What would happen if??

Japan
October 22, 2008 8:08am CST
Who is that person that you consider the most valuable person in your life and what would happen if you lose them; lose them in any means...break-up, divorce, illness, death, imprisonement and etc? Would you die too? I lost my bf for 2 years, he's the person I look high up to.. i felt devastated..i lost my dad when i was 16, that's the most painful year in my life..
2 responses
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
People around me always wonder if I will be able to survive if I were to lose my boyfriend...cause they all can see how in love I am with him. I know that I'll have a very hard time if I lose my boyfriend...his really important to me. So yeah...I don't know if I could handle it without him. I'm sorry to hear about your dad, btw..
• Japan
22 Oct 08
seems like i was in your shoe several days ago...:-) I guess what they said is right if one door closes another opens and it's brighter... it's hard to lose people we loved for sometime but we don't have hold on them but we have to release them out of grasp. do you and your bf ever plan to settle down?
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
Yeah, we already have plans...and were actually starting to save money already. ^_^ Hopefully nothing goes wrong.
• Japan
26 Oct 08
good luck to the two of u! ohh..when will i ever get married?
@pkraj111 (2459)
• India
22 Oct 08
My mom and girl friend are the most valuable persons in my life. If I lose them for some reason as you ask I would say my life goes on. I faced some situations like that to say my life would halt. I lost my father at the age of 19 and I thought then my life is devastated. But I am able to be happy again. I can laugh, do work and every thing. So whatever happens I think one adapts to it without which there is no life.
• Japan
22 Oct 08
wow! i agree with you..there's still hope but it would some time for recovery. Just take care of these people. If you know how to take care of them and make them happy while making yourself happy you'll never lose them.
@pkraj111 (2459)
• India
22 Oct 08
I will try my best not to lose them, but life is irreversible. Isn't it?
• Japan
26 Oct 08
it is unpredictable. I think the best thing to do is to take good care of them while there's time and let them know how you love them ..im sure there are lot of ways to do it..