine4 (8709)
• United States
21 Oct 08
oops, sorry!
@TheCatLady (4695)
• Israel
21 Oct 08
I haven't met one here yet, but on about.com there are a few. There we have the option of using ignore button so I never see the posts of those who bug me.
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
It's been recommended tht mylot get an ignore option, but so far, they haven't.
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@kerriannc (4281)
• Jamaica
21 Oct 08
Hello cyntrow, I wonder if it is me because if it is I would like your recommendation. Sometimes person does has a problem and need genuine help so if it is too be too shy not to tell me the truth.
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
21 Oct 08
NO, it's not you. I don't know you very well and I don't know if we agree on much, but disagreeing doesn't make a person crazy.
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@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
you talking about me?!!hope not!!ohh yeah,i would say some people are like that, to the point that it makes me stop posting or responding!!!andtake a breath, i just hope its not me, i dont think im crazy or something,heheheh, happy lotting!!!
@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
1 Nov 08
NO, it's not you. LOL. I disagreed with you on one post, but you're not a nutcase. You and I just don't have the same views.
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• Philippines
7 Nov 08
ohhhh thank GOD it was not me, i really dont want that someone is mad at me or something...yeah i know we argue on one post but maybe because we have this differences on views in life, but i truly respects yours!!happy lotting...
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
9 Nov 08
I agree. We disagreed on a post. YOu are your views I have mine. Some of my best friends in life and here are people that disagree with me about almost everything. That doesn't make either of us crazy. It's just a difference and differences make the world go round. I'll see you again, I'm sure. Whether we agree or not, I don't see you as a nutcase. LOL
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@lvaldean (1612)
• United States
24 Oct 08
Then again maybe it is just a deficiency, you know they can't help themselves. They are one of those people who actually keep tinfoil stocked up so they can make hates. Ah sh!t was that my inside voice? Dang. My edit button isn't working to well these days.
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• United States
25 Oct 08
I find myself saying a lot of things out loud these days that I never would have let past my internal editor before, too.
@lvaldean (1612)
• United States
25 Oct 08
Me too. My edit button seems to be not working well. My inside voice, you know the one that makes all kind of pithy remarks not for public consumption seems to be on the blink and out of my mouth or out of the end of my finger tips they come. Ah well that might explain the rapid decline of that little ole star. Wah, people don't like me. Waah I am crushed. I am decimated by my lack of popularity. I should get that dang edit button corrected or not. Maybe I should just go for the no edit and oh well.
@JUNGLE (1157)
• South Africa
22 Oct 08
Okay,Okay,Okay,!!!! I myself know that I am quite crazy,loco,mad as a hatter.Is this person me?
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
1 Nov 08
lol, not you.
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@JUNGLE (1157)
• South Africa
1 Nov 08
Thanks cyntrow.!!!!!LOL!!!!!!HUGS TOO.!!!!
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@urbandekay (18312)
22 Oct 08
I have a stalker who follows me round making moronic comments, did have two but one grew up all the best urban
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
1 Nov 08
I'm not surprised.
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@urbandekay (18312)
1 Nov 08
Ha! all the best urban
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• Australia
1 Nov 08
Well, at first I thought I knew exactly who you meant, but the bit about the newsletters threw me. Of course since I never even bother reading the posts from the one I thought you meant, it might well be newsletters he/she is rabbiting on about. There are several whose political philosophy is to the extreme right of Ghengis Khan, and those I would cheerfully put up against a wall and shoot lol, but that's probably not what you're getting at. Lash
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@cyntrow (8525)
• United States
1 Nov 08
It's probably the same person. Her latest discussions are political and she seems very afraid(paranoid). I have tried to engage this person in dialogue a time or two. A person doesn't have to agree with me to be a friend to me, but I was left crosseyed by her reply. I gave up, and I normally don't give up on a person so quickly.
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