Do you still have pending friend requests?

Philippines
October 21, 2008 10:33pm CST
When I was new here at myLot, I have sent out some friend requests to other members here at myLot. Some of them got approved, others denied. Earlier today, I was checking on my pending friend requests and found out that there are still those who have not approved the friend requests I sent to them. I already have deleted all these pending friend requests. On the other hand, those requests sent to me have already been taken care of earlier. How about you?
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28 responses
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
I do not have pending friend requests. It has been a while since the last time I sent a friend request. Luckily, it got accepted. As for those who send me friend requests, well, I have taken care of that already. Besides, I only receive few requests. I think that is because I do not spend much time here so I am not really that famous to receive many requests.
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@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
yes i do have a lot of pending too. but mostly from new members and maybe they are no longer active. all of the pendings are from member who dont even have a 100 post. i know they are no longer at mylot. now that you remind me of that i will delete it all already. so there wont be any pending lol.
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• United States
22 Oct 08
As soon as I see that I have a friend request, I investigate immediately. I never just approve a person, I look over their profile for some good and similar points, then decide if a friendship between us would be beneficial. I have had some friend requests that I sent sit around for a while, but I usually get curious and look to see if I have any sent requests that haven't been answered. If they have been there longer than a month I usually delete them myself. I figure that I must not have been that important to get back to within 30 days, which is time enough to approve or deny a request.
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@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
I have deleted my pending friend request before. I had three who have not approved or denied my request. Maybe they don't like to have me as mylot friend. It's ok. I have enough good friends. I don't get to request friends lately. Have a nice day!
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@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
[b]hi dolce_vita78! as of the moment i don't have any pending friend requests and it is a good news that everytime i ask for requisitions they accept me without any hesitations for i know that these people helps me with the earnings i get here in mylot. whenever i receive notifications of having a friend request, i accept them to. i don't bother if they don't really answer to all the discussions i start up with. haha. just having them in my list is okay. happy posting and happy mylotting![/b]
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
I have checked them last week and I've deleted all my unapproved friend invites. As for friend requests I have some pending but I've deleted some already since I haven't seen them in any of my discussions nor I haven't answered to any of their discussions. I'm still looking if they have answered or I have answered in any of their discussions.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
27 Oct 08
Not even a single one.I deal with them then and there .I hate to leave them at limbo.It pains me.
• Canada
27 Oct 08
I should go through and delete them too, but I'm just too busy trying to actually participate in discussions on here. Who knows? Maybe they'll all come to their senses one day and make a decision. I mean, what's so hard about approve and deny? Geez!
@Corezz (1013)
• Netherlands Antilles
22 Oct 08
I aproved just one about an hour ago.. I have no problem what so ever... I don't get a lot of friend requests :P.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
22 Oct 08
I do not have any pending friend requests. I approve all of them. I do have some pending that I have requested though.
@aweins (4199)
• India
12 Feb 09
hi dolce_vita78, my very dear friend , i dont have any pending friend request. te moment i recieve one, and because i am most of the time online, i seee the profile and approve it i hardly deny deny i believe in making friends than denyig in. and its my good luck that i hav recievd all friend request from very good people with good profiles. my friend request remain ending only when i am not online or i am out for som time and cannot check my mail or come online. other wise i am always very much online.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
27 Oct 08
Hello dolce. I used to have the same case, but each time when I receive a friend's request, I always accept it. I used to have quite a few pending requests for a few months, but with no result and I had to delete them. Anyway I don't blame them at all as each of them has the preference to choose his or her friend as he or she wishes. I am very glad that I have made so many friends here that I have got endless discussions that I can relate to for me to choose to respond to. I am very happy for my friends and value friends' friendship for their contribution of the discussions. Good day to you and take care.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
12 Feb 09
I added someone last week but until now still pending.This person don't do Mylotting that much so i think she have not yet seen my request.I don't add people that much because i know some just ignored and denied it specially when we have still less number of discussions.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
22 Oct 08
yeah. I have noticed the same thing. I've noticed that a lot of people havent been active for months. I think people give up on this place too easily. We need to find a way to show people just how great mylot is before they just leave us forever. It is too sad. :( A lot of these people were starting some great discussions too. I think that they would have loved mylot if only they had given it a chance.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
22 Oct 08
[i]Hi dolce, I didn't check for 2 months already but last time I checked it, I still have a lot and I did it like 4 or 5 months ago! LOL! ANyway, maybe inactive or they just don't like to add more friends...LOL! For request, I have 24 this time but I am trying to add only when they will contribute something/respond in my post since I have over 500 friends but will only see less than 50 who are actively responding my pos[/i]t!
@gemini_rose (16264)
22 Oct 08
I have loads of them if I am totally honest. I have been trying to get around to doing it but I have been so busy lately that when I get some time to come on mylot it is not enough time to do everything that I want to do.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Oct 08
I guess it is just necessary for new members to send friend requests. I also did that when I was still new. I send request to most that responded to my discussions and also to those that I gave responses. Some were approved and there are also some that still pending in my list of friend requests. But those requests that I have got were already approved immediately. But the first move I always do before approving requests is to view their profile, just to know where the come from...
22 Oct 08
Hi dolve_vita78, I have always aproved all my friends request and if you send a friends request it always been aproved, so I ave no problems there. Tamara
@crazy286 (269)
• India
22 Oct 08
there are some people who are not very regular to mylot. i think it is those people who dint accept or reject your friend requests. i dint add any one as my friend till now but i have accepted all the add requests i got. i donno why i dint add anyone. but i dint just feel like. http://www.crewbux.com/register.php?r=crazy286
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
22 Oct 08
Hi friend,When I get a friend request I immediately add them to my friendslist.Even when I request others I would be added immediately.I have no pending requests.Even when am busy my first work is to add a friend's request.Some people dont log on to mylot everyday and some dont give much importance in adding friend requests.But so far this hasn't happened to me.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.