did you ever let go easily when it comes to?

@BYOLA2871 (4373)
South Africa
October 23, 2008 6:35am CST
how easy is it for you to loose a loved one when it is time to say good bye,for me i always find it hard to say good bye,and like i responded in a particulare response to a post recently,my cheating girlfriend had so much effect on me that i didnt know what to do or how to say goodbye even though she wronged me,do you find it easy to break away from your girlfriend?or someone you have a feeling for even though they wronged you?
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@hildas (3031)
23 Oct 08
Yes, it is so hard to let go,'even when she was doing wrong'. You had a bond and that is hard to let go off. You must learn to let go though.I hope you get through it.
@BYOLA2871 (4373)
• South Africa
23 Oct 08
yeah i have gotten over it but soetimes when she calls me to say she is sorry not to return to me but just to talk it still feels like having her back but i am in a very happyand wonderful relationship now ,and am so happy my partner understands with me as i respect her as much as i can
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@hildas (3031)
23 Oct 08
Excellent. Glad you are moving on. It will get easier, but I would have no contact with her, 'if you can'.
@Hatley (164484)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Oct 08
hi byola right now I am moving and having to say goodbye'to my best friends whom I have been friends with for forty odd'years, and that is the hardest thing I have had to do lately. It is almost like the time my husband was dying and I knew it was a final goodbye. these things almost break your heart and you feel'like you will never ever be the same again.
@BYOLA2871 (4373)
• South Africa
24 Oct 08
YES I KNOW what you mean being thre done that
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
23 Oct 08
It is so hard to let go of someone you love when they die. I had a very hard time letting go of my dad when I was only 12 years old. I still miss him just as much today.
@BYOLA2871 (4373)
• South Africa
23 Oct 08
yes you are very right letting go is the hardest part of the whole situation especially when it has to with emotions
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@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
23 Oct 08
H[i]i BYOLA, My first serious lover is my husband and didn't experience heart break in the past although there are fling or just mutual relationship before but saying good bye to those people wasn't hard maybe because I have a great job and great friends who are with me all the time plus it wasn't serious relationship though! I have no major fight with my husband and I cannot forsee us having one in the future..LOL! [/i]
@BYOLA2871 (4373)
• South Africa
23 Oct 08
you must be one of those few people who never had to go through a hard relationship and i must congratulate you on that .and i pray that may you never experienc a heartbreak
@despompa (472)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
if somebody did that to me then it's surely a goodbye. no question for that. i just want to preserve whatever little amount of self respect that was left of me. and i would not and could not allow anyone make fun of me. i am a respectful person and i think i deserve to be respected too.
@BYOLA2871 (4373)
• South Africa
23 Oct 08
you know there are times that even in relationships self respect do give way to emotions when you find yourself doing things you never thought possible and its really a tough one sayimg farewell though for some it may be th easiest thing to do.fpr me its hard to say goodbye to that
@bryanski (497)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
Well, no matter how your loved one wronged you, it is still hard to say goodbye. You cannot deny the connection between the two of you. You have been attached. That is why it hurts to say goodbye to a loved one, may it be a sad or happy parting. That's life.
@BYOLA2871 (4373)
• South Africa
23 Oct 08
you are very correct with this answer it hurt me so much then but you wont believe it that i still wished we never had to part ways though am happily married now i still remember some things about the other lady years after,there was indeed a big connection