finding the right person...

HI When my wife understands me in every momentss. She tells the story of her frnds.My wife is an understands me very will in all thoughts and she is talkative person and likes me a lot. she is to be frank and the open minded nature.My thoughts and her thoughts were same in some of the reasonss.I got a such a good wife and always cares about me. I liked her frankness,right women.

I believe that you will find out if the person is the right one for you if you can picture out living the rest of your life with that person. If you felt love and you knew it is something more than just a physical attraction and it is something that you cant hardly explain but you can see the person as your future spouse then that person is the right one for you. You will just feel that when you find the right one.

nhey16 hi When I first met my husband he was sent in to help me make up a surgical bed in a hurry. I was a nurses aid, and he was the orderly on our floor. The moment we started to talk, we got into an argument over the best way to make a surgical bed. he had a gleam in his eyes, and I felt really odd. Suddenly the thought c ame to me, this is your future husband, he is the one.At that moment I was not too sure I liked him but I found out he had a really wild sense of humor, and I was laughing like a fool. Meanwhile he had this gleam in his eyes, and later he told me he knew he had met the girl he was going to marry right then. I dont even know now after all these years how to explain that we both knew we were meant to be married to each other. He had been married for a short time, and as he told me they were too young, and he really wasnt in love with, just in love with the idea of getting married. He said he had been looking for just one particular woman and then when he met me he knew I was the one. I think it has to be similar likes, similar beliefs and definitely both of you must like c ats, dogs, and children. I never went out with guyswho didnt like pets or kids

My husbands first words to me were Would you like to dance? His next sentence, before he even knew my name was You are going to have my kids. I just laughed and ignored him. Fourteen years and two kids later we are still together. There is no real way to know if someone is the right person for you. Relationships take time and effort to keep them going. What happens is everyone changes. You can either except the changes or you can't. It is how the both of you deal with the changes in each other that will determine if you are right for each other or not.

I am happy for you hun. You have found what I am still looking for. All my relationships have ended badly and there is no one it seems right for me. Perhaps someday I will find that. But to answer your question I don't think there is a way to know for sure if the person you are with is the person for life. So much can happen. In any relationship there is always the potential to work if you are willing to put the time in but unfortunately for me I am the one who puts the work into it and receive nothing back so far. Then it ends. No matter what happens, you don't know till the very end if they were right for you or not.

I really can see myself spending the rest of my life with my current girlfriend. For some perceptive though, I didn't think it was going to last too long before we started going out. I don't think I am the kind of person that would fall in love with someone from first meeting them. But I don't know about others.

It is something that is not always possible to be said in details. may be the heart and head decides this in a way that this person is the right one for us.

For you to know wich is your soul mate you need to spend lot of time with him, to get to know everything about him, his defects and best parts...

In finding the right person for us...all things are beyond our control... We won't know it until it's already there... When you are contented with each moment that you are with the one you love, it's the first sign... Then when you start dreaming together, planning things together and celebrating moment together... These are only few of the ways to know if he/she is the one...

Me and my husband started our relationship in a SMS. When firstly I received that SMS I never thought that it will bring till here we were in love for 3 years. We got married now its been 1 year. So I think its all decided before itself. We cannot identify whether its a right person or wrong person. Im very lucky to have my husband.

my husband has told me a lot of words that would immediately sweep me off my feet. from the day i met him online til the day we got married and live together...he hasnt changed a bit. he'd always make me feel happy and loved

you can feel it even when she hates you you love her altho she just woke up you feel like she is the most beautifull girl in the world!

Time will tell you everything, with the change of time, you need different kind of person.

I have been telling the world. "Hey! I have been looking for you! Please find me soon enough!" Wow, i just don't know but i have been longing for that someone. I hope i could see hat someone soon because I have been needing so much. I don't know but I just need that someone for me to move on already.

I guess there is no exact answer to your question as there are millions of stories that you may hear from this. They are all different but they all end up with the same conclusion they just realized it was meant for them to be together. Love is such a mysterious word that each one of us has its own definition of it somehow. It comes in different circumstances in our lives.

I guess there is something in us that just knows who we are destined to marry... the second time i saw my husband when we were still in college... it just occurred to me that this is the man that i am going to marry... we were not even romantically linked yet... he was just a new classmate walking along the corridor... but at that moment i knew it already...

Hello, Nhey16! I have no partner at the moment, though I know I have never met the right person. I like a girl, but I'm still young to find the right person. I don't think that this girl is the one who is going to spend the rest of her life with me, no matter if I want it or not. In the end, I'll end up finding somebody else. I do not believe in a right person that is supposed to be with me forever. I believe that I might find a person who starts loving me, and then marry to stay together for as long as we live. But it doesn't mean that things were supposed to be like that. I mean, I don't think that there is a script in my life, containing the information about who should be with me. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

Hi Nhey16, After working at this firm over 10 years, I left and joined another firm, thats when I met my husband, after six months of meeting him we were married, now we have been married for 28 years and one of my friends said it wouldn't last so I have proved them wrong. I just knew rom my heart that he was the one for me and it was me that asked him to marry me. Hugs. Tamara

I dont really have a conclusive comment for this one, but, i share your feelings on this so figured i would pop in to comment :) My husband was 33 when i met him, he has been married previously with no children, but wanted children. We now have 2 children, one is 8 the other is 6, he told me that when he first met me he knew i was the woman he wanted to be with and have children with. I often think about that and it still makes me go 'hmmm' and shake my head. Do i feel my parnter is the right person for me? umm...yes, i supposed...we are still happy together after 10/11 years, so i guess i will face the facts and see the truth in the pudding..that many years says something to me :)