Overcoming a breakup

break up - in the hour of separation
Philippines
October 24, 2008 11:39pm CST
I'm willing to bet that most of mylotters have experienced a breakup at least once in their lives. Breakups can happen for a variety of different reasons, and it can be very painful experience. I have some tips for moving on after a breakup. First, do not immediately jump into another relationship. Forgive and let go.
3 responses
@supersach (1523)
• India
25 Oct 08
I'm in complete agreement with you that jumping into a new relationship just after you're broken up with someone the WORST thing to do. Often while being in relationships people sort of get used to being with someone and after they've broken up, they crave that feeling and start falling for just about everyone and end up initiating a new relationship and usually it's just a rebound thing and after some time they realise that they don't really like the new person that much and again go through the painful process of the break-up and what's sad is that some people never learn from their mistakes and keep repeating same mistake over and over and then they start wondering why their life is so screwed up. I think it's important to get your ex before you jump into a new relationship otherwise you'll just end up screwing it up once again and become even more miserable and needy than before.
25 Oct 08
It's hard overcoming a breakup...especially if you're the one who initiated it in the first place, for reasons only you can fathom. But then, if you did it for the right reasons, I guess moving on will be a little less painful.
• Qatar
25 Oct 08
A break-up is the worst stress one can have. Surviving after break up is tough, but you cannot stop living after break up. If you are going in this kind of situation, you find yourself finding it hard to cope with whats going on,- dont despair as you can get over this. Try to find some things wherein your mind will be relax, go out with your friends MOVE on...