What is the reason for a woman to cheat her husband?

Philippines
October 22, 2008 3:38am CST
i really cant think that i can cheat my husband, it is because the reason why i marry him is because i love him, and he will be the one i live with for life. it is hard for me to think that i can hurt him. but why some woman do cheats thier husband, i dont know the possible reason is, all i know is, that is wrong and should not be done by anyone.
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@makingpots (11922)
• United States
23 Oct 08
There is no good reason. Sure, there is discontentment, loneliness, whatever, ..... even abuse. If you respected a person enough to marry them at one time, then show them enough respect to end your relationship together before starting one with someone else. .......and if kids are involved in this picture! Just get out first, respect another individual enough to tell them you want out. Cheating is far too hurtful and costly to far too many people.
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• Philippines
23 Oct 08
it is better not to get married if we are not set to ourselves that the person we married is the only one we love. if we are not yet contented to single life, better to think and wait more time before we decide to get married.
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@jammyt (2824)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
I don't think I can do this too. I think I'd die with the guilt. I do know some friends who have done this and not really feel guilty about it. generally, it is really the guy who cheats on women and most of the time, we think we cannot bear to hurt our man like the way they can hurt us.
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• Philippines
23 Oct 08
yes thats true,there are also mans that is martyr, knowing her wife cheat him, he still love her wife and still care for their marriage. my husband is not that kind of person, he can kill me if i cheat him.
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@delmeg10 (112)
• United States
23 Oct 08
I don't think there is any reason in the world to cheat on your husband. First off, you chose to marry him. Second off, if it's that bad (abuse)...just get a divorce. I married my husband because I fell in love with him! I still love him today just as much, if not more than the day I met him! We knew that we would be together forever! In fact, two months after we started dating, we got each others names tattooed on our hearts. We're in it for the long haul! And I think that if you marry someone, you should be ready to stand by them for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer! There is absolutely NO excuse to cheat on your spouse!
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• Philippines
23 Oct 08
thats right, i dont know why some woman do that, but for me as what you said, we choose to marry our husband, we should set ourselves to love and care for him for the rest of our life.
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@mjmlagat (3171)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
It could be unhappiness, suppressed pain or regrets, or discontentment. The bottomline is, when a marriage started at a wrong footing and nothing is made by both parties to remedy it, well it could happen. But it's still evil.
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• Philippines
23 Oct 08
i agree with you, it is better not to get married if we think that the marriage will not work, it only give them much pain.
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@aj2006 (1536)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
Marriage is sacred and when two individual decided to get married, they become... one..... Problems that arises in marriage are so many, it entails a lot of understanding, love and most of all communications.. Cheating is one great problem in a couples life, the reasons behind this are unexplainable by both sides.. it is always in a form of denial and it really hurts.. Last week, I attended a wedding with my husband, the Priest in his homily tackles everything about the different aspects of the married life and in his words, he shared the three most important thing to do by a husband and a wife... 1. Take good care of yourself he says, Our bodies is the most important medium of our lives. Learn to take care of it for the rest of our lives. When we take good care of ourselves/our body, we feel good and our loved ones will appreciate that and vice versa.. 2. Respect is a must, communicate with respect. when problem arises learn to talk about it in a proper manner, Solve the problem with an open mind and never ever let other people be involve in a marriage quarrel.. 3. Don't forget to PRAY, the ultimate weapon, the center of all successful married life is when couple PRAY to GOD. I believe that this three will surely work and cheating will be prevented.. HAve a great day!
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• Philippines
23 Oct 08
That three important things really helps the couples to understand the importance of married. Thank you for sharing that. because as a married person, me and my husband still need guides for our relationship.
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• United States
22 Oct 08
I totally agree! There is absoultely no reason anyone should cheat on their spouse!!! Call me old fashioned or whatever but that to me is one of the most disgraceful, disrespectful things anyone can do. To put their own selfish ways before their marriage. I dont think there are many people still out there that hold true to the values and morals that people once had. They just treat marriage as an article of clothing---They look at the outfit, buy it, wear it once and then they are thru and on with the next trend! How pathetic is that!!!
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
i agree with you, if my husband cheat me,i dont know what i will do, hopefully it will not happen, and my husband to will never accept that i will cheat him and of course i will never do. i dont want to hurt my husband and i dont want to have a broken family.
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22 Oct 08
I did cheat on mine - because i was so desperately unhappy. It was a cry for help and it demonstrated to me just how much I needed to get out of that marriage.
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• Philippines
23 Oct 08
if you are unhappy with your husband, you must tell him the reason why, so that you can understand each other. cheating is not the best solution. if you want to leave him, you can file legal separation.
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• India
23 Oct 08
I am an Indian woman. I cannot think of cheating my spouse either. But i guess why woman cheat on their husband may be because they are not satistified with their life or they are addicted to cheating.
• India
23 Oct 08
On the world there is one man have the power who have the $ .So women are coming forward to get participation the money race they are want to become rich and make own name power on their socity. So they cheats their husband to make them powerfull and popular, the most exelent example of this is in the hindi bollywood movie karz "Kamini" who cheats her husband and kill him to get his propeties.This type of things are happening. And another things are if the woman are loving someone the the forcefully marriage done by their father/mother or anyone else then to get their love they cheat their hurband
@jaline (13)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
I hate cheaters! That's why I'll never ever do it. I love my partner (bf) I could not even dare to hurt him by meeting someone else and cheat on him. I will not dare. Maybe they cheat is because that there's no more love that connects them both or because one would like to take revenge to his/her partner for the misdeed that he/she caused before. But still cheating is a crime.
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• India
23 Oct 08
it a atime whr a person do things for her children.
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• India
23 Oct 08
its a time where every women found to be very frastrated towards her husband and cheat him.
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@robert19ph (4584)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
hello nice030481, I don't think there is any reason at all that a married woman can cheat to her husband. It's not good to look at and besides she promised and made a vow to the church that from richer and from poorer, from sickness and from health and the likes. So if there is any reason or problem between them ,they should really work hard to work for it. Rather than cheating him. A problem can never be solved with another problem. And if this happen, it's really a headache.
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@gaisri (154)
• India
23 Oct 08
May be reciprocating her husband..there may be many reasons, both genuine and unreasonable..It also depends on the guy..his behaviour towards her..his attitude etc..but as you mentioned if a guy is genuine and is cheated , then she will reap what she sows one day..
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• Malaysia
23 Oct 08
Lack of communication or attention towards one another could be one of the reasons. Everyone needs love and affection
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@sanzi1201 (644)
• China
23 Oct 08
Not every marriage is happy,and not each spouse combied for true love.So,there are many reasons they don't believe each other .I havn't married ,so these are just my guess.The other reason is that it's just a white lie.
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• China
23 Oct 08
In my opinion, there are many reasons. perhaps , the woman have got some cancer, and she don;t want her husband understand it, so she cheats him. Anyway, if she really loves her husband, she just is telling white lie.
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• Philippines
22 Oct 08
I think the best word to use is DISCONTENTMENT. It can be caused by a lot of things like not being pleased physically, emotionally and mentally. I am not really sure if there is a valid reason for cheating. But based on studies, I was able to find out that most women are "tempted" to cheat on their husbands because there is a space in them that they cannot fill.
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@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
22 Oct 08
[i]Hi nice, I have known someone who cheats her husband and she wasn't happy in their relationship but still not an excuse! Anyway, sad part about it, her hubby has no idea that her first child is the child of another man, her hubby works far from them and will only visit the family every after 2 months! Very complicated situation![/i]
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• India
22 Oct 08
I think there are so many reasons for a woman to cheat her husband. May be she is not a good woman, may be he is not good husband, may be she never loved her husband and she just want to get out of that relationship. But I think if a woman loves her husband sincerely then she can never think of having a relation with other men or to cheat her husband. I think we should never become like that. Not only husband we should never cheat any of our loved ones. Our parents, friends, wife, husband etc...Not only woman even I have heard many men cheating there wife.
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