is there any way to delete discussions i started ?

There is no way to delete a discussion. The ones with no responses just stays in the no response section. There are some of the users that visit that area and respond to those discussions, so hopefully some one will respond to one of yours.

the only way to do it is to ask the admins to delete it for you...

Not once it has been posted princessmel. The only people that have the ability to delete discussions or responses are mylot admin. You will just have to bear with having them there always I'm afraid.

Nope, there is no way to delete those discussions. Hang in there. Some discussions just don't get any responses at all, some get discovered later, somebody will respond and sometimes they even take off. I would suggest you make friends with a couple of people here. That increases the likelihood that somebody will look at your discussions.

I do not think there is a way to delete discussions, I will go and see if I have something of value to add to your discussions. Good luck!

There is no way to delete discussions. I don't think that you can even delete a response that you make in somebody else's discussion. I know that one time I made a typo and somehow left out a word in a post that I made in somebody else's discussion, and I could never figure out how to either edit it or delete it and re-type it. So from now on I try to do a much better job of re-reading what I have just typed before submitting my post. :)